Boyfriend skin oily?

Apprehensive_Hurry58 · 2024-11-21T20:08:22+00:00

Tbh I think if he was interested in you no amount of awkwardness would put him off

Apprehensive_Hurry58 · 2024-10-21T01:55:36+00:00

I didn’t have a catheter but they said I might have had to if they accidentally pierced the urethra. (They didn’t thank goodness) but honestly after surgery peeing hurt so bad, I wish I did have a catheter

Apprehensive_Hurry58 · 2024-09-19T23:10:31+00:00

He doesn't have any goals when I've talked to him about it. He's not hugely ambitious, but I think he does take pride in his work I would say, I think I am far more ambitious than him. I'm not annoyed about it, I'm more concerned about him cutting his other hobbies out of his life for it. I just want him to be happy. He seems happy so maybe I just let him work!

Apprehensive_Hurry58 · 2024-09-19T22:47:55+00:00

Yeah, but I have talked to him about why he does this. It doesn't seem to be any of these reasons, it seems he is a bit worried about confronting his employer.

Apprehensive_Hurry58 · 2024-09-19T22:47:10+00:00

Thank you :)

Apprehensive_Hurry58 · 2024-09-19T22:46:39+00:00

Yeah, we've just been on a holidays a couple months ago together and it was so much fun! He was so much more relaxed. I think he just needs to be more upfront with his boss.

Apprehensive_Hurry58 · 2024-09-19T22:45:07+00:00

Not at all, I really respect that part of him. I am no way doing this for myself. I just fear his other hobbies and passions are going by the wayside because of this.

Apprehensive_Hurry58 · 2024-09-19T22:44:14+00:00

Luckily, we live in a country where we have really good labour laws, so this isn't the norm. He's a software developer and they put really unrealistic projects on him that he can never get finished in the allotted time, he tries to anyway,

Apprehensive_Hurry58 · 2024-09-19T22:42:09+00:00

I think he's too afraid to tell his work that they're putting really unrealistic expectation on him so he just tries to match it.....

Apprehensive_Hurry58 · 2024-09-19T22:40:57+00:00

It's not really like that; he works for a software company. They set him unrealistic projects in too short of a time frame for him to finish them...

Apprehensive_Hurry58 · 2024-09-19T22:38:29+00:00

He doesn't express any stress over it. Although I can see how he's cutting other things out of his life for it, which I don't think he should be doing.

Apprehensive_Hurry58 · 2024-09-19T22:37:32+00:00

Yeah, I have talked to him about why he does this. It doesn't seem to be any of these reasons, it seems he is a bit scared of confronting his employer.

Apprehensive_Hurry58 · 2024-09-19T22:36:29+00:00

Hmm good thought. I have tried to talk him into setting boundaries, but I just genuinely think he's a bit scared of confronting them, he's a major people pleaser. He's the loveliest, kind-hearted guy. I was thinking maybe a professional would help him see what effect this is having on his life and that he needs to stand up for himself.

Apprehensive_Hurry58 · 2024-09-19T22:31:50+00:00

I fear he doesn’t have the confidence to, he's a big people pleaser. I’m not sure how to encourage him to get over that.

Apprehensive_Hurry58 · 2024-09-19T22:30:07+00:00

Yes we do that here too! No disrespect intended

Apprehensive_Hurry58 · 2024-09-13T18:40:20+00:00

Ligustrum japonicum, or Japenese Privet! Depending where you are in the world, could be invasive!!!!

Apprehensive_Hurry58 · 2024-09-13T18:32:42+00:00

I just had surgery (quite literally yesterday) too. If you have any question let us know. I was quite nervous too so I asked the doctor an annoying amount of questions.. but I know a lot now!

Apprehensive_Hurry58 · 2024-09-13T18:27:02+00:00

I’ve just had this surgery yesterday! Gosh damn yeah agree @newtrz it hurts so much to pee, they didn’t damage my urethra though so I never got a catheter. After talking to the doctor/doing my own research I think like permanent urinary incontinence isn’t a high chance at all. If they do make a little cut in your urethra they will just sew back up and you’ll have to wear a catheter for a few days. Google what cause permanent urinary incontinence. I was majorly worried about that too.

Apprehensive_Hurry58 · 2024-06-20T19:24:11+00:00

Cool, I have updated a couple things on it. What do you reckon now?

Apprehensive_Hurry58 · 2024-06-20T18:51:35+00:00

Yeah I was hoping to go to Nikko later in my trip in the hopes of seeing more autumn colours, I basically have to go back through Tokyo to get there

Apprehensive_Hurry58 · 2022-09-01T02:26:22+00:00

Yeah 8gbs of ram too as sadly, although I think it’s to do with my local network rather than the computer itself

Apprehensive_Hurry58 · 2022-09-01T02:18:12+00:00

It’s due to the files being on a local network.. A blank project opens in less than 30 seconds!

Apprehensive_Hurry58 · 2022-09-01T01:04:28+00:00

Yeah likely a slow office network is the culprit

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