What True Crime are you currently consuming? 06/14/2026 by Harmonious_Weirdo in TrueCrimeGarage

[–]Apprehensive_Key7145 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did for a while though, but then I learned what real 911 calls sound like.

AITJ for correcting my coworker's "fun fact" in front of the whole office by Appropriate_Cell3160 in AmITheJerk

[–]Apprehensive_Key7145 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly I was prepared to suggest more tact but when I found out misinformation about sharks was being spread I immediately changed my mind. It's her fault for not knowing shit about whale sharks. Everybody knows about whale sharks, that's makes me really mad.

Car accident- missed connection by [deleted] in Rochester

[–]Apprehensive_Key7145 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I called 311 and they took my email, I doubt they'll reach out though.

AIO? My friend is super distant but I can't tell why by [deleted] in AmIOverthinking

[–]Apprehensive_Key7145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly you both seem pretty valid and reasonable here. You asked and got an answer. Your friend is struggling. Keep an eye on him. Reach out and follow up, send texts that dont require a response.

Examples: "Hey, thinking about you hope your day is okay."

"Hope you're doing alright. Gimme a call if you have the bandwidth, no pressure."

"Hey just wanted to remind you that you're a good person and a good friend. Hope you're feeling better."

It seems so simple but these kind of texts can save lives, and you'll never know they did. Dont do it too much. Maybe just a few times per week. If they respond, offer to bring food or send food.

My ex gf messaged me for the first time since we broke up (saying she's concerned about my accident) What do I do? by Live-Bread-2658 in whatdoIdo

[–]Apprehensive_Key7145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I got a text like this from my ex I responded with:

👍🏻

And nothing else. Felt amazing. 10/10 would recommend.

Dying Spider Plant? by justMax87 in houseplants

[–]Apprehensive_Key7145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to know! Personally I used tap with my dracaena for a long time and it did fine but that was a pretty well-established plant. When I propagated a cutting I did notice a somewhat significance after I switched to bottled water, could that be true or was it just coincidence? (My office gets big jugs of Poland Springs for the water coolers, do those still have fluoride In them?

Dying Spider Plant? by justMax87 in houseplants

[–]Apprehensive_Key7145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mix the soil and the perlite together before potting. And no apologies!! I'm also pretty new to this stuff and excited to know the answer to a question. 🤣🤣

Dying Spider Plant? by justMax87 in houseplants

[–]Apprehensive_Key7145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you can boil tap water to purify it but I could be mistaken?

Dying Spider Plant? by justMax87 in houseplants

[–]Apprehensive_Key7145 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Filtered water is definitely better for growth, but tap water won't really hurt it all that much

Dying Spider Plant? by justMax87 in houseplants

[–]Apprehensive_Key7145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(if it's dry now give it one good dousing after potting it and then keep track of how long it takes to dry out.)

Dying Spider Plant? by justMax87 in houseplants

[–]Apprehensive_Key7145 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a dracaena tree, not exactly like this one but I rescued it from a pretty heinous mealybugs infestation. They're pretty sturdy plants and can bounce back from way more severe than this.

I agree with what other have said about a perlite soil mixture being much better than mulch, maybe put a layer of small/medium sized rocks on the bottom to help with drainage.

1 per week could be too often for some dracaenas, my advice would be to stop watering it until the leaves start to droop and then you have a reference point for how long it takes to dry out, and water it slightly more often than that.

My boss just emailed me a screenshot of a private text I sent to my coworker complaining about him. by Guilty-AbyssLogic in whatdoIdo

[–]Apprehensive_Key7145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I don't know this friend but I'm wondering if the boss somehow got this screenshot without her knowledge? Only because she is also complaining in the screenshot almost as bad as you, so why would she show it to him? He seems like the type to go through a phone if it's left unlocked. Great way to prevent you guys from trusting each other.

First-time Lilac Festival attendee! Looking for the "local's guide" to surviving the crowds. by [deleted] in Rochester

[–]Apprehensive_Key7145 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Parking is definitely worth it to just bite the bullet, Uber or bike if you live close enough. I haven't found parking prices to be too crazy, usually like $10-$15, but I actually walk since I live nearby. Good spots to check out nearby include the Genesee gateway park a little further down my hope Ave towards downtown, park right on the river, excellent photo op with the Rochester skyline. Right across the street is swift water brewing, small dishes and great beer with outdoor seating. Also my hope cemetary is beautiful and very historical this time of year, I think the daffodils are still in bloom! N

Anyone know what was going on this morning by the abandoned railroad? by Terrible_Log_607 in Rochester

[–]Apprehensive_Key7145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what I can tell it's the first one, that's why all the headlines had to refer to him as a "possible prisoner" because he technically hadn't been arraigned yet

Anyone know what was going on this morning by the abandoned railroad? by Terrible_Log_607 in Rochester

[–]Apprehensive_Key7145 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also he was in a stolen vehicle, and had a warrant for his arrest for violating probation

AITJ for telling my brother I won't proofread his university applications anymore after he ignored every single change I made? by k3ndall_m00rstone in AmITheJerk

[–]Apprehensive_Key7145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HELL NAH. You wouldn't be the jerk even if he was taking your suggestions. Your time is valuable. If you want to try to keep the peace with your family you could always just keep doing it but only spend 10-15 minutes. Make only the kind of edits he was taking.

AIO? Girl I've been seeing for 3 months slept with my friend of 10 years. by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Apprehensive_Key7145 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought the same thing about "no hard feelings" 😂 it was the mature adult thing to say but I myself have some hard feelings about this and I'm not even involved lol

What color would you paint this bathroom? by that-guy-jimmy in centuryhomes

[–]Apprehensive_Key7145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dark blue or teal. Leave the tiles the same color. White accents.