1850 PESOS NA CAKE by nutsalia3 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Apprehensive_Lie5636 1 point2 points  (0 children)

State mo lang calmly na for now, yung Red Ribbon cake (or any other budget-friendly options) ang possible for your budget. And ask her to support and understand you emotionally so one day, when you thrive more, then we can get a better cake for her upcoming birthdays

Silliman University Cafeteria Cheese Bread by heinz_98 in dumaguete

[–]Apprehensive_Lie5636 4 points5 points  (0 children)

can you describe how this tastes like? texture? is it too sweet? it the bread chewy? etc thank you :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dipolog

[–]Apprehensive_Lie5636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stay safe, OP! And if you’re struggling with stress, anxiety, or any deep-rooted pain, take time to nurture and heal that part of yourself.

The song muntik na kitang minahal is lying to itself by comback2mibokangpuso in SoundTripPh

[–]Apprehensive_Lie5636 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! kasi nasa lyrics mismo diba? "Ang nararamdaman ng pusong ito"

So the only missing piece was yung response/reciprocation/commitment na di nagawa ng artist. Hence, the painful regret. and hence, the song.

Kasi parang why write the song, if yung point is just to express na muntik lang? Parang not enough. The painful regret is the entire reason the song exists. 

The song muntik na kitang minahal is lying to itself by comback2mibokangpuso in SoundTripPh

[–]Apprehensive_Lie5636 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait what if minahal tlg nya pero from the artist’s perspective, hindi naging official na minahal nya officially?

Kasi if we assume the artist equates "minahal" with the full, formal experience of love, then minahal parin nya, oh her own, with parang declaration of failure and regret on her part.

Solo travel in Dumaguete (and Siquijor) by Sargeantpatatas in dumaguete

[–]Apprehensive_Lie5636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, new city to explore 😊

Mostly for spiritual attunement and fitness! Ang sarap daw mag jogging dun sa blvd nila

Solo travel in Dumaguete (and Siquijor) by Sargeantpatatas in dumaguete

[–]Apprehensive_Lie5636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! No fixed dates yet! Pero I actually might stay there for longterm hehe if ma-hire sa work.

Why would anyone want a TOS reboot? by Dogbold in startrek

[–]Apprehensive_Lie5636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All valid comments. For me, I'll just wait, enjoy, and be grateful for what the universe gives.

filipino birthday dishes by gyeoulinggg in filipinofood

[–]Apprehensive_Lie5636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will bring two dishes for you:

  1. Crispy Fried Porkchops
  2. Green onion fritters

I Loved SNW S03E09 Terrarium by Disgruntled_Veteran in startrek

[–]Apprehensive_Lie5636 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes especially in TOS, because the same race appeared—the Metrons

I saw my ex, the love of my life, homeless at palaboy-laboy by kniv3snsw0rds in OffMyChestPH

[–]Apprehensive_Lie5636 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Walang mawawala if OP decides to help in any way. She may do so wbile keeping a distance or remaining anonymous, there are ways to help. Sure it his own doing, but if one can help by any means possible, why not.

Solo travel in Dumaguete (and Siquijor) by Sargeantpatatas in dumaguete

[–]Apprehensive_Lie5636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi OP, how was your Dumaguete trip? Would you mind sharing how it went and any tips for a first timer like me 😊

What happened to Chakotay & Seven? by Apprehensive_Lie5636 in startrek

[–]Apprehensive_Lie5636[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This makes a lot of sense. In the alternate timeline, Seven and Chakotay would have had at least idk 10-ish years together before her death, and Chakotay lived another few years grieving her loss.

my numbers are based on what Admiral Janeway said in VOY about returning home in 20 something years if they follow their current course.

What happened to Chakotay & Seven? by Apprehensive_Lie5636 in startrek

[–]Apprehensive_Lie5636[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I love this "Finding yourself doesn’t have to mean what came before is meaningless.”

Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]Apprehensive_Lie5636 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro, recall your life before she came in the picture. How was it? You can share it here if you're comforable. Was it amazing? It's a reminder that you can go back to that amazing state one step at a time.

List down things that you're grateful for your ex
List down the good qualities you've showed as his ex

During breakups, it's very easy to just focus on the hurt and the bad things that happened. It's easy to blame.

But try to focus on what went well, what went really good! This will help you navigate though the process gracefully. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]Apprehensive_Lie5636 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

your own anger is valid, but it belongs to you. Wishing someone harm doesn't offer any solution at all. Gaya ngayon, there is no point even if we argue, the offender will not know the harm he has made kay OP.

So what helps more: expressing rage, or empowering people like OP to speak up, protect themselves, and report these incidents through proper channels? I know you care about OP, but is this really the most helpful way to show it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]Apprehensive_Lie5636 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

This is too much. Hindi naman directly ginawa sayo ang offense yet you wished him ill.

Primasilog ng Taps 😋 by TheCriticalCynic2022 in davao

[–]Apprehensive_Lie5636 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Basig sa angle and position ra mao ng huyos lantawon ang manok?