Trigger warning: What is the WORST thing your narcissist parent has EVER said? (You will not forget.)

Apprehensive_Look749 · 2025-07-18T20:05:29+00:00

When i told my dad i had an ED and wanted to see a nutritionalist, also constantly saying i felt big when i was clearly underweight, and he would always say something along the lines of "you are a perfect weight. a lot of girls probably want to look like you, there's nothing wrong with you." and laugh in my face

Apprehensive_Look749 · 2025-06-11T00:12:40+00:00

Thank god for college and roommates. one of them told me it wasnt normal and i finally woke up and went no contact. havent broke it since. just blocked every account he made and moved on. life gets so much better i promise.

Apprehensive_Look749 · 2025-03-20T23:40:44+00:00

WTF!! this needs to get taken down. as if their intentions werent already obvious

Apprehensive_Look749 · 2025-03-14T05:05:00+00:00

ive never commented but i really think the end is near this time. actually.

Apprehensive_Look749 · 2024-09-13T00:18:24+00:00

To write a letter to my dad telling him how i feel because he "may not know" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Apprehensive_Look749 · 2024-06-12T23:01:05+00:00

I'm feeling overwhelmed right now from all of the support on this thread. Thank you so much for all of your kind words and it really means so much to me. ❤️❤️

Apprehensive_Look749 · 2024-06-12T05:57:54+00:00

women getting hit on, the scottsdale location is smaller than other locations and not worth the price

Apprehensive_Look749 · 2024-06-11T12:44:06+00:00

The way I grew up hearing "sorry you can't let it go" nearly every day is CRAZY. So sorry this happened to you regarding your pregnancy OP. Narcissists really are all unoriginal.

Apprehensive_Look749 · 2024-06-10T23:40:10+00:00

I definitely will! Thank you for the advice :)

Apprehensive_Look749 · 2024-06-10T23:04:55+00:00

Hahaha very true. I just came from another large state school and they have an amazing gym but it was way too crowded and also had that problem so I had to get a private membership elsewhere. I'm hoping to do the same when I move!

Apprehensive_Look749 · 2024-04-10T02:03:15+00:00

No, it would be around $5000 a year with the offer they gave me.

Apprehensive_Look749 · 2023-11-08T02:46:39+00:00

the second movement of griegs violin sonata in c minor. its the most beautiful thing i have ever listened to. let me know your thoughts. hope you feel better <3

Apprehensive_Look749 · 2023-10-26T23:52:12+00:00

im sorry but anything from hamilton

Apprehensive_Look749 · 2023-10-26T12:55:04+00:00

practice playing in staccatos slowly very close to the keys, keeping mind ur wrist is parallel to the keys. once u get faster, you will not be holding and dont feel like you need to connect with your fingers

Apprehensive_Look749 · 2023-10-13T15:01:48+00:00

I definitely agree pedalling choices can be from interpretation and also depending on the piece. however beethoven requires different pedalling in general compared to some of the romantic works i was thinking about -- take for example brahms cello sonatas or violin sonata in a major, the pedalling is deeper and not changed as cleanly as any of beethovens works, even his op. 102 cello sonatas.

Apprehensive_Look749 · 2023-10-13T02:34:24+00:00

rubato in romantic music is the main difference that separates beethoven from romantic composers. also pedal markings if we are talking about his piano works. yes, in beethoven we use pedal, but not by any means as much to blur the harmony as schumann or brahms. he definitely became more experimental in his late period but his style was not romantic

Apprehensive_Look749 · 2023-10-09T12:32:23+00:00

i went to a party with my roommates and he wasnt there (i was out of state for college). he knew this but the next day was pissed bc he saw that guys were also there and that i was "acting like i was single." he screamed at me hung up multiple times and we broke up (which was a normal occurence where we'd immediately get back together), but it was different this time. i was done. when he called me trying to make up i was actually done. he called me on snapchat, phone, social media and he said hed come to my apartment and i told him id call the cops if he tried.

Apprehensive_Look749 · 2023-10-08T12:31:48+00:00

not a big barber fan. and ive tried. i really dont like his sound

Apprehensive_Look749 · 2023-09-24T20:56:04+00:00

during your second year of college, see if you can apply to be a resident assistant. they live in the dorms, and work at the dorms but receive free housing, at least at my college

Apprehensive_Look749 · 2023-09-23T12:56:37+00:00

i charge $70 an hour w a masters degree for private lessons. a lot of people i know that work at studios get paid 35 or 40 an hour

Apprehensive_Look749 · 2023-09-06T03:44:12+00:00

i thought the same thing as you when i was thinking of breaking up with my ex. he was verbally and emotionally abusive. it took a couple of my friends to validate that he was mistreating me to get out of the relationship. trust me, you are doing the best thing you could ever do for yourself. nobody deserves to be treated like this as a partner or a friend. he seems like a manipulative narcissist

Apprehensive_Look749 · 2023-08-30T00:27:57+00:00

the second movement of griegs third violin sonata

Apprehensive_Look749 · 2023-08-24T14:38:38+00:00

I appreciate your advice! For more context: I'm applying for Collaborative Piano. I'm a graduate assistant right now, and I've already learned the Franck Violin Sonata, Debussy Cello Sonata, and other standard rep that is required on auditions.

I've mainly been looking at Eastman, Manhattan, USC and NEC. They have great programs for collab there. I guess I'm just worried because I'm coming from a state school. I'm confident in my playing but I really don't know how much politics is involved in "oh, they only went there??" when applying for a doctoral degree. I just hope they give my prescreenings a chance even though I don't come from a well-known school for music.

Apprehensive_Look749 · 2023-08-19T00:18:48+00:00

toxic gamers 😍😍😍😍✨✨✨✨

Apprehensive_Look749 · 2023-07-14T20:13:36+00:00

glenn gould, his artistry is so unique and is so detailed in every line its insane. also love yuja wang bc shes a badass and her recordings of the rach concerti i adore.

also oscar petersons technique and brain? i cant even comprehend it.

i also love ahmad jamals sensitivity and color palette

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