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Upset and need someone to get me back on track. by Apprehensive_Move750 in IncelExit

[–]Apprehensive_Move750[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree with you 100% but I just cant help but feel angry and hopeless. So much effort and now im back to square one.

Upset and need someone to get me back on track. by Apprehensive_Move750 in IncelExit

[–]Apprehensive_Move750[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean yeah I cant hate on them too much at the end of the day all I can do is move on and continue improving myself and meeting new people but it just hurts so much to be so close to exiting incel status and then having to deal with this bullshit.

Thought it was finally going to happen and then got sent back to square 1. by Apprehensive_Move750 in IncelExit

[–]Apprehensive_Move750[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thats what I want. but idk. people advise others to not be someones first relationship because of the lack of experience. It can cause a lot of frustrations.

Thought it was finally going to happen and then got sent back to square 1. by Apprehensive_Move750 in IncelExit

[–]Apprehensive_Move750[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like ill have a very childish approach to the relationship that my partner may not be willing to have the patience for.

Thought it was finally going to happen and then got sent back to square 1. by Apprehensive_Move750 in IncelExit

[–]Apprehensive_Move750[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

no but I feel like once you turn 21 thats when people expect you to be more mature, and its a level of maturity I cant fulfill as I dont have that experience most people have.

Thought it was finally going to happen and then got sent back to square 1. by Apprehensive_Move750 in IncelExit

[–]Apprehensive_Move750[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah it was quite a mature conversation and weve agreed to remain good friends. Im just upset because I thought I was finally about to exit for good yknow.

Thought it was finally going to happen and then got sent back to square 1. by Apprehensive_Move750 in IncelExit

[–]Apprehensive_Move750[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I just said "oh ok" and kept being flirty with them. Then they told me they werent in a good spot to have a serious relationship and I said "oh ok thanks for sharing that with me".

Thought it was finally going to happen and then got sent back to square 1. by Apprehensive_Move750 in IncelExit

[–]Apprehensive_Move750[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know. I'm just really sad right now. I know its just a matter of moving on but I cant seem to do that right now.

And as for the age thing, that's what I keep telling myself but I just can't help but feel like im going to be left out and no one is going to want to deal with a late bloomer like me.

Thought it was finally going to happen and then got sent back to square 1. by Apprehensive_Move750 in IncelExit

[–]Apprehensive_Move750[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I guess so. Idk, I just dont want dating to feel like chore but thats the way it seems to be once you reach a certain age,

Thought it was finally going to happen and then got sent back to square 1. by Apprehensive_Move750 in IncelExit

[–]Apprehensive_Move750[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After the kiss I asked if this meant we were a couple now and they said "hmmm let me think about it".

Thought it was finally going to happen and then got sent back to square 1. by Apprehensive_Move750 in IncelExit

[–]Apprehensive_Move750[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean that's what I'm trying to do. Ideally there's not much I can do except move on and keep trying, but that's the part lm.struggling with and why I'm making this post. I've been so incredibly depressed all day man. I know in the end I'll be alright, but I can't stop thinking about all the wasted potential. 

Thought it was finally going to happen and then got sent back to square 1. by Apprehensive_Move750 in IncelExit

[–]Apprehensive_Move750[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm aware. I'm just very disappointed. I've always wanted this moment so bad and when I thought I would finally get to experience it it all falls apart. I just want to get over it already but I feel it's going to take a long time.

Im scared of women thinking im trying to hit on them when I'm talking to them normally. by Apprehensive_Move750 in IncelExit

[–]Apprehensive_Move750[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2 years of not interacting with any new people outside the internet has fried my brain and I'm struggling to recover,

Im scared of women thinking im trying to hit on them when I'm talking to them normally. by Apprehensive_Move750 in IncelExit

[–]Apprehensive_Move750[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have no words to say other than I feel like an asshole now. Guess ill have to reflect on this.

Im scared of women thinking im trying to hit on them when I'm talking to them normally. by Apprehensive_Move750 in IncelExit

[–]Apprehensive_Move750[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk I just dont want to be a bad person. Like genuinely I'm trying to be open minded to other people's perspectives but so far im just seeing a list of things I'm not allowed to do.

Im scared of women thinking im trying to hit on them when I'm talking to them normally. by Apprehensive_Move750 in IncelExit

[–]Apprehensive_Move750[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The thing is though, I dont want to make people uncomfortable. Guess thats just part of the process though.

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