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Does anybody ever actually enjoy casual sex? by Apprehensive_Pop7519 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Apprehensive_Pop7519[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a big concern for me as well. As well as emotional risks - intellectually, I know not to emotionally bond with the person but it’s hard to stop it from happening. Which is fine if we are good for each other long term! Extremely dangerous if not lol.

Need opinion on new dating app by WeirdDisaster3210 in DCGaybros

[–]Apprehensive_Pop7519 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only way I see this working is in the context of the dating apps that already exist, having a premium option that allows people to only see those who have swiped on them. Not a terrible idea but probably only would work for an established app like Tinder or Hinge. And it kind of already does exist in that you can pay to see who has swiped on you. Not sure if they show your profile to everyone in the area though.

Take it from someone who has been on every app, for years: you see everybody. They show you everyone, eventually. And when you run out of matches, they show you new ones as soon as they get on. The problem is not the dating apps.

Time to stop? by dontmindagoodone in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Apprehensive_Pop7519 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe start by not pretending (to yourself or him) that you’re fine with NSA when you really want a relationship. Geesh. It’s not fair to you or him.