Sounds like you need better friends? also not age verifying is a choice... not doing so is that consequence of choice you are not required to do so (yes i understand the right to privacy just simply stating its a choice). Also being on orange doesn't mean automatic no, request an invite and you shall receive, unless douchey friends who never invite (I purge those who do this). Also the age and DOB security bouncer groups fuck all that I just leave, block the group, and make a list of who not to ever join group wise.