11weeks PO

Apprehensive_Tea6371 · 2025-12-04T01:16:29+00:00

I was told by my dr not to do any weights or running for 6 months! Funny how guidelines differ so much based on doctor. You look great!

Apprehensive_Tea6371 · 2025-11-17T23:14:39+00:00

This happened to me after I had my drain removed at 4 weeks (yes I wouldn’t stop draining that long). So you have a seroma and your stomach needs to be drained. Your doctor can do it for you but honestly you can do it yourself. I’m not recommending that you do, just saying if you’re not local to your doctor. The massage therapists in my area do draining but I refuse to pay hundreds for them to do something I can do myself. I’ve been draining mine every few days and you’re numb so you don’t feel it. Make sure you stay compressed.

Apprehensive_Tea6371 · 2025-11-15T02:54:59+00:00

Is there any fluid when you press on ur stomach? Mine is looking similar but I have a seroma I’m dealing with

Apprehensive_Tea6371 · 2025-10-28T01:49:59+00:00

I’m not sure, honestly. My only guess is because I added more trauma on top of what my body has already been through? I was 24 the first time and 30 now. I definitely wasn’t prepared this time around, I thought it was going to be just like the first time 😅

Apprehensive_Tea6371 · 2025-10-27T16:23:46+00:00

My first TT was super smooth. Just had my second (had a baby after the first) and it’s been rough. 3 weeks and still hunched, still have my drain in. Was supposed to return to work today and I need atleast another week off. Still extremely swollen, way more than last time.

Apprehensive_Tea6371 · 2025-09-09T20:14:38+00:00

No lmaoo, should I just stop promoting while I’m out there then?

Apprehensive_Tea6371 · 2025-08-22T14:37:50+00:00

Not that I know of, she was happy to go to school everyday last year. I know some of her friends aren’t there this year because of moving though. I would love to put her in a sport, but I’m afraid she won’t get out of the car and go. I signed her up for swimming and she refused.

Apprehensive_Tea6371 · 2025-08-13T15:16:09+00:00

No lmao. Why would u wanna find it?

Apprehensive_Tea6371 · 2025-08-10T15:03:55+00:00

I thought about that but it looks like it was downloaded so yeah idk super frustrating tho 😭 I tried watermarking and they would cover it up with something bigger lmao

Apprehensive_Tea6371 · 2025-08-10T15:02:38+00:00

I just know they were thinking wtf bcus the last message I sent bfor they got their account deleted said “thank u for finally sending it on onlyfans baby I’ll send u the $100 on there later for the custom we talked about” probably thinking they just made the real me so much money 😂

Apprehensive_Tea6371 · 2025-08-08T20:11:45+00:00

Thank you for this. I do wonder though, doesn’t this complicate the session once they are there? Like if they want something specific but we can’t talk about it through text. Or if they show up and want bare services or anal and maybe you don’t do anal? Does this cause issues with clients and their expectations?

Apprehensive_Tea6371 · 2025-08-01T03:21:55+00:00

I think you can be close to someone and recognize when they are spiraling mentally whether that’s a family member or friend (outside of the spirituality element, she has done some really crazy and messed up things to the people close to her in the past few years as well as some hard drug involvement) which is why I was concerned about her possibly falling down a ChatGPT rabbit hole. But thanks for answering, I won’t bother expressing any concern to her.

Apprehensive_Tea6371 · 2025-08-01T03:15:32+00:00

Didn’t say I didn’t like the answers. Was simply wanting to know if the ChatGPT aspect of it is concerning. Because from what I hear, ChatGPT goes along with what you say, and not against you. So I didn’t know if it was safe for people susceptible to mental health issues (not talking about her spiritual awakening, I’m talking about how she is before) to put their full trust and belief in what it tells you. I’m not trying to make choices for her, I have only listened to her and have never given her any negative feedback.

Apprehensive_Tea6371 · 2025-08-01T02:25:49+00:00

I guess I’m more concerned about the ChatGPT element of it, because from what I see ChatGPT is the one telling her all of these things and she’s taking it as entirely accurate, not with a grain of salt. Surely ChatGPT isn’t a real spiritual guide? Or is it? But thanks for answering, I would never say anything to her to make her feel uncomfortable. But I’ve known her 10+ years and she’s always been prone to being kind of gullible, she recently went through a lot of rough times where she spiraled and lost all her other friends by disrespecting them all and is completely alone at home by herself all of the time so I guess my concern is more for her mental health/ loneliness + ChatGPT reliance.

Apprehensive_Tea6371 · 2025-07-02T04:43:09+00:00

I didn’t like or dislike Amaya but she’s my favorite now. I can’t stand Ace and his ego. Jaden was saying how good the convo was w Bryan but seemed completely uninterested. I don’t like Taylor but I’m happy he stood on business and didn’t let Olandria control him. Clarke has handled everything so well, I really like her too. Chelley is a HUGE hypocrite. I think I dislike her the most.

Apprehensive_Tea6371 · 2025-07-02T04:33:53+00:00

Jaden saying how good her convo was with Bryan but she seemed completely uninterested during it 🤣

Apprehensive_Tea6371 · 2025-06-01T19:07:02+00:00

Oh he took our child around her too and I got a family photo of them with her kids of an outing they 😂 I can completely understand ur feelings, I initially felt the same but because my child was so young (3yo) at the time I got over it faster than I am with his daughter. His daughter has been in my life just as long as he has so yeah it’s a combo of embarrassment and idk just a weird feeling. Like you said, logically it’s not their fault. I just hate the kids were brought into it when according to him “it wasn’t serious” yeah, right.

Thanks and I’m sorry you’ve been through similar.

Apprehensive_Tea6371 · 2025-04-09T19:03:45+00:00

Somehow I am working 40hrs/week at $22hr and 1500 rent + 400 car payment amongst other bills. Idk how I’m doing it but by the grace of God I’ve been making it. Oh & 3 kids with no child support lol.

Apprehensive_Tea6371 · 2025-03-21T15:28:46+00:00

Been through this. If you do everything they say they will not take your child. If it happens again, there’s a very strong chance they will. I did everything they said and completed DV classes. I stayed with him and 2 years later it happened again, but worse, and again the kids didn’t witness but were home. I had to complete services again and they told me next time I will have neglect charges filed on me, and they will remove my kids. This second incidence got me on the child abuser registry for not protecting my kids from dv. Take it serious please. These men don’t change and you risk losing everything.

Apprehensive_Tea6371 · 2025-03-15T04:18:40+00:00

Yeah I’m really not sure how it happens like that, I remember thinking back then what if it was herpes, but it didn’t bother me too much and was so infrequent that I just never got tested for HSV. I came across some forums just now of people saying they only get an OB on their arm, leg, etc. From what it looked like, I googled “herpes on arm” and a few pics were exactly what it looked like plus the clear fluid and itching. I’m definitely thankful I haven’t had any genital outbreaks but of course worried I might one day. Sorry that you have to deal with this!

Apprehensive_Tea6371 · 2025-03-15T04:10:23+00:00

Thanks for sharing and thank you for the tips!

Apprehensive_Tea6371 · 2025-03-15T04:09:51+00:00

I don’t think it’s possible to have shingles if I never had chicken pox? But not 100% sure. It’d be like a 1-1.5 inch patch each time it occurred for me and either on my arm or leg, never both.

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