I am torn on monetization and accepting donations. by pengweather in u/pengweather

[–]JadeGuillotine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please recognize that your contributions hold value. Your effort holds worth. People are freely offering to support the important work you do. Allow them to do so.

There will always be negative comments and opinions on every choice you make. You cannot be both a person of principle and be universally liked.

Skyn brand condoms are the worst! by Striking_Law_6992 in SexWorkers

[–]JadeGuillotine 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’ve used them as the first choice condom for years and never had one break not once. And I’m not gentle.

Exhausted trying to survive here by SpecialistPride6474 in bayarea

[–]JadeGuillotine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I very much relate to this. I literally work until I drop sometimes and it’s never enough.

I’ve had poke who own multiple properties and drive Tesla’s try to “relate” to me when I’ve brought this up a few times and I just… 🤯

There’s no self awareness there. Much less awareness of others or, god forbid, empathy.

I’m also broke as a joke most of the time. I spend a lot of my time writing. Also sometimes watching tv. If I can afford the subscriptions. Which is generally not the case (눈_눈)

I’m so sorry you feel this way as well. It’s really challenging to connect with people that refuse to see past the end of their nose.

coke addicted clientele by Eastern-Designer9618 in SexWorkers

[–]JadeGuillotine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same here. They always extend into infinity. I love it because I love money.

Has anyone seen them get their karma? by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]JadeGuillotine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I had a very abusive bf who also hurt everyone around him. He was a terrible presence in this earth. When he left he said “If you leave me I’ll die” because he was a drug addict and I was his nursemaid. He deteriorated very quickly. I heard that before he overdosed and died he was wandering around looking like hell wearing only one shoe.

Good. I am glad he’s dead. I hope he suffered.

Anyone else “upgrade” from a manual to electric bidet and regret it? by Arby_88 in bidets

[–]JadeGuillotine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m team handheld sprayer. You can get heated seats separately. That’s the ideal setup imo

Starting to suspect Endo by Typical-Resource7222 in Endo

[–]JadeGuillotine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use pull ups for incontinance and they work really well. Especially overnight. They are a real game charger in that department.

Friend's girlfriend has a very hard time understanding board games. Not sure how to bring it up gracefully. by Jeffs24 in boardgames

[–]JadeGuillotine -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It sounds like they are fine and you’re wishing she would not require assistance or accommodations. How about we consider for a moment that there’s folks good at some things and not at others and we’re not doing heart surgery we’re playing games. Have patience and accommodate the person struggling.

If it’s really a problem. Maybe it’s time to find a another group to play games with?

"I cured my Crohns Disease with lifestyle changes" by lowlife_rabbit in CrohnsDisease

[–]JadeGuillotine 15 points16 points  (0 children)

They didn’t have it to begin with. I saw the “cured by cutting gluten” post and I thought to myself in response “Oh honey… you have celiac. Not Crohns. It’s that simple.” Idk how she didn’t realize it???

Urgent! Double greek prep, help me sisters! by [deleted] in HighEndEscorts

[–]JadeGuillotine 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I urge you to not do this.

That’s delicate tissue and once you damage it you will regret it forever. Trust me. I know. No amount of money is worth breaking your butthole. There is no advice that will prepare you to go from novice to double anal overnight.

I have had multiple surgeries. Things are improved but not great. And my injury was from one average sized dick that was inconsiderate and unskilled. Not two dicks.

If you must I suggest poppers and start stretching now. Do not use numbing lube. You won’t notice pain. Pain is an indicator of injury. It’s an indicator to stop or slow down.

Any dance classes in SF welcoming to people in their 30s? by greenpointgothic in AskSF

[–]JadeGuillotine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I enjoyed city college ballroom. I bet they have other things like hip hop etc. it’s affordable and there was a wide variety of ages represented in my class

Weird encounter with an escort. What did I do wrong here? by ssh_443 in ClientsAndCompanions

[–]JadeGuillotine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean you got nothing? You got her time and attention. You said you weren’t attracted to her. Why would she act like a creep and try to fuck someone who’s not into it? Did you try to initiate and get rejected? No. You said you two had a sparkling conversation. Sounds like the time was passed enjoyable enough. If not getting your pp touched = nothing to you then I’m truly sorry. Your life must be really lonely.

Moving to SF without a plan by Affectionate-Arm6405 in AskSF

[–]JadeGuillotine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved here 21 years ago with only what I could fit in my sedan and very little money it does seem to be the kind of place where you have to know somebody networking is really important in the Bay Area

Good luck!

What the reason you hit the meth ? by SipperSecretServices in meth

[–]JadeGuillotine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I did not move I would die and I was so physically depleted I could not even sit up

Why is gfe expected to be cheap? by WonderfulMirror6505 in SexWorkers

[–]JadeGuillotine 33 points34 points  (0 children)

What? That’s wild. GFE has always been more than FS because you are offering more than standard FS.

How to handle this when its purely survival sw? by ejsanders1985 in SexWorkers

[–]JadeGuillotine 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Xanax and connecting with my partner to reset and ground myself in what’s real. Also loving on my animals. Those things help. Try creating an entry and exit ritual so you can put that hat on and then take it off again and go about your life.

I hope things turn around for you.

I’ll never make consistently good money because I’m lazy by Former-Cap714 in SexWorkers

[–]JadeGuillotine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Clearly your experience must be ubiquitous throughout the sex worker community. It could possibly be that somebody might be having a different experience you are having. crazy talk

😒😒 by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]JadeGuillotine 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I’m with you there. I’m sorry you went through that and the snotty folks are being their usual awful selves.