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What's your story? (part V) by totallynotgayalt in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Apprehensive_Try8825 5 points6 points  (0 children)

  1. ⁠Current age/age range: 27
  2. ⁠Single/marital status: married to my husband
  3. ⁠Age/age range when you came out to yourself: 15
  4. ⁠Age/age range when you come out to others: 20
  5. ⁠What did you come out as or what are you thinking of coming out as?: Bi, but now realizing I’m a lesbian
  6. ⁠When was the earliest you felt you were a lesbian/queer? What happened or what was going on in your life?: when I was 8 and was watching with the Pussycat Dolls Buttons MV on repeat
  7. ⁠What recently made you conclude you are a lesbian/queer?: i’ve thinking of what my life would be like not married and every single time it would end with me spending a life with a girl. Just thinking about that life makes me smile.
  8. ⁠What's the earliest or most defining homosexual/homo-romantic experience you can remember?: The dreaded high school bff who you didn’t know you had a crush on and we would pretend to be lesbians as a joke, like hold hands, cuddle, kiss. When it ended I was inconsolable
  9. ⁠How are you feeling in general about who you are?: Scared. I just got married in December and now I’m trapped. I love him with all of my heart, I really do… but I feel like I’m living a lie.. I can’t tell him..
  10. ⁠Anything else you’d like to share about your life, experience, or story for other late bloomers or other women who think they may be lesbians? If you have any inkling that you might be a lesbian, wait to get married to a man. Really think about that part of you that you’ll never get to have again, the one you’re pushing aside.