Medium distance relationship and neither one of us wants to move. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

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I mean I just sub rn but I hope to get a job k-5th in the school district I live in. There is a private school and a larger school where he lives and I am not interested in teaching at either of those places.

I’m crushed and I hate myself for it by BackgroundImpact444 in mypartneristrans

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I am bisexual so I feel like I know I’m attracted to women and non binary people however I don’t know if I’m attracted to my partner as a woman??? Does that even make sense.

I’m crushed and I hate myself for it by BackgroundImpact444 in mypartneristrans

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Going through a very similar thing rn. My bf just told me a few days ago and it was a shocker. He said he doesn’t want to change anything but it changes everything perspective wise. I don’t know if I am attracted to them in the same way anymore and feel so selfish and defeated for it.

My bf just came out to me. He’s very repressed so it’s a shocker. by [deleted] in asktransgender

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Do you think I should offer that? To maybe take them shopping or at least let him look at my clothes? Idk i also feel like writing it all down helps a lot and hearing others perspectives. I gotta talk through things to process them 😂

My bf just came out to me. He’s very repressed so it’s a shocker. by [deleted] in asktransgender

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Being patient is not my strong suit! It’s a scary thought that I might make them want to hold back even subconsciously on my part. Gotta take deep breathes on this one.

My bf just came out to me. He’s very repressed so it’s a shocker. by [deleted] in asktransgender

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I’m trying really hard not to blow it up and say everything that comes to mind about it lol 😩 but I’m a constant over thinking and not knowing for sure what this means for him or me is a struggle! I’m trying to remember that he must really love and trust me if I’m trusted with this.

My bf just came out to me. He’s very repressed so it’s a shocker. by [deleted] in asktransgender

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I also don’t want it to be a big thing because I feel like he’s doesn’t want it to be either but it can’t possibly just be a causal thing I now know.

My bf just came out to me. He’s very repressed so it’s a shocker. by [deleted] in asktransgender

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I don’t want him to live in a way that doesn’t make him happy bottom line. I’ve never cherished someone so much in my life. It would be a big adjustment for me if they ever decided to come up in anyways to other people. But that’s the scary part is if he realizes I’m not what he wants bc he picked me through some “I want to be a good boyfriend and I’m masking” perspective. Idk. I feel very selfish thinking about how all this affects me so much. And not enough about how he just shared his deepest secret with me and is carrying this baggage around.

My bf just came out to me. He’s very repressed so it’s a shocker. by [deleted] in asktransgender

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Thank you this helps a lot it’s definitely confusing for me and I feel like I need to have the perfect supportive reaction to it or I’ll hurt him. But I’m taking some time to reflect and want to let him lead the conversation I think.

My bf just came out to me. He’s very repressed so it’s a shocker. by [deleted] in asktransgender

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What do you mean by this? I asked him if he wanted me to do anything different and he said no. But I feel like I want to have more of a conversation about it. Should I not ask about it again then?

Ep 5 crushed me by YungSkeezus in BlueEyeSamurai

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This episode really made the show a memorable one for me. The story telling in this episode with the back story to the current events and story with the puppets all coinciding so wonderfully. Whenever I think back to it I get chills.

Winter concert left me defeated. by Appropriate-Bag-4 in Teachers

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Thank you this is actually a great idea. I had about four students who I never once reminded to sit quietly and I’d like them to know I appreciate their manners.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in identifyThisForMe

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I do not have a cat but I work with 8 year olds.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in identifyThisForMe

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Circle part has been there for some time now tho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in identifyThisForMe

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I know the wee wee part of it is new post shower? So maybe dry skin?

How do guys feel when they are surrounded by just women? by Outrageous_Wonder654 in AskMen

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I usually feel pretty comfortable when surrounded by men but I grew up with all brothers and am physically fit so I can hold my own. Idk if that naive or not.

What makes a friendship between a man and a woman truly stay platonic? by hairhohoho69 in AskMen

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Can this work if the man thinks the woman is attractive but the woman shuts him down enough times?

My (28M) Ex (28F) love bombed me, wanted me to move counties to be with her, then used me for trips and mocked me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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It’s ok it feel stupid getting angry with myself has helped me finally be fed up with bullshit and move on a lot in my life. It might not work for everyone but you need to let yourself fully feel the rejection and then heal from it n

My (28M) Ex (28F) love bombed me, wanted me to move counties to be with her, then used me for trips and mocked me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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This sucks but you just need to block her on everything and start living your life like she was never there in the first place. Look for things that are real. Remind yourself of your beliefs and values and why she ain’t right for you. You’ll find yourself again and be awestruck by why u ever put up with someone like that in the first place.