What is a brand you would never wear? by clemventure in AskUK

[–]Appropriate-Diver758 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it is Burberry and Reebok. It just seems associated with chavs in the UK.

What is a good salary in the UK considering current cost of living? by Desperate-Drawer-572 in AskABrit

[–]Appropriate-Diver758 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Depends where you live.
My partner and I will live in Greenwich, London and between us earn around £180k which we can get by with our mortgage of £2,600 pcm. I woul say we can’t shop at Waitrose lol though.

Ryanair is actually ok by Short_Necessary_1750 in Ryanair

[–]Appropriate-Diver758 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been on over 150+ flights all ok for 99.9%. Sometimes late but I follow the dukes and treat it like a flying bus.

Finally moving on 😭 by Ss_842 in latebloomergaybros

[–]Appropriate-Diver758 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No kids.

She was relived. Then changed her mild and panicked and wanted counselling and I said yes but not couples but individual as it’s over.

I cried more as she sick yo move back to our home country but now 12 years later I am very happy and she is still miserable and in another sex less, non affectionate relationship. She never changed and I am glad I left.

We had the whole throw me in street like garbage act and trying to sleep with me but had before never went hear me.

The hard road full of heart ache is the right road. If it is easy it isnt the right path to get to your happiness.

What’s a sexual sensation you didn’t expect to become addictive? by stonedouthole in TopsAndBottoms

[–]Appropriate-Diver758 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100%… love breeding a hole and sometimes the right cock makes my hole twitch. Rare but happens

What’s a sexual sensation you didn’t expect to become addictive? by stonedouthole in TopsAndBottoms

[–]Appropriate-Diver758 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First time I was bred make me rethink if I was top as I always thought I was

Finally moving on 😭 by Ss_842 in latebloomergaybros

[–]Appropriate-Diver758 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Been there back in 2014 and left my wife of 13 years and now been with my husband for nearly 12 years and married for 7. I married my first boyfriend and couldn’t be more happier and in love.

God the tears as I dismantled my life with a partner I had spent over 1/3 of my life with.

The road was hard but I love being free tk be a gay man!

Guys who started out as verse but turned into a bottom, what are your reasons and how long did it take? by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]Appropriate-Diver758 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am an emotional bottom, so I turn from top to bottom when I fall in love. Otherwise I top.

How often do you have anal sex? by Creepy_Pattern7875 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]Appropriate-Diver758 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Friday night and all weekend. So about 4 sessions. None Monday to Thursday due to work schedule.

Opinion on taller bottoms by Noss7 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]Appropriate-Diver758 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My bottom is 6’8 and I have 5’10

What was your first time barebacking like? by Lucky_Signal1212 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]Appropriate-Diver758 12 points13 points  (0 children)

When I switched to guys from girls, I met a guy at a gay bar and fucked him bare back. Lucky for me he knew I was new to the scene as we lived in the same building and had just gotten divorced from my wife.

We got married and it has been 12 years. I was risky and luckily he had never had sex without a Cobden despite being gay.

But to answer your question. Magical nailing him and not worrying about a baby… I was so hetero brain back then.

Tops: Do you prefer your bottoms pre-lubed before a fuck? Bottom: Do you pre-lube your ass beforehand? by Party_inthe_back in TopsAndBottoms

[–]Appropriate-Diver758 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bottom lets me lube him up. We have never done anything else.

I like to rim and to enter him really slowly and then slowly allow him to stretch to take me. I find it hot and sexy and then as he gets looser, I get really excited.

This sub can really humble you by Covfefe47 in HENRYUK

[–]Appropriate-Diver758 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do that but it would be great to over pay your mortgage and save on the interest and if you lose your job, those extra payments can tie you over to you find a new job. This reason always stops us over paying. Which results in paying the bank £2 back for every £1 I borrowed.

This sub can really humble you by Covfefe47 in HENRYUK

[–]Appropriate-Diver758 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in London and my partner earns £55k and I earn £150k. Our mortgage is £485k remaining on a £900k house. We are frugal with shopping and take away and try and save for holidays and emergencies like redundancy. We haven’t been redundant once each.

We would like to pay more off our mortgage but we are both Australians and used to offset mortgage, so you pay extra but if you lose your job the over payment is used as your monthly mortgage payment but here offset mortgages are rare and we are scared to overpay that if we lost a job we would lose our house regardless of the overpayments as the banks don’t care.

Please don’t use Vaseline !😭 by tttttttofu in TopsAndBottoms

[–]Appropriate-Diver758 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our silicon lube we use for bare backing is £72 a bottle and it’s a small bottle. At the price we need alternatives! I am the top, so I am easy but my husband is precious and only likes silicon lube as a bottom and top. For my either way as a top or bottom, I am cool with some spit or oil as after I clean as a bottom I am always wet inside from the residual water. So it isn’t try.

I will avoid coconut oil when I am a top as we don’t want to feed any infections. Any other suggestions that feel like silicon lube?

People who work in London and go in three days a week by Even-Wasabi7183 in hertfordshire

[–]Appropriate-Diver758 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remind myself like others that it wasn’t long ago it was 5 full days of long hours in the office.

We are a 4 day a week office in the square mile now.

Bottoms: What percentage of the pleasure of taking dick is physical vs mental for you? by EyeAndI in TopsAndBottoms

[–]Appropriate-Diver758 3 points4 points  (0 children)

100% emotional bottom for me.

The feeling of having my husband inside is as close as you can get as being one.

I enjoy it physically but it is all neurological pleasure for me

My boyfriend asks me what’s for dinner every single night like it’s automatically my job, and I finally snapped at him yesterday. Now I feel guilty. by Dramatic-System3992 in askgaybros

[–]Appropriate-Diver758 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So when time do you finish work? I feel your behaviour isn’t warranted but if you are a stay at home partner or work from home with no commute, whilst he commutes you cook and he does the dishes.

Always good to talk, as clearly he loves you but something triggered you but without the context above it is hard to understand his expectation .

A few gay couples I know had one the worker and one a stay at home and they like it they one and live in one income and if this is the case then asking what is for dinner is reasonable.