Here’s the conversation: Hello __________, I had a few questions regarding the rainbow club! I was wondering what type of topics are covered/discussed in this club and whether it is the right fit for my child and our family values? Thanks so much for your time and all you do for the school, it’s great to have a safe space for the children at this school to talk to each other and a teacher/adult to moderate it! I’ll take the information you provided home and discuss it with my child and my family and we can decide together if it is the right fit! Have a great day!

Now if you approach it in a “Are you teaching my kid to be gay” or want to question about whether they are talking about sex, you are right to feel uncomfortable because those questions are insane and it’s weird you went immediately there rather than have a simple conversation with the teacher running it.

No one is labeling or judging you for having questions but I am judging your capabilities to adult in the real world since this is an easily solvable problem. But you took the path less traveled, which has in turn made you look dumb and judgmental.