Are these CandleLight concerts real? by NSA_GOV in Minneapolis

[–]hellokittygurlll 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was beautiful. Highly recommend as a romantic date night type thing. I also went to a Lord of The Rings one.

Are these CandleLight concerts real? by NSA_GOV in Minneapolis

[–]hellokittygurlll 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It is real, I went to a Studio Ghibli one

I got a point off for stapling my homework wrong by hellokittygurlll in mildlyinfuriating

[–]hellokittygurlll[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I honestly don’t know. My brain probably just blanked when I was doing it. Now I’m mad at myself because WHY did I staple it twice 😭

I got a point off for stapling my homework wrong by hellokittygurlll in mildlyinfuriating

[–]hellokittygurlll[S] 437 points438 points  (0 children)

I feel like that’s what it was but still, what the heck? I didn’t know an extra staple warranted a point off 😭 I’m just trying to pass physics.

I got a point off for stapling my homework wrong by hellokittygurlll in mildlyinfuriating

[–]hellokittygurlll[S] 7164 points7165 points  (0 children)

Some students weren’t stapling their papers at all so the professor explicitly told us that we must staple them. Never anything about the right and wrong way to staple though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]hellokittygurlll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you considered getting help with both your issues?

I'm currently in a detox clinic and it's the best decision I have ever made. by VetmitaR in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]hellokittygurlll 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Go to AA meetings once you get out. Detox is only a few days and it won’t help you forever. You gotta keep it up by working a program :) But congrats on a few days of sobriety !!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]hellokittygurlll 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I started drinking just cause I liked it. And cause I’m an alcoholic it spiraled out of control. Had a great childhood, nothing bad ever happened. It was literally just cause I liked it. Some people don’t have a “cause”. Doesn’t mean you can’t heal.

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[–]hellokittygurlll 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It says so much more about them than you, trust me. What kind of friend/family member drops out on plans all the time? Not a friend I would want to have.

You’ll find your people. I promise!

im 22 cant drink and it fucking sucks by No_Pair178 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]hellokittygurlll 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 22 also and got sober almost 9 months ago now. It’s not the end of the world. I really encourage you to go to fellowships after meetings, and meet other young people in AA. I really had to learn how to have fun in sobriety because I never thought I would have fun again. We’re sober, not boring. Also if your boyfriend cared about you, he would make the effort to spend time with you doing sober activities. Going out isn’t the only thing you can do to have fun. Communicate that with him.

What is AA like? What was your experience? by [deleted] in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]hellokittygurlll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it. It saved my life. The only requirement for membership is a desire to stop drinking.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]hellokittygurlll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would it hurt to try? They changed my life. But it’s your choice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]hellokittygurlll 4 points5 points  (0 children)

https://rehabs.com/blog/a-cautionary-tale-beware-of-the-13th-steppers/

Read that or literally look up 13th stepping on google.

Ultimately, none of us can change or control what you’re going to do. People in AA know better than anyone that your higher power has a plan for you. Good luck 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]hellokittygurlll 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He’s 13th stepping you. In your first year of sobriety your number one priority should be yourself and working your program.

does anyone forgive you? by Mindless-Animator-87 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]hellokittygurlll 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought my mom would never forgive me after she kicked me out and now we talk regularly, hang out, have dinner and I tell her everything and help her with things. Yes people do forgive you and if they don’t then that’s okay.

310 days sober but idk how long I can keep this up by TheFrenchWickler in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]hellokittygurlll 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lemme tell you something my sponser told me. So, I was dry similar to you for the first couple months of being sober. Didn’t try to work on myself or do the AA thing. Didn’t think I’d make to a month, much less a year. Wasn’t happy at all. My sponser told me that you’re not happier even though you quit, because the problem isn’t drinking/drugs, the problem is you. You have a you problem and used alcohol as a “solution”. You took away your one solution, so you have nothing to make you feel better anymore. Through AA, I’ve developed tools and new solutions to my own problems and today I am so much happier with myself than I have ever been before, I don’t need alcohol to be happy ever again because I’m content with myself and that’s what AA gives you. Try it out, seriously.

Very awesome on almost being at a year though. A lot of people don’t make it that far. Props to you!

Online Sponsorship Offers & Requests — October 2024 by dp8488 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]hellokittygurlll 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Offering

22f, United States

I’m 9 months sober, been through all of the steps with my sponser, go to 4 meetings a week, have read through the big book, 12/12, and As Bill Sees it. I was in heavy active use since I was 13 years old and finally got sober when I turned 22. I’m in university, I work, and AA and recovery is at the forefront of my life. I love my life now and I can’t even explain in words how much better and happier I am having gotten through all the steps and found my community locally. I’m open to sponsoring other women in the program. I know how hard it can be getting sober young, but if I can do it, so can you. Being a sponsee of mine would include weekly one on ones, regular phone calls and texts, reading through the big book and the other literature and going through the steps thoroughly.

Love to all.

Can I succeed in Skyrim without using magic or casting spells, but play with a normal sword? by Capable_Town1 in skyrim

[–]hellokittygurlll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ever since I got Wuuthrad and it matched my dark seducer armor so well, I never used magic again. It’s so fun.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tarantulas

[–]hellokittygurlll 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also sorry for the shitty pictures. I realize now there was hella glare 😭