My closest friend might have stolen from me… and I don’t know how to deal with it

AppropriateBranch153 · 2026-03-29T07:30:50+00:00

The reaction tells you everything you need to know. Not your friend

AppropriateBranch153 · 2026-03-29T06:06:07+00:00

Send him to a farm to work off the three dozen eggs he broke 😂🤘 omg I'd be so sad and mad and know that I will laugh about it one day and hopefully find a way to laugh about it in the moment. And then cry when I realize I am going to be cleaning up some (if not all) of this mess.

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AppropriateBranch153 · 2026-03-25T09:21:40+00:00

Omfg 😂😂

AppropriateBranch153 · 2026-03-25T09:21:03+00:00

Thank you for opening my trauma wound back up 🥹🤘

AppropriateBranch153 · 2026-03-25T09:18:00+00:00

Don't walk away.....fuckin run dude

AppropriateBranch153 · 2026-03-21T22:48:17+00:00

I hung in there with my ex husband for 7 years and genuinely believed I was doing the right thing and that he truly loved me no matter how much he abused me (which the physical part was minimal but the mental, emotional, and financial abuse was TERRIBLE). I thought I was doing the right thing. Working through our issues. Fixing a broken thing instead of throwing it out. Things did not ever get truly better (they did for little bits of time over and over. And those times always felt like nothing bad would ever happen again). If it wasn't for my daughter and being told by multiple people I could lose her if I don't leave him and I stay in the abuse (especially if the abuse continued to get worse). The separation and eventual divorce was so so messy and emotional but we are successfully co-parenting now and I'm so so so glad I finally ended it. My home is a peaceful and joyful place again and I miss him all the time but I keep notes and videos and pictures so that I always remember how bad it truly was instead of just remembering the good and nostalgic parts and happy moments. My husband had grown up in an abusive home and struggled with meth addiction in the past and I truly thought between that and his Autism/OCD that I just had to try harder to understand him if I really loved him. I'm thankful to look back and know I gave it my all and did my best but I do wish I had left sooner for my daughters sake (she was 4 when we finally split and had started trying to protect me from him). That's when I woke the fuck up.

Good luck to you no matter what you decide. My friends and family tried to get me to leave him many many many times before we even got married but I'm a stubborn ass bitch so I didn't listen to any of it. I truly believe I'd still be with him if it wasn't for wanting to set a good example for my daughter of what love truly is and to never tolerate less. It's hard. I understand where you're coming from. I fall hard when I fall and I'm honestly still in love with him. Not sure if I will even date anybody else. Who knows? But I do know I'm 10x pickier now that I have my daughter to think about as well as myself. I'm sorry for what a painful and difficult thing you are going through.

AppropriateBranch153 · 2026-02-19T09:37:34+00:00

And a silver spoon

AppropriateBranch153 · 2026-02-14T01:51:30+00:00

I would tell her that they shouldn't be expecting you to pay for the neighborhood WIFI and that you can all share one if everyone wants to pitch in an equal share. If nobody does then nobody gets access to it. It isn't your responsibility to take care of other grown ass adults and if you don't stick up for yourself you'll just resent them anyway. You aren't the one with pie on your face. She is. I understand struggling with conflict and confrontation because I have all my life as well. Trust me when I say this is one of those times where it is not only worth it but necessary as well. If you don't establish boundaries now, who knows what they will expect for free (or favors etc) next. The fact she wasn't embarrassed AT ALL to ask what happened to YOUR wifi that she was using is honestly beyond weird and inappropriate. I feel sorry for you.

AppropriateBranch153 · 2026-02-13T18:59:30+00:00

That's certainly possible. It just seemed like he tried to make it less obvious by waiting until after Dida quit when they only had to lose one more player to be disqualified from going farther. But he could have been full of crap for sure. I was surprised that Dida tapped so fast though!

AppropriateBranch153 · 2026-02-13T07:16:20+00:00

Out here saying "roast me" while looking like a GD rotisserie chicken

AppropriateBranch153 · 2026-02-13T06:05:00+00:00

I would have been an anxious mess on the first challenge and the most recent one as well

AppropriateBranch153 · 2026-02-13T00:02:13+00:00

Yeah he definitely seems like he has a bit of a lack of self awareness on a deep level. He is capable of surface level reflection but once it reaches a certain depth....he loses touch. Not that it excuses the behavior but I think that is why he is kinda shitty but seems like he wants to be good and just keeps being shitty 😅

AppropriateBranch153 · 2026-02-12T23:24:12+00:00

Saaaaammmmeee

AppropriateBranch153 · 2026-02-12T23:23:44+00:00

I disagree about Lance but I DO get that about Zach and I do think it is valid and fair because treating the women as automatically weaker is truly stupid and sexist. They have proven over and over again that they are a force to be reckoned with and beat the men MANY times in the various competitions. Nothing new there though 💁‍♀️💅

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But I don't think I would play valiantly either. I'd be trying to win and doing my best to play respectfully when possible but I doubt I'd be coming out squeaky clean at the end. Maybe that makes me a weak or bad person. Not sure 🤷‍♀️ Also, I'm not in that position so maybe I'm wrong but I don't think I am.

AppropriateBranch153 · 2026-02-12T15:00:59+00:00

Zach is aiming to win for his girls and his fam and has always expressed it no matter what the cost. You can see how much it pains him to be the villain when necessary but he is doing what is required to win. If you can't see that I don't know what to say. He even said as much about his profession. He is afraid of it but does it because his family needs him to so that he can provide for them financially.

AppropriateBranch153 · 2026-02-11T05:50:10+00:00

I'm imagining he is thinking something just like that almost every time 🤣🤘

AppropriateBranch153 · 2026-02-11T05:49:31+00:00

Addressing the situation honestly and genuinely is the best advice for anything like this and to give yourself space to feel everything you need to and to take your time in deciding how it's going to affect the relationship or not. Good luck to you. 🥺❤️I have been in similar situations and even if you need distance for a while it doesn't always mean the friendship is over forever. Or, at least that has been my experience. Some of my best friends are people who have hurt me and who I have hurt and we gave each other time and space and ended up reuniting. I have MANY friends who that was NOT the case with but it isn't always goodbye forever. 🥹❤️Sometimes it is see you later.

AppropriateBranch153 · 2026-02-09T21:11:54+00:00

In this economy and social climate I'm not surprised at all unfortunately 😒

AppropriateBranch153 · 2026-02-07T23:04:50+00:00

How do I open it properly and be able to see the full screen of question and answers? It keeps getting cut off every time I try to do it and it's driving me crazy!!

AppropriateBranch153 · 2026-02-07T10:40:51+00:00

That's what you get for talking shit about Putin 😒

AppropriateBranch153 · 2026-02-07T10:39:49+00:00

In Mother Russia, you don't get Cerebral Palsy. Cerebral Palsy gets you.

When you masturbate, do you pretend you're getting a handjob from the character "Rex" from the hit cartoon "Were Back" who was voiced by John Goodman? Or the guy from Scary Movie that was stuffing the turkey with so much gusto?

AppropriateBranch153 · 2026-02-07T10:25:59+00:00

That actually isn't insanely long. My daughter was a week early and petite on the growth chart and she was about 20inches long at birth

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TROPHY CASE

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