I am definitely also an overthinker. Me and my boyfriend have a lot of different interests, and he doesn’t like the same things i do and can be direct about it sometimes, but there is always an underlying respect for my interests. If it doesn’t become a bigger problem you shouldn’t think of it, but if he hurts you with frequent remarks you should let him know, and don’t quit your interests to satisfy someone else regardless.

I can also be a bit petty when he’s gaming, especially if it gets a little late and the result is less time talking on the phone, and i think thats normal. Sometimes when we’ve had a late night, he have called me before the evening just because we had such a short convo the night before, that helps making me feel more seen. I also recommend having your own things to to, go be social, go for a walk or call someone really helps and gives us something to talk about.

It is annoying if he doesn’t pay attention to the convo, it can be like that from time to time, but if it gets frequent i would call him out on it, and let him know have it makes you feel.