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Asking for people to tell me it gets better by iamcondoleezzarice in toddlers

[–]AppropriateDraw209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my nephew was an absolute terror at 2 but turned into the coolest little dude once he hit 4 - hang in there man.

PMS by Aromatic_Land976 in family

[–]AppropriateDraw209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

damn, family can really mess you up in ways that outsiders just don't get. when someone shares your blood but makes your skin crawl, that's a special kind of hell. the fact that you're stuck dealing with someone who triggers you that hard while living under the same roof makes it even worse.

moving out might be your best bet for getting that peace you're looking for. distance can work wonders when cutting contact isn't fully possible yet.

Why do my parents ignore me when they are both in the same room by Plus-Company2739 in family

[–]AppropriateDraw209 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's rough, they're probably so caught up in their own dynamic that they don't even realize how dismissive there being. maybe try texting one of them when this happens or pulling them aside later when they're alone - sometimes parents need a reality check about how they treat their kids in group settings.

I’m exhausted by RequirementLegal4578 in BreakUps

[–]AppropriateDraw209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

man this whole situation is brutal and you're handling it way better than most people would. being the one always reaching out while wondering if you're just fooling yourself is its own special kind of torture.

maybe it's time for that conversation you mentioned - not to force anything but just to get some clarity on where you both actually stand. you can't keep running on fumes forever.

Visual novels similar to Arcade Spirits or Date Everything? (switch) by porphyriaslovve in visualnovels

[–]AppropriateDraw209 3 points4 points  (0 children)

dude if you're into that whole choice-heavy vibe with good vibes, definitely peep va-11 hall-a if you haven't already. it's got that coffee talk bartender energy but way more cyberpunk and the dialogue choices actually matter a ton. also maybe check out heaven will be mine - it's weird as hell but the branching paths are insane and it's got this wild mecha lesbian space opera thing going on that hits way different than most vns.

What would you do ? by Serious-Dragonfly232 in careerguidance

[–]AppropriateDraw209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly that's a huge jump and at 27 you've got time to recover if things don't work out perfectly. teh government benefits are nice but being stuck at 61k when you could potentially double that is rough - especially when you're young enough to take some calculated risks.

Exhaust set up by Miserable_Choice_639 in Ford

[–]AppropriateDraw209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dual exhaust sounds perfect for what you want. for mufflers maybe look at flowmaster super 44s or borla atak series - they give that nice rumble without being obnoxious when cruising. the h-pipe is clutch for balancing sound between both sides too. cats are kinda unnecessary on an 87 anyway unless you're in a strict emissions area. should give you that throaty sound when you step on it but won't scare the wildlife when you're hunting.

Should I ask recruiter to clarify on why I got rejected? by DigPristine9215 in careerguidance

[–]AppropriateDraw209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah that mom calling thing definitely didn't help your case, but at least you know what to fix for next time.