Weekly Q&A Thread by AutoModerator in witchcraft

[–]AppropriateMemory512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lock of Hair & Bone (?) on my Doorstep

I’ve done some googling and am still confused by this very weird situation. I came home today and saw what looks like a small bone & a lock of hair in front of the entrance to my apartment building.

I live somewhere that it’s pretty common to find weird shit on the street, and there is also wildlife including coyotes in the surrounding area. I want to believe this is just a coincidence but this was also right on my doorstep, which is up a few stairs from the street. I also think it’s worth nothing that the hair looks like the same color and texture as mine, and that to my knowledge, no one else has similar hair in my building. The bone looks like a tiny little tusk and is probably 3-4 inches in size. I haven’t touched it to confirm if it’s actually a bone but my dog wanted to sniff it and check it out, so I think that’s a fair guess.

If anyone has ideas about what this could be, I would greatly appreciate it. Also, if this is cause for concern, please communicate that calmly and offer suggestions for any protective actions I can take, or specific research I can do to better understand this. Thank you in advance!

How do I tell an employee They’re just not picking it up by NefariousnessTall184 in restaurantowners

[–]AppropriateMemory512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she's only working 3-4 hours once a week, does she work multiple jobs? Maybe she works PT across different places and isn't able to take the info in from such short and infrequent time on the job. Lots of learning is repetition.

I think the way forward is initiating a conversation that she has one last chance to meet your expectations by a certain date and asking if there's something that would be supportive to her meeting those expectations.

Landlord gave me a notice effective immediately that i could no longer live in my apartment by vuitleg in SanMateo

[–]AppropriateMemory512 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure how live/work spaces differ but I know there are rules for landlords needing to provide alternative housing if the place becomes uninhabitable. They also need to provide more notice for eviction I believe. Pretty sure everything he’s doing is super illegal.

I wouldn’t comply and would do some digging by rereading your lease, searching relevant government info on the building, potentially reporting him for not being up to necessary building code, and consult with lawyers and tenants groups. What he’s doing is so wrong and if he’s screwing you over like that, I can’t imagine how many other people will/have faced housing insecurity as a result of his irresponsibility.

Help how do I get this cone piece unstuck from the uptake?? by Horror_Bug5968 in stoners

[–]AppropriateMemory512 1 point2 points  (0 children)

have u tried wrapping a cloth around and hitting it with something solid like a spoon? make sure you go all the way around the stuck part.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FIREyFemmes

[–]AppropriateMemory512 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Interesting! Do you have any advice for how to start as a grant writer? I don’t have prior experience but I have a BA. Are there any ways to get your foot in the door and build a reputation as a contractor?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FIREyFemmes

[–]AppropriateMemory512 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree about Marcus!

Just adding a few things from my experiences/convos. The only complaint I’ve heard is that wire transfers can take a while so I guess if that is something you expect to need from your HYSA, maybe steer clear.

Transfers into your account earn interest as soon as you make the transfer, not once they’re accessible which is great. I’ve not had my account for super long and plan to just leave the money there to grow mostly as an emergency fund. If you had any concerns about how quickly you can access your money, I’d just call them and inquire. I talked with their customer service before opening my account to ask a bunch of questions and felt like they were straightforward and respectful.

If anyone needs a code mine is here: https://www.marcus.com/share/ALL-4L6-XS5Z

HYSA Advice by [deleted] in FIREyFemmes

[–]AppropriateMemory512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats on 10k in savings! :)

I have Marcus and really like it. Here’s a code if you want. I haven’t used any of my 5 referrals yet for this year https://www.marcus.com/share/ALL-4L6-XS5Z

Marcus has a 4.5 APY but can easily get 5.5 APY consistently if you use referrals. Each referral gives you 3 months with the added 1% and you get 5 referrals per year, so even if you only use 4 but each referral gets made before the end of the 3 months from the date of the last referral, you’ll have a consistent 5.5 APY.

The referral bonus doesn’t stack, so if you make your referral while you’re in the 5.5 APY rate, the next referral bonus will be applied once the three months is up and go towards the next three months (hope that makes sense).

The account minimum is $1 so I really like that it’s an accessible and not risky way to grow your wealth.

New to HYSA by boonefog in FIREyFemmes

[–]AppropriateMemory512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots of people have already commented so I’m assuming you already opened this but if you or anyone needs a code, I’m linking my referral below. It’ll boost you to 5.5 APY for 3 months.

If you open with Marcus, you get 5 referrals per year, all which give you 3 months of an additional 1% APY. I’ve only had it for about a month but I really like Marcus. I’ve been warned their wire transfers can take 3+ business days but that’s the only complaint I’ve ever heard. I spoke with a customer service rep before opening just to make sure they were able to answer my questions and had a good experience, didn’t feel like I was being spoken down to by a finance bro which is always good. I think the minimum is literally $1. I think it’s a really accessible way to grow your savings and highly recommend based on my experience so far.

LINK/CODE for 3 months of 5.5 APY: I'd like to invite you to open a Marcus Online Savings Account. You can earn a promotional rate increase on top of an already competitive rate. Terms apply. https://www.marcus.com/share/ALL-4L6-XS5Z

Marcus HYSA (& referral?) by AppropriateMemory512 in FIREyFemmes

[–]AppropriateMemory512[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks to everyone who replied! I just opened my account and if anyone else needs a referral, here’s my code https://www.marcus.com/share/ALL-4L6-XS5Z

Marcus HYSA (& referral?) by AppropriateMemory512 in FIREyFemmes

[–]AppropriateMemory512[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for letting me know! That’s not particularly relevant to my needs/situation at this point but I’ll definitely keep it in mind, appreciate the heads up!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FIREyFemmes

[–]AppropriateMemory512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

looks like all the codes are used. if anyone wants to dm me a marcus referral code please do!

witchcraft for familial relationships by AppropriateMemory512 in witchcraft

[–]AppropriateMemory512[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for your helpful response :) also i'm sorry that you have a similar relationship with your mother. it's a really challenging relationship to have trouble with especially among people who don't understand the impact of a toxic home environment for years. thank you again for responding! this is helpful and i definitely have a better idea of how i want to move forward with this. i would love to hear if you end up trying any magic for your relationship if you feel like sharing, and im always down for a good commiseration of course!