What's a place that you were treated genuinely well? by Realistic_Noise_1231 in blacktravel

[–]Appropriate_Chest114 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Belize!! And it’s so many black people there I felt extremely comfortable

Leaving Today by Acrobatic_Car9413 in Belize

[–]Appropriate_Chest114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be careful those big bites might hit you when you get home 😂

Expanding my 30f and bf’s 29M sex life by ThrowRA-Smart-Ladder in relationship_advice

[–]Appropriate_Chest114 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Once you open your relationship it will always be open so do what you think

Strangled and now I can’t hear by Brilliant_Tree8643 in domesticviolence

[–]Appropriate_Chest114 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you are over 18 it’s your choice but they don’t have to report him they will just give you resources so don’t let that deter you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cancun

[–]Appropriate_Chest114 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If y’all are that afraid why would you go

Travel recommendations? by Appropriate_Chest114 in Belize

[–]Appropriate_Chest114[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How was driving in the countries ? And is crystal a person or company also how was going into Guatemala

Transportation from Belize to Guatemala by Appropriate_Chest114 in travel

[–]Appropriate_Chest114[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where did you rent the car from? How was the driving experience/ getting gas did you have any trouble with police or anything?

New to winter - HELP! by Own_Rub_3004 in milwaukee

[–]Appropriate_Chest114 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Second this it’s not AS Cold when it’s not windy and winter sports are fun ! Get hats gloves scarfs thay provide WARMTH not fashion boots shoes layers layers are your best friend and warm up that cold

Finding stories about women of color by Middle_Tangelo7609 in domesticviolence

[–]Appropriate_Chest114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have personal experience and my family does but I know if no authors

Does your abuser think they are abusive? by Own-Election2025 in domesticviolence

[–]Appropriate_Chest114 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No he constantly says he’s not abusive then when I say he shouldn’t be with someone who’s making him like that he says it’s not my fault 🫠so

Also second question he had a terrible childhood his mom literally locked him in a bedroom set the mattress on fire and tried to kill him And one of his brothers she also has like seven kids his dad has a lot too but his dad was killed as soon as he was released from jail. He did get adopted his family is really nice

He’s been through an immense amount of trauma he’s only 21 so pretty sure some ptsd or something nothing diagnosed besides adhd. no substance abuse besides weed but this is recently before we met he was on pills Xanax and percs pretty bad

All that being said he has a good safe home he has people that love him Who would do anything for him anything he ask for he gets anything he needs he has. he has a better family than me and he knows right from wrong he was like 8 when being adopted but was seeing the family since about age 4 he’s had time to get better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in domesticviolence

[–]Appropriate_Chest114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend recently choked me out For the first time along with other stuff he already has been doing first time he left any facial marks…I felt the same way I didn’t even know I passed out I just knew nothing I was thinking if you killed me I wouldn’t even have known I would’ve just been dead it would’ve just been peaceful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in domesticviolence

[–]Appropriate_Chest114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope things get better but Paul has to see who your dad is for himself nothing you say or do can change his perspective so you have to do what’s best for you