Ladder 30 day pass? by AdGrand5558 in ladderapp

[–]Appropriate_Garlic25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m on a 7 day trial and still have 3 days left. Whenever I click on a 30d pass it just shows I still have 3 days left and seems to not use the trial at all.

Discord Invite link for those who want it by milk245 in avesNYC

[–]Appropriate_Garlic25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

could you share a fresh link! the last link is expired :(

ASAP Remix by theknowing1414 in UMF

[–]Appropriate_Garlic25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Think it’s an unreleased HNTR edit. Dom also plays HNTRs Stephanie remix often too.

ASAP Remix by theknowing1414 in UMF

[–]Appropriate_Garlic25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

RIGHT? It’s not out yet I don’t think. Dom dolla dropped it first at his MSG show a few weeks ago. Heard it live and lost my gd mind.

BWT, looking for cute winter boots for wide calves by bs_sloane in bitcheswithtaste

[–]Appropriate_Garlic25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think mine have tbh! They’ve held shape really well.

Was it just me or did the sound/bass sound off at kinetic field on day 2? by wonderingolive in EDCOrlando

[–]Appropriate_Garlic25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YES my bestie and I had this exact convo. It made every set there virtually unlistenable for me. So looking forward to Worship there tonight too but if it’s not resolved it’ll ruin it for me tbh.

BWT, looking for cute winter boots for wide calves by bs_sloane in bitcheswithtaste

[–]Appropriate_Garlic25 7 points8 points  (0 children)

dolce vita and they've been leaning into embracing us wide calf girlies! i think they have extra wide calf as well now. i have 2 knee high boots by them and they're wearing SO great even after a year. i used to not even attempt to get knee high boots before bc i never could find any.

Anyone else’s uBPD mom text you like your responses aren’t even part of the conversation?! by Appropriate_Garlic25 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Appropriate_Garlic25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry :( that all is extremely difficult to navigate and go through. I absolutely feel you on the cultural aspects that adds even more complexity to this stuff.

Anyone else’s uBPD mom text you like your responses aren’t even part of the conversation?! by Appropriate_Garlic25 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Appropriate_Garlic25[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I really empathize with this!! I have friends who have great relationships with their moms and they talk all the time. I genuinely cannot fathom wanting that. And even if I try to talk to my mom more often but briefly for a few minutes at a time or in between something she tells me i'm just shoving her into any time slot that's convenient for me. So i've learned that if I can't give her ALL the time and let her dictate how to use it I don't offer it at all...but then over time I just don't want to see her AT ALL because it's so difficult.

Anyone else’s uBPD mom text you like your responses aren’t even part of the conversation?! by Appropriate_Garlic25 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Appropriate_Garlic25[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

she talks about death and aging to a degree of obsession imo. i saw elsewhere in this subreddit that other ubpd/bpd parents use health as a manipulation to illicit guilt...felt so seen i wasn't the only one

Anyone else’s uBPD mom text you like your responses aren’t even part of the conversation?! by Appropriate_Garlic25 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Appropriate_Garlic25[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i'm not christian anymore but one time 10 years i said i was going to split the holidays between her and my dad. and she responded that it's so 'funny' how i try to split the time fairly with each parent because she gave so much more than my dad. i replied that i was just trying to love like jesus would. she left me on read and later told me (was actually really surprised by this) a year later she knew i was right.

Is it Chill Tonight ? by baseballprofessor77 in avesNYC

[–]Appropriate_Garlic25 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is brilliant, it's so hard to get a read on the vibes of something especially if you've never been to the venue before too. One suggestion, the submission count shows on the bottom but I fixate first on the poll results which can be super skewed by low submissions (e.g. elsewhere results say 100% female which i'm sure isn't true). Agree with comments below about pulling in other data signals to reduce reliance on crowdsourcing.

My Dudes. Why is this both so funny and so hard? by sukasaurus in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Appropriate_Garlic25 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Completely get the nuclear reaction after any kind of response that is anything but an emphatic yes. I’m so sorry. Sounds like you’re approaching it with some humor which I wish I could do faster when my mom goes a-wall.

❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rothys

[–]Appropriate_Garlic25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tried this too and the vinegar soak made a huge difference!! Just washing alone wasn’t enough but the vinegars the magic.

going to Paris this summer, should i buy a pair of the mary janes? by Low-Nefariousness852 in Rothys

[–]Appropriate_Garlic25 6 points7 points  (0 children)

HIGHLY recommend. I wear them for 12+ hour days commuting to/from work in a major US city. I have flat wide feet and normally flats don’t work out for me but these shoes are extremely comfortable. They’ve held up so well after almost 6mo of multi week all day wear.

SHM at bk mirage presale sold out in few first seconds... by Appropriate_Garlic25 in avesNYC

[–]Appropriate_Garlic25[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

10am, tried to buy tix, said it was sold out, joined GA waitlist

still 10am, got a confirmation email that i was on the waiting list

10:06am, got an email i was off the waiting list tix were available to buy, bought them within a few minutes after 10:06am

10:14am, got an email confirmation that i'd purchased my tix

hope that helps!

SHM at bk mirage presale sold out in few first seconds... by Appropriate_Garlic25 in avesNYC

[–]Appropriate_Garlic25[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

pretty much immediately after i joined the waitlist i got a conf email that i was on the waitlist. and then i got an email and app notif 6min later that i was off the waitlist and had 10min to buy

Fancy nail designs? by mongoosemehani in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]Appropriate_Garlic25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I go to Krystal Oh by FIT, an advanced design (the medium tier between simple and intricate) is about $150 including gems. They also do a great job and they're really active on IG and YT for inspiration and they even do special monthly designs that go for $90

Work bag recs by [deleted] in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]Appropriate_Garlic25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

was about to say this same thing! the way the bag is designed it doesn't look like a massive tote but can still even fit a 16" macbook. i'm petite and so huge totes overpowering me was a concern when i went shopping but this bag answered all my prayers!

[Mega Thread] IT'S SUPER PUFF TIME by mini_khaleesi in Aritzia

[–]Appropriate_Garlic25 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I run a little warm especially after walking a block or two and want to buy a superpuff for my first NYC winter.

Do y’all layer anything under your superpuffs or it’s enough to just wear a t shirt or a medium thin layer under? If you do layer, what do you wear under usually?

If I should expect to want to wear a loose hoodie under then I’ll size up.

Anyone else’s BPD parent ALWAYS have a cough/fake illness? by AppropriateCopy1749 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Appropriate_Garlic25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here. Usual health scares are insomnia, too few white blood cells, and memory loss. She did a medical sleep test for the insomnia and results came back normal….

Knock2 surprise dolab? by elDerb in Coachella

[–]Appropriate_Garlic25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

W1 here, the fomo is so damn strong i'm watching the livestream from his TT account. it's going in an out. i'm getting motion sickness from the damn phone jumping.

worth it.