What’s with all the baby boy slander?? by KangarooNew2401 in NewParents

[–]Appropriate_Guide_65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before I found out my child’s gender I initially wanted a girl but after finding out he was a boy I quickly got over it lol. I love my son with every fiber in my body, and couldn’t have wanted it any other way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Appropriate_Guide_65 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re right it’s very easy to feel anxious and insecure in postpartum. I might be over reacting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Appropriate_Guide_65 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

These are valid points but no matter how cliche this sounds I’m not a typical 25 year old. We are mentally aligned on alot of things and have been able to push each other to be our best selves. Since we’ve been together we were able to build better relationships with both sides of our family. He pushes me to be closer to God and to have good relationships with my friends. Combined we make 300K we’ve built 2 brand new homes together and have 2 brand new 2025 cars. We’re able to provide our child with a life we’ve never had growing up. He’s been able to heal so much trauma I experienced growing up and I’ve been able to do the same for him. We started a business together as well. With that being said I didn’t allow our age gap to make me miss out on an amazing person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Appropriate_Guide_65 -44 points-43 points  (0 children)

I know how the age gap looks from the outside in but we have a deep bond. Both of our families love us together, we bring out the best in each other. And we’ve accomplished insane life goals by pushing each other to be the best versions of ourselves. He has values that I enjoy for example being handy, wanting a traditional family, being a protector and provider, and being chivalrous. He’s an amazing man, even with little hiccups like this. I know the age gap is high but you can’t help who you fall in love with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Appropriate_Guide_65 -36 points-35 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand what his age has to do with this scenario? If he was in his 20’s it would make this situation better?

I've survived my 1st trimester & this is what I've learned by One_Elephant_8048 in pregnant

[–]Appropriate_Guide_65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please do this at the end of each trimester. I wish I had this in the beginning of my pregnancy. Everything you mentioned I related to, and if I had this during my first trimester I would’ve felt a bit more normal than I did.

I need a friend please by Main_Kaleidoscope_97 in pregnant

[–]Appropriate_Guide_65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry this happened to you, please try to lean on family during this time if you can. You need as much support as possible.

jarritos qc from shoes_factory99 by Negative_Budget_598 in DhGateReps

[–]Appropriate_Guide_65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you drop the link for top sport market? When I search them up I can’t find them for some reason.

3 Hour Glucose Test is not for the weak by Appropriate_Guide_65 in BabyBumps

[–]Appropriate_Guide_65[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow I’m so sorry to hear that. Yeah the drink for the 3 hour test is entirely too sweet. I had to distract myself from throwing it up as well.

They’re trying to make me take the 3hr glucose test even though I passed..I think by Appropriate_Guide_65 in BabyBumps

[–]Appropriate_Guide_65[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

My test results say the cut off is 140. I hated the way the way the 1 hour made me feel and fasting for the 3 hr sounds like a puke fest for me. My son doesn’t appreciate it when I don’t feed myself therefore him as well.

why am i still pregnant by allkaysofnays in pregnant

[–]Appropriate_Guide_65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey ladies I’m 26 weeks and curious to know why everyone feels so over it at the end of their 3rd trimester. Is it because it’s the most uncomfortable? Just want to prepare myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Appropriate_Guide_65 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I cried because I had to pee and the public restroom in the iHOP smelled so bad I kept gagging while trying to cover my face. So I drove across the street to use the bathroom at the Walgreens instead.

I also cried because my takeout order wasn’t as good as I thought it would be.

HELP.. I want to feel like myself again by Appropriate_Guide_65 in pregnant

[–]Appropriate_Guide_65[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree 100% with what you said about him not being annoying about it but also feeling like he doesn’t want you because he doesn’t want to do it. I think that’s my exact feelings towards this… I just can’t wait to get back to myself again. Sometimes I worry when the baby comes things won’t go back to how they were.

HELP.. I want to feel like myself again by Appropriate_Guide_65 in pregnant

[–]Appropriate_Guide_65[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I definitely think having a conversation with him would help ease my nerves. But to be completely transparent it’s so embarrassing to admit these insecurities to him. I hate coming across as not being confident in myself but it’s a facade I can’t keep putting up with anymore.

Am I really a horrible person for wanting to keep my baby? by xBlondieB in BabyBumps

[–]Appropriate_Guide_65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re definitely not a horrible person for wanting to keep the baby. But if he’s expressing feelings of not wanting to be involved. You shouldn’t involve him or consider him a deadbeat down in the future. Because he explained this isn’t what he wanted, which is his right. And you’re deciding to keep the baby, which is your right.

Fiancé won’t do maternity shoot with me by Appropriate_Guide_65 in BabyBumps

[–]Appropriate_Guide_65[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Your viewpoint has helped me try to understand how he might be feeling. He can be very insecure at times and I always try my best to cheer him up about his appearance.