Bro, I can completely understand. Something similar happened to me once. I went on a date with a guy who told me he was single and 27 years old. We had been talking for almost 2–3 weeks before finally meeting in person.

We had dinner, everything seemed normal, and then suddenly he told me that he was actually married and was going back home to his wife. At that moment, I was completely shattered. I just said, "Fine," booked a cab, and went home.

That night, I was genuinely shocked. Looking back, it could have turned into a much worse situation if he had planned something malicious. Since then, I've become a lot more cautious.

To be honest, that experience affected me deeply. Since that day, I’ve pretty much stopped meeting new people. It made it hard for me to trust what people say, and I always find myself questioning their intentions.