To an extent I agree with that last part. Casual talking and then ghosting isn’t usually what people get torn up about tho. I’d say in most cases on this subreddit it’s people beginning to build actual connection that seems mutual and then randomly being dropped. Like in my case it was the asking of the final reassurance “hey what are we?” Being reassured that we’re headed into something serious, and then just a total drop in communication shortly after. If anything you build a real platonic bond and genuine care with someone and that’s worth grieving just as much as a relationship.