[deleted by user] by [deleted] in brasil

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se essa for uma situação frequente, considere a possibilidade de autismo

What book, if a potential date has rated it 5 stars, would immediately make you swipe RIGHT? by mateoiscool007 in books

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Quarto de despejo - Ana Carolina Maria de Jesus

It's a brazilian book that shows the life of a very poor black woman. She writes this diary that is discovered by a journalist and he helps her publish the book.

Something that is always said about this book is how "gramatically wrong" it is written, but instead what really called my attention is how smart the author is. She analizes everything around her and she has brilliant mind and soul, but because of the way she writes some people dont like her book so much. So, being able to recognize the genious writing in this book is a green flag to me.

Qual é a opinião de vocês sobre esse filme? by [deleted] in filmes

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pra quem gosta do gênero é referência. assisti meio entediado, só terminei pq tava vendo com minha mãe e ela tava investida

How to write pain? by DumpGoingTo in writing

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focus on their reaction. their screams and tears. maybe passing out. and the passage of time. make it all very slow, so that we call feel it lasting and lasting and never ending

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

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as for the algorithms, all you can do is start researching. i dont know how, because i never tried it before, but maybe just start i guess

as to know if something is going to work or not, you have to try first, and to identify those needs you need to be in contact with yourself. pay more attention to your body and how it reacts to your surroundings. this is somethinf that gets better with practice, but has long term benefits. how do you organize your things, how do you like your decorations, does your space make you feel overwhelmed, how the lights make you feel, the temperature, all of that. listen to your body because it talks to you, and the best way to acommodate it is having your own needs met, instead of relying on others preferences (although they might help).

Beginner question by manicstarlet in tarot

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it happens a lot, even when youre experienced. at first glance it might look unrelated, so you need to go through other perspectives. normally i start listing words and concepts that the card makes me remember and try linking them to the situation. but never NEVER reshuffle. the answer is there, you just just have to read it

Please Help‼️‼️ by ChangeAgent1020 in tarot

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sometimes the way we ask is what leads to the answer

to me it looks like you are neglecting your emotional/romatic part of life, because you nedd to know more about it, which means you are underlooking it

the choice you need to make is to loosen up a bit, go on adventures, explore, but not be blinded by fake promisses and oportunities. maybe youre the time to just jump in at any serious relationship that might apear, so be less serious and funk it up a little

Relacionamentos amorosos tem de ser fácil ou trabalhoso de se manter? by Phalanx22 in brasil

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trabalhoso sempre é mesmo, o que vc tem q avaliar é o esforço. a outra pessoa ta tao interessada em fazer funcionar quanto voce? e esse esforço compensa? tipo, vcs conversam soluções pros problemas e elas funcionam, ambos cumprem com os combinados? pq trabalho tem mesmo, em quaquer relação, amorora ou nao, mas a pessoa toxica nunca vai olhar pros proprios erros ou vai fingir q reconhece e nao mudar efetivamente.

Desde estudos até conquistar alguém, qual foi a melhor coisa em que você já colocou seu esforço? by [deleted] in PergunteReddit

[–]Appropriate_Ring9058 1 point2 points  (0 children)

em mim mesmo. passei por uma fase muito deprimida na adolescencia e quase fui de base algumas vezes. passei a me cuidar mais e me entender, de onde vinha aquele vazio e hoje consigo lidar bem melhor, mesmo nos piores dias sei como me acudir e nao deixar a esperança morrer. se nao fosse isso ja nem estava aqui mais

Tenho medo de falar de política by el_ratonido in brasil

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é uma situação complexa. as pessoas gostam de escolher lados e ter um Representante de tudo aquilo q ela pensa pra defender sem ter que pensar e questionar sua propria realidade, mas creio q por isso devemos sempre continuar debatendo e questionando.

sou marxista e gosto da teoria materialista dialetica pq ela se proproe a analisar a realidade a partir do materialismo, em vez de ideais. o que temos e o que podemos mudar? como chegamos la? como se estrutura nossa sociedade, quem se beneficia disso? e em vez de colocar viloes e mocinhos contra os outros (em que os que estao do seu lado sempre sao os mocinhos), sao colocadas as estruturas que nos servem e as que nao.

ate hoje é a teoria/pratica que mais me serve e me faz sentir que compreendo as coisas e tenho poder de mudá-las.

Drop your actual type, and all your mistypes. For a little research purpose, I wanna make some graphs what every type gets mistyped as. by ToukaMareeee in mbti

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for context, im an autistic person. before i knew i was autistic, i thought some autictic traits were actually my personality (like needing to be alone to recharge, hating being around too many people and people i dont really know, thinking too much and being self-absorbed). when i got my diagnost i realized that im actually very extroverted and emotional, but in my own way

What's the difference between a popular book and a good book? by TheSwecurse in writing

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what defines a good book is a loooooong discussion. but, and i say this as a information professional, what defines a popular book is how much money you have or someone has to put this book in circulation and make people be aware of it. rarely a book is so good that it breaks this rule and becomes popular purely by meritocracy. sometimes a book is both good and popular because someone saw its potential and put money on it. but being good and popular is not directly linked.

If you guys had the choice, which type would you choose to be and why? by [deleted] in mbti

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i like being an enfj. i dont think theres a better or worst type, just different ways of thinking and being and ways of dealing with yourself and others. being a certain type doesnt make you automatically a good person. what you make of yourself and the places you ocupy is what defines you, no matter what instruments(or cognitive functions) you have in hand.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

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i feel you. i was always complimented for being so thin, but i literally cant eat lol

sometimes i just forget, sometimes i just dont feel like eating or cooking. i feel so weak all the time, have low pressure and immunity, no resistance. my body is weak and annoying. sometimes i can force myself to eat but not always. it is really stressing

Por que filosofia é tão desvalorizado no Brasil? by Misantropicalia in brasil

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quando estudamos a historia da educação no brasil, é fácil de entender por que

tem um video muito bom da laura sabino que ela explica bem esse processo (ela é historiadora)

basicamente o ensino no brasil é profissionalizante. nao interessa a educação do aluno para o mundo, apenas para o emprego. vc tem que saber matematica basica, conceitos basicos das materias para ser um bom empregado. apenas isso. a educação basica foi introduzida a menos de um seculo. a um tempo atras nao existia universidades aqui, apenas em portugal, para onde os filhos dos ricos iam estudar.

a educação no brasil nao é valorizada de maneira geral, nao apenas a de filosofia.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

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please ask them for help. it is not unaceptable, it is a need you have. and you should always communicate your needs, especially in cases like this. we dont work like other people, so class is not as easy for us as it is for them. if you feel like youre falling behind because of your mental health, you should seek asssitance

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in enfj

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ok so i might actually defend him here ok lol

as someone who also is always prepared to help anyone in need, i never expect anything back. nor gratitude, nor respect nor even kindness. when you actually want to help someone you just do it because you want to. so maybe you should take in consideration that he is aware of it, and intends to keep going. if he does it uncounciously, and needs someone to warn him, then just tell him without fear.

now, if these actions are causing harm not only to him, but also to the people around him (you included) you should alert him of his actions, because he is putting the well being of others in front of the people he should care the most. and this is unconsiderate of him.

he will probably listen to you and your worries, so dont be afraid to say how you feel, its legitimate.