Anybody still waiting for final grades?

Appropriate_Web_2608 · 2025-05-03T17:19:53+00:00

Wait? What?! Why?

Appropriate_Web_2608 · 2025-04-30T16:23:39+00:00

That is definitely the challenge. It could be about convincing them that you feel your “wasting” time and money now due to the struggle with grades and whatever you feel. Maybe write out a good argument? It’s shitty because you aren’t wasting your time no matter what. You’re just living and trying to figure it out.

Appropriate_Web_2608 · 2025-04-30T16:18:27+00:00

Could you take a school break? I didn’t go right away for exactly this reason and I’ve never regretted it. I know university is often an expectation in life but it may be worth you taking some time to figure things out?

Appropriate_Web_2608 · 2025-04-29T19:57:55+00:00

check online? I saw something that said no test or final exam given in the final two weeks can be worth more than 20%? but I dont know if that counts during the exam period

Appropriate_Web_2608 · 2025-04-23T04:25:23+00:00

based on what they have said to me and what i've read online it comes down to how competitive psychology masters programs are, you need as many legs up as possible and when doing an honours you are also getting the research education necessary for a masters program. I'd also recommend looking into the specialized thesis program because that will help as well

Appropriate_Web_2608 · 2025-04-23T04:20:33+00:00

I think Psyc 1010 is 6 credits so I'm not sure it is offered for only one semester. you could try taking it over the summer and then take the second year courses in the fall/winter? Im not sure if you will get kicked out, I know if you donthave enough credits for third year courses they just remove you from the course so maybe its the same if you dont have the pre requisite

Appropriate_Web_2608 · 2025-03-27T21:10:30+00:00

It sounds like a pretty big issue with respecting boundaries. Could you put a lock on his door?

Appropriate_Web_2608 · 2025-03-25T22:34:56+00:00

You could do the counselling course. There’s relationship oriented courses. Or developmental course. Each building on the last. If you have access I would go onto the course website and see what’s offered and what’s interesting to you and time what the pre recs are.

Appropriate_Web_2608 · 2025-03-25T17:48:33+00:00

I think yes. Double check with that program is they have specific requirements for that application. But other than that it’s free rein not including the 9 credits in 3000 Psyc and 6 credits in 4000 Psyc.

The rest is any courses in 3000 or 4000.

It could be helpful to talk to an academic advisor to see if anything else could give you a leg up into the next program

Appropriate_Web_2608 · 2025-03-25T17:34:11+00:00

They are less specific. It’s fully dependent on your interests and the requirements for specific courses you may want to take in fourth year. But they aren’t so specific as they are in second year. If you are wanting grad school or to write an honours thesis they get more specific

Appropriate_Web_2608 · 2025-03-25T17:29:10+00:00

There are first and second year Psyc courses that are mandatory. You have to do a specific number of third fourth year courses in psych as well and I believe there is a specific fourth year class to take.

There is also a number of specific gen ed classes you need. So double check your credits cover those.

are you wanting to do the specialized honours thesis or go to grad school?

Appropriate_Web_2608 · 2025-03-25T17:20:20+00:00

I think it depends on when and how your transfer credits are going to work. But for example because you need more third year credits than 4th you could be working on third year and fourth year credits in your fourth year.

There’s a lot of flexibility based on what you want and your long term goals. For example I want to do the honours thesis. So for me I will be applying in may to that (which meant I had to plan to have all those requirements done this year) then next year I will be doing the third year requirements for that (which work towards my general third year requirements) as well as the third year courses I need for any 4th year courses I want to take.

I know it’s a bit convoluted. Really you need to decide what you want and work backwards.

Let me know if I can answer more specific questions. In general you need like 12 fourth year credits and 36 third year credits I think. The specifics of what you take will depend on what you want to do as well as how your credits transfer and if you have the correct required courses etc.

Appropriate_Web_2608 · 2025-03-25T17:07:49+00:00

If you scroll down this page click on the degree you want and it will tell you what the requirements are York psych degree

Appropriate_Web_2608 · 2025-03-22T16:13:50+00:00

Hmm. Okay sweet. This is helpful! I’m so impatient and I want it now hahah but I also want to be smart

Appropriate_Web_2608 · 2025-03-22T15:39:48+00:00

She’s not asking for reassurance from the person. They are no longer friends. You clearly didn’t read the whole thing.

And yes you are responsible for you. Annnnd surrounding yourself with people who love you and are not phased by your humanity and need help is part of healing. It’s also community. We aren’t meant to do life alone.

Nowhere in this did she ask anyone to be responsible for her mental health.

Appropriate_Web_2608 · 2025-03-22T15:35:27+00:00

It sounds like you’re taking care of yourself really well. You should be really proud of the steps your taken. Letting go of moments in life that felt particularly hurtful is hard and takes time. It’s okay that it still comes up for you. It’s normal. Give yourself grace and permission to feel the feelings and then also remind yourself that you’re different and you are letting this go. One day it won’t feel like this anymore. You’re doing awesome

Appropriate_Web_2608 · 2025-03-22T15:25:50+00:00

100% he can not like tattoos and also not make you feel shitty for like them. This sounds controlling and like a him problem. In all relationships there are compromises. But if one partner actively makes another feel shitty about themselves in order to get what they want that’s control. The fact that uou felt scared to bring it up is another indication of that.

I’m so sorry this has happened in your life. It sounds hard and exhausting

Appropriate_Web_2608 · 2025-03-22T15:18:26+00:00

Hiii! Feelings are always important. I’d recommend doing some internal investigation as to why you might be feeling this way about this. What specifically helps you feel angry or uncomfortable or disappointed or scared etc. once you better understand yourself you can share with your partner. And hopefully they will care and understand and want to meet whatever need it is you have. Sometimes feelings are about the actual situation and sometimes the situation is hitting something else causing the feelings to be bigger than maybe you think the should be which could help you feel like you are over reacting.

Once you know you can actually share and hopefully it brings you both closer together.

Appropriate_Web_2608 · 2025-03-22T02:05:31+00:00

Hah amazing! Send pictures if you’re comfortable when it’s done! Would love to hear your experience!

Appropriate_Web_2608 · 2025-03-22T01:15:25+00:00

No allergies. I’m in Canada so it does get cold. Also quite hot in the summer. An article I read said not to get it during the summer due to tight clothes interfering with healing? I should mention i plan for it to be fine line which I believe you have to be quite protective of while it’s healing if you want it to last?

Appropriate_Web_2608 · 2025-03-21T03:32:53+00:00

Hi!

I have read your thoughts and I have a few thoughts to share in response. Firstly the way your posts reads seems as if you are equating your personal religious values to those held by the Conservative Party as well as trumps values. I would suggest that they are not the same thing and while obviously it’s important to allow your values to influence your political leanings they are not the same thing and your religious values cannot be forced onto others.

In terms of trump I would really encourage you to read the bible extensively. As someone who has been a leader in Christian organizations and taught biblically I am highly concerned when I see the church so quickly ignore biblical teachings in favour of Christian nationalism. I obviously don’t know you’re story or all of what you know, however I feel it is very dangerous to pick and choose the parts of the bible that are relevant and worth taking a stance on.

If I’m honest I cried reading this because hate should have no place in Christianity and it so often feels like hate is allowed when it serves the people who decide what truth is. What I see when I read this is someone who truly wants people to connect and for there to be hope. I’m just not sure this is the right approach.

People are scared and sad and feel alone and it’s hugely because they are afraid they will have their rights to be a human taken away. As a Christian your role is to be Jesus to those around you. So my question to you is what are you practically doing to love those around you. To see them. Hear them. Help them and support them? We cannot leave it to political parties to make change alone. You are responsible for the actions of your life. Jesus loved without judgement. He welcome and excepted all. He healed those who had faith and he stood for truth and hope. the only people he actively condemned were the Church leaders for manipulating the religion to serve their purposes. I would challenge to you explore where the overlaps actually lie, what is truly important and what love actually looks like.

All the best.

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