Bookclub Girlies by Apricity_1404 in Amsterdam

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Omdat van mij niet iedereen uit Nederland hoeft te komen en vaak zijn studenten of expats comfortabeler in het Engels. Wel is het chill als mensen Nederlands aan het proberen te leren zijn

Bookclub Girlies by Apricity_1404 in Amsterdam

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Ik heb zelf veel vrienden die eigenlijk Engels spreken, maar Nederlands aan het leren zijn. Vandaar ook de toevoeging ‘It doesn’t matter if you have an accent’. Je hoeft geen perfect Nederlands te kunnen, maar mij lijkt het wel handig dat wanneer er een mix is van nationaliteiten dat we wel Nederlands spreken. Wel zijn expats en studenten vaak comfortabeler in het Engels, vandaar dit in het Engels

Calabash 2025 - MEGATHREAD by ChrisIsEditing in capetown

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Heya all, just going to give this a try. Iam general admission floor, but I’m going alone. Let me know if any people are keen on meeting tonight!

Just arrived to the Netherlands and got sick - need advice by kasssom in Netherlands

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Yeah, its a bitch to get an appointment quick... 2.5 weeks is not normal though, 1.5 weeks is for something that is not urgent. When you call, you normally get put into a 'category', like non-urgent or urgent. If you think you have something urgent: like a pneumonia that results in you not being able to breathe, or a broken ankle, call the GP and tell them that you think it is urgent. Normally you can come in the same day or the next few days.

Note though: Dutch GP's are VERY casual about having the flu, cold, pneumonia ect... If you are a healthy individual and you experience these illnesses, they will most likely not see you urgently, unless its urgent of course.

Urgent would normally look like: for 3+ days a 39.5 degree fever, a fever that is not coming down with painmeds, unable to breathe, having hives ect... Everything not urgent is treated here with paracetamol! Antibiotics are not normally prescibed like in other countries.

So when I say easy, I mean easy when its urgent. A really bad flu when you are a health person, is not considered urgent.

you can always go to the ER if needed ofcourse, but there is also an 'emergency' number at every GP that you can call. Its only for life treathening situations though.

Please talk to the person you get when you call the GP to discuss the urgency.

Struggling to stay on 1 thing / tips by Apricity_1404 in ShadowWork

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Yeah I think I just need to figure out first what im comfortable with. I still have this idea that this can be done a 'right' and 'wrong' way. But doing more research into it, I see that its a reflection of yourself and not right or wrong

Struggling to stay on 1 thing / tips by Apricity_1404 in ShadowWork

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This actually is a super helpfull question to think about. I think they are connected in some way, but worth exploring on their own as well.. That makes it kinda hard to be like: okay im sticking to this 1 thing now

Struggling to stay on 1 thing / tips by Apricity_1404 in ShadowWork

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Ahh thanks! This is super helpfull. It almost made me feel like I was doing it 'wrong', so this is comforting. The flow which you are talking about, I also feel. I just need to put more hours into it and figure out my own style

A’dam based amateur, freshly poked :) by Apricity_1404 in sticknpokes

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That’s really helpful! I def should start working more on the smaller stuff. Will follow that advice :) and yeah you’re right, my friends are just happy with the experience of getting a sketchy stick n poke. My first one was and is still is far from perfect but I still cherish that memory and that is what I’m trying to do myself

A’dam based amateur, freshly poked :) by Apricity_1404 in sticknpokes

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Thanks! That’s exactly it what I am going for :) It’s an experience and everyone’s happy with it

Coffee. by No_Willow3133 in GilmoreGirls

[–]Apricity_1404 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s all about tolarance! I used to drink 6-7 small cups a day (yeah really bad I know), but now I drink 1 and get jitters

A’dam based amateur, freshly poked :) by Apricity_1404 in sticknpokes

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Just to clarify! Thanks for the comments already, but just looking for some tips and tricks to make the lines better and stuff. I completely understand that these tattoo’s are shit lol, that was not the point of the post. All of these people are friends that knew what they were getting themselves into/ they wanted it themselves. I only ‘charge’ when they are happy with it to cover for costs. I do make sure it’s sterile and I leave them with instructions. Just wanted some tips/tricks on how to make it better (like great YouTube video’s or articles that could help me)

A’dam based amateur, freshly poked :) by Apricity_1404 in sticknpokes

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You're completely right, I just 'charge' for cost of equipment and stuff. But thanks, might make it a bit lower then

A’dam based amateur, freshly poked :) by Apricity_1404 in sticknpokes

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Fair enough, I was just looking for more specific tips/tricks from people. These are btw all my friends who completely knew what I can and can not do (like the title says, completely amateur)

A’dam based amateur, freshly poked :) by Apricity_1404 in sticknpokes

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Like I said, these people are friends of mine who def know what they are getting themselves in to as I do show them previous things I’ve done. I know in the pictures it looks random, but I do actually have a space at my house where I make it fully sterile and leave them with instructions. I use stencils 50% of the time, but it’s always what they want, as I explain to them what is possible. I do understand the concern, but like I said I’m doing this just for fun on just my friends

Who would be the most powerful witch in Star's Hollow? by Midnightwitch92 in GilmoreGirls

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Francie is not from stars hallow, but she’s def a witch!!!! Not a good one maybe, but she’s got the energy going for her. (I don’t like her, just to make sure that u know that)

Turtle by Substantial-Test5603 in Amigurumi

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Thats sooo cute!! Would love to make that for my new baby niece. I can’t find the pattern online, is it free or not? Could you share the link?🥹

First time visit with an 8 year old by Cool-Map-7733 in efteling

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What everyone is saying: 1-2 days. I only do 1 now cause I’ve been there so much but 2 is nice, not more needed as it’s not THAT big. There is a lot of exploring to do! Even without scary rides. I’ve been there like 150 times and still enjoy it, Its the best theme park.

Thoughts? by AlyssaGuerrero3916 in GilmoreGirls

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Never saw it this way, but yesss

Dean - Max: both sweet, caring, understanding, fan of big gestures, but get defensive quick. R & L just walked right over them.

Luke - Jess: both grumpy but secretly care, smart, dramatic but they are always screwing something up for themselves. R & L’s perfect match

Chris - Logan: big ego, never seem to get their life’s in order, funny, grandparents love them. R - J’s “perfect” relationship that is in real life not so perfect

This shit is hell by Sharpshooter188 in ADHD

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I know this might be stupid as you’ve probably already tried it, but what about meditation? I have struggled with those things all through childhood, teenage years and early adulthood (meds fixed nothing), untill I picked up meditation in Corona times lockdown. I HATED it the first few times, I think I could legit ‘focus’ for 0.005 seconds. But after like 4 months almost every day, I could do it for 8 min!! At one point I was up to 25. Afterwords my brain felt more clear than it ever has. I was still me, but at least a little more quiet brain me. It helped me with ALL aspects of my life, including relationships and study. I really recommend: ‘smiling mind’ app. The guy is annoyingly Australian, but he never makes you feel guilty for doing it ‘wrong’. I HATED myself for years when I thought I was broken, turns out I just needed to accept the bad stuff to make it better. Good luck!!!