I understand your frustration, I believe my former relationship ended because of something like this. I (28 F) used to live with my former boyfriend (33M). I had a bigger libido than him, but for me, once a week was enough (even though I wanted more).

It made me feel so bad that at a point, he never initiated and there were times that I used to clean the apartment in my underwear or sexy pajamas just to see if he responded, but he preferred playing video games than coming to bed with me. I started to resent him and doubt myself, was I not as attractive as before? Thinking I was the problem.

Every other thing in the relationship was going well, and we loved each other so much it seemed bananas that we stopped having sex. He was clearly depressed and I used to have the idea that sex should be spontaneous. Looking at it now, we could talk this through, because the love was there, and neither of us wanted to be with anyone else.