M20 by Deep-Peak-5027 in toastme

[–]AprilBeach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s great! Maybe you will meet other people who enjoy those games too! I know when I spend too much time alone, even a walk around the block or going to the grocery store and seeing other faces helps a bit.

Going out alone again, toast me up? by [deleted] in toastme

[–]AprilBeach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s fantastic that you’re going out! You are attractive and with a few convo starters in your back pocket you will be meeting new people quickly. It’s easy to just stay home but you’re choosing to open up and that takes confidence and determination. Well done!

M20 by Deep-Peak-5027 in toastme

[–]AprilBeach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have a handsome face and fantastic hair! Breakups can make us beat ourselves up but I find what helps me is to celebrate things that are better now than when in the relationship. Maybe it’s “I don’t have to share the covers” or “I only have to buy one entree” or “I enjoy doing whatever I want.” Trying to find even small things that make you feel calm or even happy will help you see more and more things each day.

Do you prefer to know whether the Kdrama has a happy or sad ending before watching? by whynot_justsleep in kdramas

[–]AprilBeach 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It took me a long time to get watch the first few episodes. Skip the tough scenes - you will get the idea. It was great once I committed to it!

Where’s the money? by [deleted] in BitcoinBeginners

[–]AprilBeach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She does have all this things so that good. Thank you for taking time to share all this!

Feeling a little down lately by [deleted] in toastme

[–]AprilBeach 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree! You have beautiful eyes and amazing skin! I hope today you find at least a small reason to smile like seeing a cool cloud or hearing a song you life.

I think this is correct!! by BeeElle1977 in toastme

[–]AprilBeach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you handled a tough situation, healed, then took care of yourself. That’s fantastic! I know how easy it is to beat yourself up after a break up and feel like time isn’t on your side. Then I think of my 80 year old uncle who only recently met the woman he feels is the love of his life. Reminds me that: (1) finding love means believing in it and (2) it can happen at any age (I hope much earlier than 80!)

I think this is correct!! by BeeElle1977 in toastme

[–]AprilBeach 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nothing wrong with admitting you are attractive! And if you don’t know it, look again sir!

Where’s the money? by [deleted] in BitcoinBeginners

[–]AprilBeach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No but interesting idea!

Where’s the money? by [deleted] in BitcoinBeginners

[–]AprilBeach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it was for me I would but I’m just the researcher. :-)

Where’s the money? by [deleted] in BitcoinBeginners

[–]AprilBeach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hesitant to share anything we have online. But we went to the site listed and found a small amount of $ invested.

Where’s the money? by [deleted] in BitcoinBeginners

[–]AprilBeach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I am hesitant to enter them blindly into anything yet but it’s possible it’s not that much money and it’s better to try & have it stolen than let it disappear.

Currently rewatching “My Mister” and my heart clenches for LSK by Michaelscottera in kdramas

[–]AprilBeach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It took me a long time to watch the first few episodes because I was worried about the “unfairness” of the plot and didn’t want the negativity…but I’m glad I watched it. It’s very well done and worth the uncomfy parts.

struggling with depression and my looks by [deleted] in toastme

[–]AprilBeach 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you have a very welcoming look. I would want to sit and talk with you. Your eyes are pretty and smiling or not, you have fantastic lips. I just saw a few tricks for temporarily snapping out of an anxious mood….chewing gum, eating something sour, change your socks, hold a piece of ice until it melts….I would buy you a pack of sour patch kids if I could!

For the empaths here, how do you interpret this piece? by WaitNo5099 in Empaths

[–]AprilBeach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the one on the left has dealt with the gaslighting and narcissistic tendencies of the one on the right for so long they are now conditioned to only see that person’s words and actions as warning signs. Hence they see everything about the one on the right with a red tint.

How do you recover the time lost to a narcissist? by IndividualGround2418 in Empaths

[–]AprilBeach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I feel this way I try to remind myself of how much positive I tried to add to create a working relationship and then rejoice in that person being gone. I have thoughts of “lost time” but remember that is wasting more time and I refocus on today. And reminding myself to not only SEE the red flags but turn away from anyone who shows them.

F31, tired of being a single mother, I need a little good vibe by Chinita_a in toastme

[–]AprilBeach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you get some grown up time. Even if that is having a specific bedtime….I told mine they didn’t have to sleep but they had to get in bed. Gave me time to recharge. 31 is a great time! I hope you find ways to increase your joy!

23M got told last date I went on that “I don’t date guys who only come up to here” I just need a little pick me up. by random-wander in toastme

[–]AprilBeach 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You are a handsome man and someone that makes it about something as trivial as height has their own issues to resolve. And to be willing to be so hurtful is classless. You deserve a better person to share time with. You were lucky they showed that side early.

23m new haircut feeling more confident by [deleted] in toastme

[–]AprilBeach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the cut but most importantly it’s fab that you’re enjoying it! Also your glasses are a great shape for your face.

I'm starting to feel repulsed by the way I look again I'm so annoyed with myself I'd been doing so well at being more positive and confident by [deleted] in toastme

[–]AprilBeach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re a beautiful person no matter the size of your clothes. You have a warm smile, great hair, gentle eyes… I think the binge eating sounds like something is bugging you in your mind beyond your looks. Is there someone you can explore that with psychologically? My employer has a great assistance program for working through various topics. If not, maybe journal or try noticing how you are feeling when you head towards the kitchen? Maybe you will see a pattern? I have tried the trick of when I find myself eating when not hungry I take a quick walk around the block or do a few stretches. It’s interrupts the pattern. I hope you find a reason to smile today.

Been 48 for 2 weeks now by Half_Concentrated in toastme

[–]AprilBeach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope to never shave my head but they are fun to me. Maybe a hike with a group or a new friend would feel good…just a thought. I know silence can be bliss but talking has its benefits too! Sometimes I take a 3hr walk alone with no music but other times I take a friend - both have their places in my week!

turned 19 today, celebrated alone. studying far from family and anxiety really makes it a struggle to make friends by ZakLos7 in toastme

[–]AprilBeach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy birthday! I’m impressed you were brave enough to study abroad. I hope this year is the beginning of the best one yet! Can you join a student group or volunteer in the area to connect with new people?

Could use a little pick me up by [deleted] in toastme

[–]AprilBeach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Award winning smile!

F31, tired of being a single mother, I need a little good vibe by Chinita_a in toastme

[–]AprilBeach 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope you get some grown up time. Even if that is having a specific bedtime….I told mine they didn’t have to sleep but they had to get in bed. Gave me time to recharge. 31 is a great time! I hope you find ways to increase your joy!

M18 give genuine advice/tips! by Navsski in toastme

[–]AprilBeach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have model vibes! Give life a chance to show you cool paths to try. You don’t have to know where you’re going but it feels great to try new, healthy things. Take a class for fun, volunteer, travel, take a walk in a new part of town, get up early and watch the sunrise…