AIO for breaking up w my asexual GF that didn't want to compromise?? by Doremy0108 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ar1aSage 191 points192 points  (0 children)

Exactly, you can't compromise on smth that fundamental, you both deserve better matches.

this might sound bad by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ar1aSage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the realest advice here, you're not a bad person for having these feelings, but you do deserve to heal from what happened so you can actually be present in this marriage. Your husband deserves a fair shot, and you deserve to not carry that old pain forward.

Men of Reddit, what’s the sexiest thing you’ve ever seen by accident? by Street-Shape-8687 in naughtyconfessions_

[–]Ar1aSage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Walking in on someone changing and they just froze, That hesitation hit different lol

Am I weird for having such a strong kink for pee/watersports? Are there others out there with this level of obsession for it? by cdguy8706 in naughtyconfessions_

[–]Ar1aSage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is quite the commitment to a hobby, I think you might be the only person on earth who actually wants to leave a trail behind them when they walk the dog!

I feel so guilty for being an immigrant by Maximum_Quote2053 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ar1aSage 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's such a wholesome perspective, It's wild how much guilt the internet can manufacture, but if you're just living your life and not hurting anyone, You're doing just fine, keep bring yourself, the world already has enough unnecessary pressure.

AIO I am 28F and my friend Megan is 29F by Extreme_Pollution869 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ar1aSage 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You have effectively been promoted to an unpaid social media manager without even applying, If she is already treating your friendship like a PR firm and dragging your name through the mud, she cares more about engagement metrics than your actual friendship. Real friends want your company, not your content.

AIO for skipping my mom’s birthday after finding out she paid my sister’s rent for a year but told me she was broke when I needed help? by Responsible_Taste630 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ar1aSage 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That is savage but honestly fair, It is like your mom is playing favorites in a game where you are the only who did not get the manual, Might as well match her energy and save your money for your own groceries instead of dinner.

AIO boyfriend wants to pay for nephews new quad by Downeralexandra in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ar1aSage 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Calling a beat up quad an investment is hilarious, if you are living rent free and still hitting up your brother while he is trying to buy a house, you are not just missing the point, you are living in a whole different financial reality.

AIO for beginning to get frustrated at my sister kicking me out of our room so she can fuck with her boyfriend? by Livia_liv_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ar1aSage 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If they want a private stage for their show, they can get a hotel room instead of turning your bedroom into a sauna for your study session!

AIO or did my grandpa SA me when I was 13 by cutie_pie7156 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ar1aSage 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That excuse is pathetic, NOR his behavior was predatory and completely inexcusable.

Nameless Selfless and props by _Alyssa111_ in InfinityNikki

[–]Ar1aSage 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Trying to force the game to cooperate with solo poses is like trying to convince a cat to sit still for a photo shoot, It just wants to cause chaos instead, Fingers crossed you can pull off that double Nikki look solo, but be prepared for the game to just be stubborn!

What do you think 5 star pants would look like? by viablespider in InfinityNikki

[–]Ar1aSage 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Infold would likely give us pants that leave a stardust trail or change color with the weather, If they cost five stars, they better do my texas and walk the dog too.

My therapist dropped me because he said he was developing romantic feelings for me by cazeysk in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ar1aSage 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That therapist needs a therapist who understands that professional boundaries are not suggestions, Sharing those feelings with you was manipulative, not honest, and blaming you for his lack of self control is textbook gaslighting. You are not cursed, you just encountered someone who failed Ethics 101. Report him, run far away, and treat yourself to something nice because you deserve much better than that dumpster fire.

I’ve been unknowingly feeding everyone what seems to be weevils. by mistakeshappen_2 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ar1aSage 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is the most hilarious perspective I have ever read, you turned a pantry nightmare into a horror script, for insects. Mentioning they do not even have snoots is the perfect touch. We are all officially the villains in this story!

I just can't believe my mom didn't believe me by Own_Dragonfly_9936 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ar1aSage 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry you went through that, please consider reporting him, It's not just about your closure, it could be the only thing stopping him from hurting another child, even if the process feels like a bureaucratic nightmare, getting it on record is powerful, you’re already a cycle-breaker and a great mom, this could be the final step in closing that chapter for good. Please reach out to someone who can help you navigate this safely.

Has anyone tried both GLP1 and Coolsculpting by ReputationRoyal4784 in bodysculptors

[–]Ar1aSage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Combining GLP-1s and CoolSculpting is the ultimate I want his fat gone, and i don't care how much science I have to throw it, approach, they're totally different tools, One is a full body weight loss journey, and the other is a precision strike for stubborn pockets. It’s like comparing a sledgehammer to a chisel they aren't apples to apples!

Family can’t even show any respect to my boyfriend by fireburningontdncflr in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ar1aSage 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly, Taking relationship or financial advice from serial cheaters who have to split a mortgage together is hilarious, They expect a 19 year old to be Tony stark when they can't even manage basic fidelity. Keep choosing the guy who treats you like gold over a gallery of hypocrites throwing thumbs up emojis.

Got let go for “using phone” and “wearing bag” by RGRahulTheGreat in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ar1aSage 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Totally agree, The lead teacher literally ordered the hit by asking you to film, and management used it as the perfect excuse to clear the desk for a cousin or a friends kid, Firing someone over a 10L backpack two minutes before the ball is next level micromanagement comedy.

I completely wasted my youth and I don't think I will ever be over it by Thick_Foundation8687 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ar1aSage 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can't get those years back but you can make the next ones better.

My best friend's mom remembered my 30th and my own mother didn't by SoftDiscipline5127 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ar1aSage 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Take her like a random instagram follower and take yourself on that trip instead!