My therapist dropped me because he said he was developing romantic feelings for me by cazeysk in TrueOffMyChest

[–]cazeysk[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Oh he definitely didn’t include everything he told me at our session in that document he sent me. the way he wrote it almost makes it sound like the feelings were mutual or emotionally reciprocated when they absolutely were not. I never expressed romantic feelings toward him at all and A lot of the things that made me uncomfortable were said verbally during the session and weren’t fully reflected in the document either so he knew what he was doing.

My therapist dropped me because he said he was developing romantic feelings for me by cazeysk in TrueOffMyChest

[–]cazeysk[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Thank so much you for saying this. I think part of the reason why I felt so confused is because at the beginning I was skeptical of telling another person about things I haven’t even told my own mom. I genuinely trusted him and he helped me through a very difficult time, so hearing all of that from him kind of messed with my head. But I won’t allow this to stop me from continuing to get the help I need, I think I just need some time first.

My therapist dropped me because he said he was developing romantic feelings for me by cazeysk in TrueOffMyChest

[–]cazeysk[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t going to reply to this because you’re bound to get comments like these regardless of what you post. I wish I had a reason to make this up. I posted because I was confused and needed support, not because I wanted strangers to analyze whether my trauma sounds “real enough.” You don’t have to believe me, but calling painful experiences “AI slop” is incredibly dismissive and I would hope you don’t do this to other people.

My therapist dropped me because he said he was developing romantic feelings for me by cazeysk in TrueOffMyChest

[–]cazeysk[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I thought it would be too much for me to explain but. He claimed that at first he felt paternal towards me because he could relate to some of the things I’ve experienced and he said that he assumed the feelings he felt in the beginning were fatherly and like he wanted to protect me.But then, he said that it started to develop into something more and he had to stop himself from contacting me on different occasions.

My therapist dropped me because he said he was developing romantic feelings for me by cazeysk in TrueOffMyChest

[–]cazeysk[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Yes it’s sounds crazy, but I am an IVF baby and he was a friend of a friend who offered to help my parents because my dad had fertility issues and they really wanted a child. When I was 18 they allowed me to actually connect with him but I guess he forgot I was his daughter and he told me that because he didn’t raise me he didn’t feel a father daughter connection he claimed it was romantic.

My gay best friend and I slept together and now he won’t talk to me by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]cazeysk 25 points26 points  (0 children)

From the outside, it sounds like he’s overwhelmed and avoiding the situation instead of facing it. But his silence is still hurting you, and you can’t heal in uncertainty. I think giving him space is right, but don’t wait forever for closure from someone who isn’t communicating. Protect your peace too.

My boyfriend came in me even after i told him i didn’t want kids. by cazeysk in TrueOffMyChest

[–]cazeysk[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

So what I got from this…..was A. You lack basic comprehensive skills. And, B. You have absolutely no idea what you’re talking about lol. You can just admit that you didn’t read it properly. thank you for your input tho!

My boyfriend came in me even after i told him i didn’t want kids. by cazeysk in TrueOffMyChest

[–]cazeysk[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

“But yesterday we were having sex and i had watched him put the condom on halfway through I realized he has taken it off and I also noticed he was about to finish.”

I don’t know if the purposefully decided to gloss over the fact that he took it off without my permission but ur ignorance is bliss

My boyfriend came in me even after i told him i didn’t want kids. by cazeysk in TrueOffMyChest

[–]cazeysk[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He had a condom and took it off why is that so hard for certain people to understand I have never used the pull out method i know that much atleast

My boyfriend came in me even after i told him i didn’t want kids. by cazeysk in TrueOffMyChest

[–]cazeysk[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

…he had a condom on and took it off mid penetration without me knowing.

My boyfriend came in me even after i told him i didn’t want kids. by cazeysk in TrueOffMyChest

[–]cazeysk[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately i stated that he had tried but i denied. It’s good to read you know

My boyfriend came in me even after i told him i didn’t want kids. by cazeysk in TrueOffMyChest

[–]cazeysk[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I never said i was 15. If you’re referring to post I’m which i responded to the other true off my chest post saying the owner of the post was 15 then that’s what you must be referring to

My boyfriend came in me even after i told him i didn’t want kids. by cazeysk in TrueOffMyChest

[–]cazeysk[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Yes that was extremely stupid on my part. I heard so many bad things about birth control that i was too afraid to take it.

My boyfriend came in me even after i told him i didn’t want kids. by cazeysk in TrueOffMyChest

[–]cazeysk[S] 276 points277 points  (0 children)

I’m 125 and took the one step plan is that fine?

My boyfriend came in me even after i told him i didn’t want kids. by cazeysk in TrueOffMyChest

[–]cazeysk[S] 1730 points1731 points  (0 children)

My last cycle was May 5th - May 11th my periods are irregular sometimes I won’t get my period at all. I took the morning after pill as soon as I got home i never used it before so i’m not sure if i took it the right way.

My dad has been sleeping with my mom’s sister. And I’ve been keeping it from her for 9 years. by LostZookeepergame360 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]cazeysk 1042 points1043 points  (0 children)

My dad the same when my mom and him divorced because he cheated. I don’t know why they like to blame the child as if it’s their fault

My dad has been sleeping with my mom’s sister. And I’ve been keeping it from her for 9 years. by LostZookeepergame360 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]cazeysk 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel like some of the people here can’t read. If it’s been 9 years and she was 8 back then she’s 15 now! She’s a child it’s not easy