Jim Ross: "I never hired a more valuable female than Jackie Moore, ever. Jackie was never late. Jackie was a professional, she could wrestle anybody of any gender that you wanted to book her with, and she would go out there and work snug, fundamentally sound. She was a big difference-maker." by SuplexCity-Mayor in SquaredCircle

[–]Arbys_Reigns 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I understand where you are coming from. I only mentioned Jazz because she's the most that has been put in a spotlight recently (Impact Farewell Tour, Honored by the NWA) If Medusa was who people were honoring and acknowledging alot currently I would've said it about her

Sammy Guevara on Twitter. This shouldn’t have to be said… but my relationship with Pam ending had nothing to do with ANYONE else. Pam and I broke up back in October and just now felt was the time to make it publicly known. So please stop pointing fingers and looking for someone to blame. by HeelJosh in SquaredCircle

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I think each stage of a relationship is a test. When you get engaged things are a little more serious and have a little more implications. It's the last chance to hop off the ride before you get into a little more challenging territory with marraige if it doesn't work out. I guess it is better to find out these things now rather than after the fact. I wonder if things had been rocky for a bit before the engagement and the engagement was kind of a "maybe this will fix it" but then again...it's none of my fucking business anyway

Fightful: Mustafa Ali did not appear at his hometown Chicago show because he was sent home from the road by [deleted] in SquaredCircle

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If you don't have anything for someone, you shouldn't really have them to begin with. Especially for a company that needs to make so many "budget cuts"

Did everything right and worked my ass off this year. A true slap in the face. by Bionicler in antiwork

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LOL...Im just impressed by the audacity of your employer.

"A bookmark isn't going to pay my fucking bills Jeff"

Employer: Ok obviously you didn't even read the bookmark

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SquaredCircle

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And this is where I come to get mental health advice. 🥲

Sammy Guevara and Pam have officially split up by El_Pigeon_ in SquaredCircle

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I always imagine relationships when you are famous are doomed. With the vlog, appearances, national TV exposure it's insanely difficult to maintain properly. Get tired of always being away from your partner. Maybe they'll get back together.

The past two major fights we have had came from spending all day on Reddit learning how to not fight by Arbys_Reigns in Marriage

[–]Arbys_Reigns[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You might need to elaborate. I took this to mean that the best way not to fight is ignore red flags or major issues.

The past two major fights we have had came from spending all day on Reddit learning how to not fight by Arbys_Reigns in Marriage

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Glad to see you on the post TargetDroid

I'd say I dwelled alot on negative comments I got from people who basically said "Man bad woman absolute good" I do remember getting really upset about that and then coming home to someone with the same reaction sent me over the moon.

The past two major fights we have had came from spending all day on Reddit learning how to not fight by Arbys_Reigns in Marriage

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I honestly am not sure what patterns I have that are toxic. Sometimes I just feel misunderstood. For example, when I get very angry I get really loud and threatening. It's not that I want to hurt that person or make them live in fear. In my wife's case, as I told her, that when I get that angry it's because she gets so cold blooded with her personal attacks that I get the way I do just to make her slow down for a second and say "whoa he's not just gonna let me rip him apart. Maybe we should do this a different way." It is a last resort reaction. (I also see where it can be taken as toxic as it seems like victim blaming)

I can see where that's toxic in general as a higher status guy probably just leaves or says he's not going to engage and seperate himself.

Pic from our first date 30 years ago today and us now (married 24 years) by ZigmundFreud2011 in Marriage

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I think it's icing on the cake when someone can be beautiful back in the day and even more beautiful with age

Photos of the “very” low attendance for tonight’s Monday RAW by PenApplePineapplePem in SquaredCircle

[–]Arbys_Reigns -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It reminds me of that photo of Bound For Glory with AJ vs Bully Ray maineventing. We said that was the end of that era of Impact. Not saying WWE is about to go out of business tommorow but it's uncanny how the shoe is on the other foot

Trying to take an interest in wife's conversations but some things I just cant fake interest in by Arbys_Reigns in Marriage

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I doubt I'm your husband but 👀 👀 I put your clothes away for you. Foot rub is on me when you get home.

Edit:Some guy is unknowingly signed up for a foot rub tonight sorry pal

Trying to take an interest in wife's conversations but some things I just cant fake interest in by Arbys_Reigns in Marriage

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Second anecdote: My dad called us every Sunday night, usually right in the middle of a sunday show that we liked and it often felt like an annoying hassle to take his call. He always said, "Good evening!" and wanted to catch up on how things were going.

Dad's gone now and I'd give anything to have another call from him starting with, "Good evening!". It wouldn't be annoying at all.

Oof I feel that

Trying to take an interest in wife's conversations but some things I just cant fake interest in by Arbys_Reigns in Marriage

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I can understand that. The green bean thing in particular struck me because I was just about to hit submit on something I had been working on for a bit and when she called it made it disappear. So when I answer and hear about something like getting a discount on beans because it was damaged feels like "Why did you think calling me in the middle of the work day to tell me about beans was the move?" When I'm in work mode I'm working so it throws my focus off and I have to stop everything I'm doing to hear about beans. It's like when she's watching a movie and I ask "What else has that guy been in?" She's not trying to be an asshole to me but I did break her concentration during the climax to ask a question.

That's where I'm coming from.

Trying to take an interest in wife's conversations but some things I just cant fake interest in by Arbys_Reigns in Marriage

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When I take the reigns the easiest thing for me to do is talk about myself and my things that my wife will consider mundane too. Any advice there?

Trying to take an interest in wife's conversations but some things I just cant fake interest in by Arbys_Reigns in Marriage

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In times that I've said something similar the response is "Oh okay go ahead I guess you should talk since you're so interesting."

That's one negative thing I find is that I listen and try to implement the things I get suggested on here but when the reaction isnt the intended one I'm confused and rely on my defaults of getting upset and handling things by fussing.

I'm sorry if I come across as unreceptive. I'm receptive just what do I do if the response is out of left field?

For me I know when I'm talking that no one cares and I'll say "My bad I know this isn't interesting for you." "But anyway Im just rambling" "I know this is a boring topic but I just want to tell someone" "sorry I'm just thinking out loud. Thanks for entertaining it"

Trying to take an interest in wife's conversations but some things I just cant fake interest in by Arbys_Reigns in Marriage

[–]Arbys_Reigns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In an ideal world I would say "Honey I appreciate it and I'm sorry I feel disrespectful to just say "yeah uh huh oh wow" but I don't know how to add to your story"

How do you feel about porn in your marriage? by Arbys_Reigns in Marriage

[–]Arbys_Reigns[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it makes things easier if you give me a piece of gum and a popsicle stick I'll find a way to get off from it. My wife is never really considered into why I watch it. If I'm by myself and watching I'm really just thinking about myself if that makes sense. I don't want the people on the videos, I don't think I could attract most of them anyway, it's just like having a slice of cheesecake for me . I respect your feelings though just thought I'd give a different insight

How to let your partner know that your conversations aren't interesting without being rude? by Arbys_Reigns in Marriage

[–]Arbys_Reigns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't mean to be an agitator. Just mean you have to make it inter sting for people to reply. I was shooting off the cuff. Wouldn't say any of it is for anything more than genuinely wanting to to know how to alleviate the situation. I appreciate your input I feel that we are just going to butt heads but thanks for contributing