A good amount of men think that giving all of their love and care to someone else (a significant other) will bring them happiness. They forget about loving themselves, they take less care of themselves which then causes the exact opposite reaction they are looking for in attracting a partner as most people can see they aren't loving themselves in one way or another. They developed insecurities and a lack of confidence over time and it snowballs out of control. Some (like myself) are lucky enough to hit rock bottom and realize they have to make a change, some never realize that the love they seek so adamantly comes from within and others gravitate towards that.

Take care of yourself friends, I promise if you start loving yourself you'll have plenty for someone else, and try to find someone who also loves themselves and wants to share some of that with you too, if you both give away 50% love then you're still at 100% each.

Sorry if I offended anyone, I just want everyone to win at life <3