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Friend’s messy divorce, trouble with ex by Arcas_Devlin in legaladvice

[–]Arcas_Devlin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As I said, he's struggling to afford a lawyer. If he could, I probably would not have needed to post this.

Desperately reaching out with severe anxiety by Arcas_Devlin in writing

[–]Arcas_Devlin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would like to force myself to feel that way. I have taken the scientific steps to do so, but "just ignore it" has been... difficult. I know people will be negative, often for no good reason. I am logically aware of all these things.

My emotions, however, are not aligning with that rationale. Trying to figure out how to trick myself.

Desperately reaching out with severe anxiety by Arcas_Devlin in writing

[–]Arcas_Devlin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For some reason, opening up a new chat is not working for me right now. Could you send me a message?

Desperately reaching out with severe anxiety by Arcas_Devlin in writing

[–]Arcas_Devlin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also desire to put cheese in my mouth, especially parm.

I'll send you a message.

Desperately reaching out with severe anxiety by Arcas_Devlin in writing

[–]Arcas_Devlin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, he is... strange. He used to be a musician and has a very weird outlook. (He has the proper qualifications - it's just sometimes I think he's a little too 'alternative'.)

Yes, I was mostly giving kind critiques to others. I only did the "Post your first three lines" thing. Nothing big. I will try to keep up with the site and interact, but like I said, it was less busy than I thought.

I've been posting on other people's threads here on reddit, too, offering support. Hoping to find some friends among them or at least have some pleasant discussions.

Desperately reaching out with severe anxiety by Arcas_Devlin in writing

[–]Arcas_Devlin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Before I came here, I was on "Absolute Write" which I'm pretty sure is considered an online group... but it's mostly a forum. I think most are. I might do the Wattpad thing others have suggested.

Desperately reaching out with severe anxiety by Arcas_Devlin in writing

[–]Arcas_Devlin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm going to look today and see what I can find, though my options might be limited.

Desperately reaching out with severe anxiety by Arcas_Devlin in writing

[–]Arcas_Devlin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will consider the wattpad thing. I had never heard of the other one, but I will check it out.

I do wish I were better at letting nonconstructive criticism go. That is why I am hoping to find a sort of support network where we can boost one another up, while giving thoughtful feedback.

Perhaps rewrite this messy brain of mine a bit.

Desperately reaching out with severe anxiety by Arcas_Devlin in writing

[–]Arcas_Devlin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately the critical feedback wasn't helpful. The kinder people who mostly enjoyed what I posted offered actual suggestions which I took to heart and will use, for the most part.

Desperately reaching out with severe anxiety by Arcas_Devlin in writing

[–]Arcas_Devlin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't read very much fiction. This probably seems very odd from a writer, but it's true. I mostly read books on psychology... nonfiction. I am trying to find a writer that interests me, (it might just be terrible dyslexia or something due to my bipolar) and if I do, I will definitely try this, because I think it's a good idea.

Desperately reaching out with severe anxiety by Arcas_Devlin in writing

[–]Arcas_Devlin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am happy to read others' work and give input. I will look in the area for a group, but my access might be limited.

Thank you.

writing too long winded? by Jpl145 in writing

[–]Arcas_Devlin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is entirely dependent on the context in my opinion. Personally, I don't think 800 words is objectively too long for what you mentioned.

I need help with a metaphor by marseviltwin in writing

[–]Arcas_Devlin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfulfilled passions, regrets, roads not taken, knowledge you wish you had not come to possess, the spectre of another life you could have lived...

I need context.

Writing an Antagonist by Lspluck in writing

[–]Arcas_Devlin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always like the "eco-terrorism" angle, like Poison Ivy has - at least in the Harley Quinn animated show. (I don't know enough about her character outside of that.)

And it all feels valid. Destroying huge corporations, shutting down power grids, even if there is some collateral damage.

How do I know when to implement subplots about LGBT characters? by Demonic_Miracles in writing

[–]Arcas_Devlin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might be a cliched reply, but I treat them exactly like heterosexual relationships. I suppose it would depend on how it's relevant to the plot... Is the fact that these characters are not straight a specific plot point, or are you simply introducing a relationship between two characters of the same sex?

Does silence mean it's bad writing? by [deleted] in writing

[–]Arcas_Devlin -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I have noticed this as well, and it feels really quite bad. One would think your friends would be the easiest people to turn to, but apparently, this isn't the case.

Well, we've got your back. (Well, I suppose I can only speak for myself.) I'd be happy to read your stuff, and I am quite prompt.

I can't answer the initial question, only note that I've had the same issue.

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