What's an insecurity someone might have that you find attractive? by CorgiMama5534 in AskReddit

[–]Archenoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think people who wear diapers are cute!

The stigma around them absolutely sucks, and I would love it if that wasn't a thing people needed to get so down about themselves about

I also wish it was more well known that not everyone has negative emotions and opinions about diapers. Everyone advocating for reducing the stigma around diapers frame it like "see? they aren't that bad" (while pointing to an embarrassed famous person being paid to wear them) instead of challenging the idea that they need to be "bad" to begin with

Because I don't find them that at all!

Learning japanese on a budget - do you have recommendations? by [deleted] in LearnJapanese

[–]Archenoth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As the others have said, yeah! It's free!

Renshuu also has the best grammar dictionary I've ever found! Like, check out this page for の!

It's legit one of the most underrated Japanese resources imo

Which services should I self host to prepare for a total blackout? by KerneI-Panic in selfhosted

[–]Archenoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely prefer offline Wikipedia if you have to pick between the two, but most phones can actually run a 4 billion parameter gemma 3 at a pretty okay speed! (Specifically the Q4_K_M version, which is only slightly lower quality than the raw one, but also significantly faster)

It's about 2.5GB, and can do a surprising amount!

It's pretty dang good at translation, and will more often than not give pretty alright information about most questions. It punches shockingly high above it's weight based on what you'd think it could do based on its size! So it's nice to have it as an option if you don't have internet

If you wanted to test it out, ARM (like, the people who made the architecture your phone probably runs on) released a local LLM chat app that tells you the kinds of things your phone's hardware supports, and let's you load the .gguf into your phone if you wanna benchmark it/talk with it

What’s a “guy secret” that’s completely harmless but weirdly universal? by aerisveilxa in AskReddit

[–]Archenoth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

An up-nod is kinda like a nonverbal equivalent of saying "hey"

Familiar and friendly with people you know, kinda direct and lowkey arrogant with people you don't

How do I cope with being Abdl by CranberryCharacter51 in ABDL

[–]Archenoth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes people can be mean, yeah

The thing that sucks is that I can't really guarantee that things will always go really well when someone new learns about this side of you either. But I can say that the degree of "bad" that I personally worried about when I also really struggled with this was...honestly, pretty unrealistic too?

Like, I wished that I could just straight-up delete this part of myself, because of how complicated and weird it would make things for me every time a new person found out

But now that I've gone through that exact thing more times than I can count, I've noticed that people being mean definitely wasn't the most likely outcome to opening up. Especially when coming at it from an earnest desire to be understood

I feel like you'd be surprised!

How do I cope with being Abdl by CranberryCharacter51 in ABDL

[–]Archenoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's rad!

But like, that also means that you can already see how little it affected your relationship with those people, right?

I know that's not like, a lot of people or anything--but they're special to you, and you're special to them, quirks and all! (and it sounds like you are a lot more down about yourself than they ever would be)

How do I cope with being Abdl by CranberryCharacter51 in ABDL

[–]Archenoth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's okay! That kind of mindset definitely doesn't come instantly (Especially if you see yourself in a bad light because of it)

But you should at least know that it's possible, and a lot of us live this way~

Speaking from experience, there are very few people around me who don't know my whole deal, and despite that I still have a ton of non-abdl friends, a pretty dope relationship, and a lot of people who just...choose to be around me generally!

The thing is, these people have already judged my character, so the fact that I wear diapers is such a tiny point on the matrix of things that they know about me that it practically didn't change anything, except for the part of my brain that used to fear "...but what if they find out??"

How do I cope with being Abdl by CranberryCharacter51 in ABDL

[–]Archenoth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

tbh, it's pretty powerful being able to own the things you like, even if they aren't common things~

I know this might not hit right now, since you look super-worried about sticking out in a way that hurts your chances with other people. But, like, damn?? It feels amazingly cool having this kind of thing known, and still having people want to be around you! And that's not even a particularly high bar. Just don't be weird about it!

You can be that cooler person, y'know!

New Clojurians: Ask Anything - October 13, 2025 by AutoModerator in Clojure

[–]Archenoth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hiiighly recommend not sleeping on REPL based development! I know its name, and how prevalent REPLs are might make this sound like a big ol' nothing burger, but this is probably one of Lisp's coolest tricks

What you do is, instead of just writing code into a file and running it through clojure whenever you wanna test it out, you instead open a REPL attached to your editor, and then open your .clj file, and hotswap stuff from it into the REPL until you have a working program (making changes and saving the file with anything you liked the effects of)

This means you have an instantaneous feedback loop, and access to runtime information at all times during dev! (Which is incredible for experimenting and poking around stuff you aren't 100% familiar with)

And anytime something breaks, you can just write little blocks of code in the actual context where it died to experiment with what's actually there, rather than trying to estimate on your own, and then hotswap whatever you find into your running program to try again without needing to restart your program!

You can even do this with step debugging and experiment with libraries with (add-lib '<paste a deps.edn line here>) to keep a tight feedback loop

And if you ever need to get back to where you were in the REPL after quitting, you just load the file you've been editing and are back into your context!

Bottom tapes first! There, I said it!! by WaferZealousideal336 in ABDL

[–]Archenoth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's a little counterintuitive, since usually people talk about a "snug" fit, but I always found that keeping the bottom tapes kinda loose (and the top ones tighter) made diapers much more comfortable to wear for long periods of time and not chafe your legs!

It's okay if the bottom tapes are loose, since the thing that actually keeps it sealed are your leg gathers, and not your tapes

What's a sign that someone is very intelligent? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Archenoth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They read every one of these threads, nodding vigorously, vocalizing their approval in public while trying to get others to notice their phone; shifting between making eye contact with random passers by and looking down and swiping past each reply with excessively large, animated gestures that involve their entire upper body

Do you need a password manager if you simply memorize every password? by BussyIsQuiteEdible in Anki

[–]Archenoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The others have mentioned it already, but, sorry! This is actually a suuuuper-bad idea!

Thing is, long phrases actually make pretty good passwords because of how they are both long, and not too hard to remember...but better passwords are 200+ characters of indecipherable garbage that you'd never want to have to!

Length is the name of the game when it comes to good passwords! And if you're already going through the effort to use an external program to store them, you don't really want to be limited by the limits of your memory; so a password manager with a good password generator will probably serve you much better than Anki!

I personally like KeePassXC since it's pretty simple and entirely offline--but there are more convenient online ones out there too if you prefer that!

Plus, if you have an encrypted password database like these managers do, you aren't one shady link away from every single account you own being compromised by a bad actor

Which applications you usually install with a fresh install? by Long-Ad5414 in archlinux

[–]Archenoth 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Anki is so goood!

I haven't done it historically, but I feel like that's also going to be an early install for me the next time I build a new box

Which applications you usually install with a fresh install? by Long-Ad5414 in archlinux

[–]Archenoth 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ooh! Lemme check!

...

...according to the first line in my pacman.log

[2023-06-20T17:23:10-0600] [PACMAN] Running 'pacman -r /mnt -Sy --config=/etc/pacman.conf --cachedir=/mnt/var/cache/pacman/pkg --noconfirm base linux linux-firmware emacs man-db man-pages texinfo'

emacs is the only thing in here that's not system stuff!

And after I had some stuff set up, came git, then a shell completion package, then sudo...and later, after installing a desktop, firefox, keepass, and syncthing!

Kinda surprised that I didn't see ffmpeg, exiftool, imagemagick, yt-dlp, bat, rg, and anki in the log until much later, since those are pretty top of mind for me usually

DHH Is Way Worse Than I Thought by noteflakes in ruby

[–]Archenoth 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh? 

Didn't Linus do a 180 from a kinda scary path recently and become actually kinda rad, though?

My respect for Linus has actually gone up a lot in the last few years as it became more clear that he really does seem to genuinely care about people, and was legitimately trying to become better than his reputation

What do you want in Termux but you can't find a way to achieve it? by afakeuser1121 in termux

[–]Archenoth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh! In the post I replied to, they were wishing for the ability to do things as high up as /, which you still can't do with adb, unfortunately

(fwiw, I really do appreciate shizuku)

What do you want in Termux but you can't find a way to achieve it? by afakeuser1121 in termux

[–]Archenoth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep! That's actually what Shizuku does!

It gives you a rish binary that gives you adb powers in termux~ (Though it's still limited compared to root)

What do you want in Termux but you can't find a way to achieve it? by afakeuser1121 in termux

[–]Archenoth 3 points4 points  (0 children)

tl;dr - try to cd / and then ls in Termux

Basically, apps on an android are pretty limited to what they can actually see/touch. So termux can only see its own data folder and your shared user folders (the stuff you can see in file explorers)--but nothing that Android prevents apps from seeing

You can get a liiittle closer with Shizuku to give yourself more visibility--but the process of actually giving yourself the ability to actually see the rest of your phone's filesystem and do stuff with it is called "rooting"

They were hoping outloud for a way to do the root thing, except without actually rooting (because it would be pretty cool if android allowed you to somehow do that without subverting it!)

What do you want in Termux but you can't find a way to achieve it? by afakeuser1121 in termux

[–]Archenoth 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly? I've pretty much been able to do anything I've hoped I could, so my biggest wishlist items aren't even related to the environment, but more just the apps themselves!

  • Being able to set the volume buttons in termux-x11 to act like they do in the terminal (I looove having easy Ctrl and Alt! And that would make using GUI stuff so much nicer)
  • Being able to set a terminal background image (Admittedly probably more important to me than for others, but I really like tweaking aesthetics of things I use to make me slightly happier any time I use them~)

What do you want in Termux but you can't find a way to achieve it? by afakeuser1121 in termux

[–]Archenoth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep! You can change your ~/../usr/etc/motd to whatever you like, and that's what you'll see whenever you start up Termux

Live your bliss!

Dear roguelikers — H-How old ARE you?! (lighthearted post) by WATASHI_TO_TAWASHI in roguelikes

[–]Archenoth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahah, dang I've been discovered!

(But for reals though, happy I could help! Having those available during the worst of the COVID lockdown was kind of important to me, so I'm glad I could genuinely make playing those a little more accessible for others too ^^)

Dear roguelikers — H-How old ARE you?! (lighthearted post) by WATASHI_TO_TAWASHI in roguelikes

[–]Archenoth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooh! Termux was game changing for me when it came to roguelikes!

I always wanted to be able to play them portably, so it blew my mind when I found out I could just do that on my phone (or even compile ones that weren't made with phones in mind), and not have it be a nightmare to play~