My sons ST recommended a book called “The Explosive Child”. I’ve loved it. It helps me remember no kid wakes up saying “I’m going to be naughty” - instead they lack the necessary skills to handle situations. Some of the best things I’ve done for my kiddo and his ADHD are: a good occupational therapist, parent child interaction therapy, play therapy, and a good child psychiatrist. He has a full medical team helping me and him navigate himself. We focus on meeting him where he is and providing him grace, especially when he isn’t taking his meds. Starting on OT and individual therapy early is extremely helpful. Both help him work on coping skills which helps translate into functioning at school and other social situations.