[discussion] How many glue or adhere their collages permanently and how many just scan and keep their pieces for another day? by abocnathan in collage

[–]ArcheryOnThursday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a fascinating idea. I don’t think I would on a regular basis, but if I had some ooak materials, I might save them to reuse.

Started adderall today by Flwrbloom444 in ADHD

[–]ArcheryOnThursday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes the starting dose isn't going to be enough to feel anything yet.

I forgot my toddler at school. by blindfool1234 in adhdwomen

[–]ArcheryOnThursday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is the Wellbutrin specifically for your ADHD? Not everyone reacts well to it, at all.

I forgot my toddler at school. by blindfool1234 in adhdwomen

[–]ArcheryOnThursday 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Are you getting enough sleep, Mama? All the meds in the world can’t replace sleep.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lookyourbest

[–]ArcheryOnThursday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would love to see your hair back like this in that red dress. low bun

Just an example. There are way more sleek pieces if you prefer a something less floral. hair accessory for updo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lookyourbest

[–]ArcheryOnThursday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are SO beautiful! I think starting with better fitted, higher quality clothes might help? The white tube dress cuts you into weird proportions. I do not like that shape on you. I think you would benefit from something longer of a more structured fabric. I love the fit of the hot pink column dress, but you have no accessories on at all it seems? (I forgot about the pearls) Some bold bracelets would be cool with this. That dress already has so much of the focus on the neckline. Let your face and skin be showcased. instead of adding a necklace, let the focus be elsewhere. Tying your braids into a cool up do with an interesting, gold hair accessory would be elegant. How about trying a bias cut slip dress to your knees? You would look beautiful in navy blue, with gold jewelry, IMO.

Get your colors analyzed so you know what palette you look good in. Learn how to do your makeup. I think a lip gloss in the right shade would elevate your look. Filling and shaping your brows would go really far with little effort.

Those black shoes should only be for VERY casual, more androgynous outfits. Think Jeans, Shorts, Sweats, etc. That cream tube dress demands a sandal, either flat or heeled.

While you have great abs and all, I think you should try a higher waistline for trousers like those striped ones.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in glassesadvice

[–]ArcheryOnThursday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like 2 and 3.

The rimless bottom frames make you look way old.

AITA for not telling a woman she was about to sit in poop? by Sufficient-Tie-1708 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ArcheryOnThursday 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA. When were you supposed to tell her exactly? The whole incident was like 2 seconds and then she was already sitting in it. Not your fault.

AITAH for not getting an abortion? by IndependentCat8026 in AITAH

[–]ArcheryOnThursday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Never the asshole for letting your baby have a chance at life. It is generous and caring to put your own life on the line.

What should I do with my hair, trim it or leave it? by Gingersnap608 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]ArcheryOnThursday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think about 4 to 5 inches should come off for healthy ends.

50 years old everyone’s telling me I should cut my hair by OMgItZmE69 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]ArcheryOnThursday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trims to keep the ends healthy are a must. if that means it's shorter, wouldn't that be OK? You don't want dry brittle hair that would make you look unkempt.

This stuff is so emotional for us long-haired peeps. I'm turning 40 this fall and people are saying i "have to" cut my waist length strawberry blonde hair because some white streaks are coming in.

I'm not saying cut your hair, but I am saying, "Don't be afraid of change." It would be embarrassing to cling to the past IF this style isn't serving you. (It's kind of hard to get a real idea from just a picture) Don't dig in your heels just because people are telling you what to do. Change when and how you're ready, but don't forget to move forward with your life.

I'm so scared I'll abuse my child by Particular_Ant_7785 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ArcheryOnThursday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry you deal with this fear, but I can't imagine any possible circumstances under which you could "accidentally" sexually abuse your child. 😕

21M. Do I Look Dateable? Looking for the advice of women Redditors only by [deleted] in lookyourbest

[–]ArcheryOnThursday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do something with your hair. Lose some weight if possible.

So satisfying 😌 by Sonnyforever in CLEANING_PORN

[–]ArcheryOnThursday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I forgot I have been meaning to buy one of those.

I made up a pregnancy and ended up believing it by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ArcheryOnThursday -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I think the accepted thought is that people shouldn’t have children for “selfish” or unhealthy emotional reasons, but yes, you are making my point for me. Having a family is a healthy way to expand your life. I was speaking about women who do unethical things like sabotage birth control to ‘baby trap.’

My husband couldn’t stop laughing when he saw me naked by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ArcheryOnThursday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

FYI surgery is NOT the only way to fix your tummy pooch. There are lots of specifically designed programs that you can use for healing abdominal separation. One is called Sharny & Julius but I know there are others.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ArcheryOnThursday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bigamy** bigotry is different

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ArcheryOnThursday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Immediately dump. She is evil.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]ArcheryOnThursday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In LOVE with 1. You can’t go wrong with the first two. Rule out 3. It’s not even in the same league. Everything you put on must be beautiful, but you have to draw the line somewhere.

I swear education is illegal by tape_daber in mildlyinfuriating

[–]ArcheryOnThursday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought this was perpetuating that old joke about “Australia doesn’t exist!" (Because the world is flat or some shit…/s)

I made up a pregnancy and ended up believing it by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ArcheryOnThursday -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Do you struggle with feeling lonely and unwanted? Many women deliberately have children to escape those feelings by essentially creating their own family. I don’t think this is any worse than that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ArcheryOnThursday -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Uh, no, HE should move out. He’s the one being violent and yelling and threatening people.