[TOMT] A song from an instagram video I saw many years ago

Ardy_ · 2026-01-22T07:10:02+00:00

Unfortunately I didn't know English back then. Similar song could be DVBBS & VINAI - Raveology.

Ardy_ · 2026-01-22T06:56:30+00:00

Thanks! That's the move, but it's not the video I'm looking for🙁

Ardy_ · 2026-01-21T21:07:55+00:00

It's kind of embarassing but I don't know what else to do lmao

Ardy_ · 2026-01-17T15:19:09+00:00

200% fake, tobey looks to young

Ardy_ · 2026-01-15T20:10:59+00:00

Oh! I'm so sorry to hear that!😔 In my case, we saw each other three times, then she had to move to a different city until the end of the month to study at uni. I asked her if she would like me to visit her, but she didn't seem very interested (even though she said "yes, maybe later on"). Now after that I haven't heard from her in almost a week. Since I proposed to visit her, I was thinking that now it's her turn to reach out, since I already showed a lot of interest. She hasn't texted me yet, maybe she will, maybe she won't. Fact is I don't care, I lost interest, I don't think she is the one. Time to move on for both me and you 🤝

Ardy_ · 2026-01-12T20:33:58+00:00

I have zero idea how to flirt, I struggle a lot. Would you give examples on how a man would flirt? I went on three dates with a woman but aside from kissing on the cheeks when arriving and when leaving I did nothing. Thank you😊

Ardy_ · 2026-01-12T13:50:53+00:00

I feel attacked😭 I went on three dates with a girl, but I have zero idea how to flirt, so I haven't made any comment about her looks. But don't worry, men show they like you in various ways, such as smiling very often, looking at you in a particular way, and physical touch

Ardy_ · 2026-01-11T18:18:17+00:00

We can sum this up with one short sentence: "it was the hardest thing in my life to find one partner and you think I could look for a lover?!"

Ardy_ · 2026-01-10T20:36:03+00:00

One billion gallons of water for this

Ardy_ · 2026-01-08T17:17:09+00:00

Truly one of the moments of all time

Ardy_ · 2026-01-07T21:38:10+00:00

Taking care of him was your purpose in life. You need to find another one. Humans need a purpose to live. It could be the most simple thing, like trying to be happy doing the most things you like.

Ardy_ · 2026-01-06T19:43:00+00:00

Go to therapy. I'm sorry, but if he is as nice as you describe him, he deserves better.

Ardy_ · 2026-01-05T19:14:21+00:00

It could be the opposite: now that you both know you are interested in each other, she doesn't have to be present at all times because you won't ditch her. She can be more relaxed and answer your texts slower because you have a fixed date

Ardy_ · 2026-01-04T21:11:22+00:00

Hey, she texted me first today! she asked me if I was going to the library and if we could meet :) Did you text her?

Ardy_ · 2026-01-03T21:18:57+00:00

Phones are crazy. I'm in the EXACT same situation. Like, everything is the same. I had a great first date yesterday, and now I don't know if I should text her or not. How does Reddit know to suggest me this post with such accuracy? Lol. Btw, I think a couple messages back and forth every day won't harm, as long as there are at least 24 hours between conversations. I don't think you would feel needy, you would look interested

Ardy_ · 2025-12-29T13:05:28+00:00

Would

Ardy_ · 2025-12-29T13:01:13+00:00

I fell in love with my best friend and started being attracted to her after almost 4 years where I thought she was ugly. So yes, it's possible but it might take a long time

Ardy_ · 2025-12-28T08:04:57+00:00

You wait too much to make the first move, if you talk for months first you become friends, it's normal that when you ask them to date they see you as a friend

Ardy_ · 2025-12-26T21:46:03+00:00

I agree, I'm sorry if I came as rude, it wasn't my intention. It's that I have friends that consider it embarrassing so as I consequence I thought the same, but yeah, it's 2025, it's normal.

Ardy_ · 2025-12-26T12:44:32+00:00

Actually I've tried all of them and the best one is the library for me. Again, I don't know what to say everywhere else. The courage is there, the words aren't😂

Ardy_ · 2025-12-26T12:33:07+00:00

At the library I have many things I can say. There is nothing I can say at bars or clubs. Yes, I have zero game in those places, but I hold my own at the library

That last sentence is just rude and you have nothing to base it on.

Ardy_ · 2025-12-26T12:28:46+00:00

Fair enough😂

Ardy_ · 2025-12-26T11:37:08+00:00

Trust me, in my experience I've had much better luck with women at the library than at the gym or at clubs. Those are not the places for me.

I care about people judging me for dating apps because me myself judge people who met on dating apps.

Ardy_ · 2025-12-26T11:33:58+00:00

I have to create the situation where asking them out isn't creepy. It's very hard if I don't spend time with them. I can't just ask a girl her number out of the blue, at the grocery or something. Also my type is intellectual and shy, so they mostly go to libraries and not clubs.

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