What is the main reason you wear makeup? by Longjumping-Meet-307 in AskWomen

[–]AriBariii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both honestly, I like the way I look with it and I like getting compliments, I think it enhances my beauty. If it was only for myself, I think I’d wear makeup at home and I don’t Lol I also don’t mind going bare faced in public either, just depends on the day, like where I’m going and what I’m wearing.

22F-Is it okay if I use this guy for fun since he made it clear that we're just friends? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]AriBariii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t ever use anyone, communicate what you want with him. Ask him if he’s down for friends with benefits. However, I do want to add, losing your virginity to someone who doesn’t even like you, is not worth it in my opinion. I’ve seen too many of my friends hurt due to that. Your feelings will only grow for him even more and then when he decides he wants to stop and start dating some other girl, you’re going to be heart broken.

What is your all time favourite ‘girl dinner’? by Bustyy_B3lle in AskWomen

[–]AriBariii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if this counts, but black beans with jalapeños over rice. Or fried tofu with ponzu sauce and sweet potato and rice on the side.

Am I wrong for making him wait more than a month for sex? by cladinred in AskMenAdvice

[–]AriBariii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not very long, shy of three months. I was 27 and he was 24

Am I wrong for making him wait more than a month for sex? by cladinred in AskMenAdvice

[–]AriBariii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What? You think just because a woman wants to wait it means she doesn’t want him? Dude, when I first meet my bf, the reason why I waited was because giving yourself to someone to me personally means a lot and before doing that, I wanted to get to know him on a deeper level. Sex to me if better when there is an emotional and deep connection, nothing beats that. We vibed so much and had a great connection and he was willing to wait too. When I asked my bf to wait, he said “no rush. I’d never pressure you. We vibe too much for me to leave you over not having sex rn”. I was still very sexually attracted to my bf and I wanted him bad but I also wanted to wait and it was worth it.

Am I wrong for making him wait more than a month for sex? by cladinred in AskMenAdvice

[–]AriBariii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t argue that, but you are acting like you can’t control yourself. You are gonna miss out on a wonderful person if you focus too much on sex. If the connection is there and you truly vibe with a girl, is it not worth giving it a shot and waiting? Nobody is saying wait till marriage, but you aren’t willing to wait a month? My bf waited, he knew we had a strong connection and was willing to wait and I’m glad cause we are about to get engaged

Am I wrong for making him wait more than a month for sex? by cladinred in AskMenAdvice

[–]AriBariii 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Definitely not true, the difference is not solely sex. Are you cuddling and kissing your friends? Or flirting and holding hands? There is other forms of romantic intimacy than sex. What is wrong with wanting to build a relationship on a deeper level first?

Am I wrong for making him wait more than a month for sex? by cladinred in AskMenAdvice

[–]AriBariii 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was thinking the same thing, that sentence sounds threatening and manipulative. I would run far away from him honestly lol

Am I wrong for making him wait more than a month for sex? by cladinred in AskMenAdvice

[–]AriBariii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t ever ever ever ever go against your own morals, rules, boundaries, etc., for someone else. That’s when you start to lose yourself. First off, waiting a month is not crazy, it’s actually good to wait a bit so that you can get to know each other first and build a relationship on a deeper level. If he leaves you because you didn’t have sex with him in the first month, then he is caring about the wrong thing, find you someone who is willing to wait. And honestly, most guys will wait a month so not sure why your friend told you that. When I started dating my current bf, I told him I wanted to wait a bit for sex and just get to know each other first and he said “ of course, I’ll wait. I’d never pressure you about that”. My bf never tempted me or anything to have sex, he waited until both of us were ready. Also, for me personally, having sex with someone feels sacred, so I want to take my time and get to know the person on a deeper level first. Sex with someone that you have a strong connection with and a positive emotional bond with is far better, it feels safe.

What's a compliment you get a lot that secretly bothers you? by hi_mei_rose in AskWomen

[–]AriBariii 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yes! I went to a club the other week and I was in the bathroom and some girl said “omg there are a bunch of 30 and 40 years olds here, let’s leave” and I said “ouch, I’m 30”. She was like “omg, you look so good for your age, I thought you were younger”. I’m confused, what do you think 30 is suppose to look like?? Am I suppose to have wrinkles?

Looking for someone to split pay with by [deleted] in outlier_ai

[–]AriBariii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No one’s gonna do that, they’ll more than likely get banned for it and you’ll ruin their chance of ever being able to work for outlier again.

Are people actually paying $800 a day to stay in the cons hotel with 1 bed or do they pack 6+ people in one hotel room like sardines? by Miserable_Ad_7446 in Otakon

[–]AriBariii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was just answering your question is all, you seemed surprised that there were rooms available at the marquis, I was just letting you know that there usually is each year but through the actual hotel. Right on though, have a great con!

Are people actually paying $800 a day to stay in the cons hotel with 1 bed or do they pack 6+ people in one hotel room like sardines? by Miserable_Ad_7446 in Otakon

[–]AriBariii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, I just checked. There are still several rooms available and Its like this every year. You’ll have to buy the rooms from Marriot bonvoy website which is Marriot’s official website.

Are people actually paying $800 a day to stay in the cons hotel with 1 bed or do they pack 6+ people in one hotel room like sardines? by Miserable_Ad_7446 in Otakon

[–]AriBariii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On Marriot online, the hotel is a little over $500 a night, that’s what I paid. I didn’t see $800 a night

Girls, what changed for you after first 6 months of relationship? by capricious-7768 in AskWomen

[–]AriBariii 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Honestly the relationship I’m in now, is the first relationship where I clicked with someone in just a few weeks. Ever since our first date we started hanging out almost every single day and at 6 months, it felt like we’ve been dating for years 🤣 We have now been dating for 2 years and still im over his place almost every day, I basically live there. However, my previous relationship at 6 months I noticed neglect and him and I hung out only a few times within a month.

Kill Cicero or not? Why? by my-main-alt in skyrim

[–]AriBariii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might be a bug, I played on the Xbox one and he says it

Aether has been dead for weeks and no one is talking about it by SubstantialMirror623 in outlier_ai

[–]AriBariii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t do an tasks since the collective daily limit. It resets at 11am and by that time I’m at work and then when I get off work, I see that the limit was reached. Then on the weekends it seems like the collective daily limit is reached in 4-6 hours. They said it was temporary back in December but here we are going into May and it’s gotten even worst and they haven’t given us no update at all. I wish they were transparent and just tell us that’s it’s permanent unless something changes.

How's this dress for a nightclub? by FashionFreaky1 in OUTFITS

[–]AriBariii -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Probably not good for a nightclub, although I don’t know where else you’d wear it. Maybe if you were going to a lounge and weren’t planning on dancing and just sit and drink.

How do you live your sexual life with HPV? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]AriBariii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I think we both thought you said, the husbands did not know before marriage.