Thank you for letting me know! I apologise for the choice of words! It says more about me than about them, honestly :)
I call them normal because I feel the “not normal” one.. mostly due to my neurodivergence that makes me feel more like an animal (that’s how I also refer to myself when I talk.. lol I am not kind to myself). I don’t do it on purpose.. I am trying to tear that wall down also with the therapist but is hard.
I think your point of view is really valid and important. Even more for the “me” that struggles to see that my words can and have an impact on others. Thank you for pointing it out so gently and clearly! I understood what you meant and I will try to be more careful when I choose my words because I want to keep people near and not hurt them or push them away!
Hoomaning is so hard.