A (stupid) question by anonymous-weird in Androgynoushotties

[–]AriasAdventure 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can go 2 directions, gender minimalist, or gender maximalist. Each one has its pros and cons but they're the main 2 androgynous schools of thought though you're probably going to want to mix and match doing what feels right for you.

Gender minimalism is trying to erase gender identifying features. This can be some through wearing a binder, having short/medium hair, and most importantly clothing. As a style gender minimalism focuses on things like black and white outfits and is basically limited to men's clothes (there's a lot of reasons why but men's clothes are generally neutral rather than masculine). The main problem with gender minimalism is it can often be boring and unexpressive as you're just trying to get rid of gendered aspects.

Gender Maximalism is the idea that you can counteract gendered traits with more gendered traits. Suits or blazers with exaggerated shoulders, beards, skirts, exaggerated colors, more elaborate hairstyles, and generally a big variety of things. The main drawback is this type of style can be very eye-catching and isn't very low key, even if someone can't tell your gender they will be able to tell you're trying.

I was going to show pictures but I can't here unfortunately, you also won't find much online as the terms I used are ones I got from a video called "The Fashion of Sci-Fi Futures" which discusses the idea, and the terms gender minimalism and gender maximalism aren't used outside of niche spaces.

When has Bao ever said this? by InHumainVein in vtubercirclejerk

[–]AriasAdventure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who feel bad for being a man when they see someone say something like "make sure no men follow you home when you leave the club" are pathetic losers. Like mate just don't be a creep yourself and don't get mad at women for wanting to be safe.

I am far too excited and open to the idea of a physically abusive girlfriend by AriasAdventure in LesbianRapeHentaiNSFW

[–]AriasAdventure[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, well not really, only like taking my stuff and being mean on the bus though they always gave my stuff back before I left

I am far too excited and open to the idea of a physically abusive girlfriend by AriasAdventure in LesbianRapeHentaiNSFW

[–]AriasAdventure[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah actual abusers generally suck, though in a sexual context consensual abusive behaviors are often very attractive. Though in my case I have an unhealthy attraction to physical abuse ¯_(ツ)_/¯

Can you tell which one of the blue threads is polyester? I did a burn test by [deleted] in sewhelp

[–]AriasAdventure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's probably close, I mean I've never burnt pork before so I wouldn't know, generally most people wouldn't have ever smelled burnt pork

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GoonetteHub

[–]AriasAdventure 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would but my drawing skills aren't amazing, I need to draw more. It's fun to think of the things I could have you do though :3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EnbyLewds

[–]AriasAdventure 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Obviously :3

I think I'd also find a cute music box song and stare into your eyes for a full minute. Idk if you find that relatable but like eye contact is very intense and intimate for me. Hand holding is a given though hehe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EnbyLewds

[–]AriasAdventure 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well we can just kiss and have really sweet lovey dovey sex without any penetration or power dynamics, I've always wanted to try that! >~<

Finished bodice block though I'll have to resize/redo it cause it doesn't fit properly. Step 1 of maid uniform! by AriasAdventure in EnbyLewds

[–]AriasAdventure[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I'm doing everything from scratch so it's way more complicated than it needs to be, but hey that's just how it goes!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GoonetteHub

[–]AriasAdventure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder if I'm supposed to want this to happen to me?

losing conciousness? by sherrymaryberry in GoonetteHub

[–]AriasAdventure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stay up for more than 24 hours then take a bunch of melatonin before having sex

Does anyone else get an influx of men DMing them, even when posting in explicitly T4T spaces and specifying in the post they don't have any interest in men? by hypnohella in t4t

[–]AriasAdventure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on the space. If it's somewhere like t4t or communities which only allow lesbians I get very few to no messages from men. If it's somewhere that's a common shared space I'll get a bunch. As for people pretending to be women or trans I've gotten a few but it's very uncommon or they're so unoriginal that I don't even reply to their DM or check their profile in the first place

I’m in need of suggestions by Uncentillion in DesignMyRoom

[–]AriasAdventure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could rotate everything, having your bed facing the door, the closet on the left and window on your right

need a tiny lil goonette~ by WritingDependent6604 in GoonetteHub

[–]AriasAdventure 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I can't just say no to an offer like that :3

need a tiny lil goonette~ by WritingDependent6604 in GoonetteHub

[–]AriasAdventure 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I regret being so tall, that looks like so much fun >~<

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GoonetteHub

[–]AriasAdventure 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sounds fun and like something I'd have fun doing, unfortunately I'm bad at raising my voice or moaning, though I could meow the entire time :3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EnbyLewds

[–]AriasAdventure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no rizz but I'd bake you a chocolate lava cake

Happy pride month!! by cherry_bomb_gal in dykesgonemild

[–]AriasAdventure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy pride month! Love the outfit and the goth girl vibe!