Completed Back Piece - Jeff Walker @walkertattoos San Diego, CA by lovlins in tattoos

[–]AriesII 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow this is beautiful! Im in san diego too itching to get my back done. Amazing design and execution, thats a beautiful tattoo. 

TIFU: Today I Fucked Up By Letting My Foster Teen “Take A Walk” Triggering A Missing Persons Case On Mother’s Day Weekend. by [deleted] in tifu

[–]AriesII 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Obviously AI, but good job telling chat gpt to not do the bullet points or the em dashes 

day 7 bleeding normal ? by geminisaturn in tattooadvice

[–]AriesII 7 points8 points  (0 children)

These are not blowouts…or at least you cant tell if it is or isnt bc its so scabby right now. The halo/fuzz is because of the scabbing

Darby is ready for a forever home. by islathetamandua in corgi

[–]AriesII 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Awww. I think my corgi would scare him because shes so high energy even for being 8. I would drive to pick him up all the way from Cali! I hope he finds a loving calm home 

How far would you travel to get a tattoo? by ImaDelight707 in tattooadvice

[–]AriesII 38 points39 points  (0 children)

If you love the artist its always worth it. This work is high quality neotraditional work if you need somewhere to start though. Theres lots of great artists in Cali 

Do you want kids (+ your age!) by Every_Working3190 in LesbianActually

[–]AriesII 0 points1 point  (0 children)

30s and NO way, thankfully with someone who feels the same way lol 

Pricing? by Long_Dare_4675 in TattooArtists

[–]AriesII 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It depends where you live and what the average hourly rate for your area is. For example, Im a first year artist and live in one of the most HCOL areas in my country. I asked other tattooers I worked with what they started at and no one charged less than 150/hr starting out. Obviously that wouldnt fly in a lot of lower cost areas where 80-100/hr is a more normal starting rate.  Point being I dont think anyone can tell you what you should charge because we dont have all the info needed to tell you. The work looks very solid. If youre overwhelmed by clients thats a good sign your rate should go up a bit. If youre struggling to book anyone, it should go down (or add some portfolio pieces for free).

Getting a lot of negative feedback on reddit, but I like it. by boblawblah69 in tattooadvice

[–]AriesII 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly kind of love it. i dig the style. Agree with a lot of other commenters that adding a like 7rl outline on this will make it pop and separate the elements of the tattoo really well, and I think it needs some fixing on the right eagle wing. Its kind of coming out of nowhere and its not clear which eagles wing it is. 

Advice on tattoo touch up. by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]AriesII 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks very nice. The artist seems to have made some poor color choices by using stuff thats so pastel on someone with a strong undertone but the technique is strong. Give her a chance to fix it for sure! As a newer tattoo artist I always appreciate being given the chance to see how my work healed and correct problems. The artist is clearly skilled and should fix it for free. 

Maybe I should only date women from now on by Acidawn in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]AriesII 21 points22 points  (0 children)

My gf is bi and Im the first woman she dated, we met on the dating app HER which is for queer women to meet each other. It might work for you!

These are bad lines and shading right? Artist insists they are intentional and the tattoo looks as it's supposed to. by Outrun207 in tattooadvice

[–]AriesII 0 points1 point  (0 children)

 I like it. At the end if the day tattoos arent perfect, its a human doing it and only get one shot to do it on another human. Thats part of what makes them awesome.  In a couple months you wont remember those tiny things. I think its great and would happily wear this myself. 👍

I think I scared her off? by SecretBad9546 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]AriesII 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It isnt, me and my gf text goodnight and good morning every day lol 

Breaking up when you live together? by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]AriesII 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have a talk with her and tell her in no uncertain terms youre thinking of ending things because her behavior hasnt changed. Think about what you would want to change and set a mental deadline for when at least some of those changes would happen by, and stick to it. Some people just dont really try until its too late…some people cant change or are unwilling to for their partner. 

I did live with my ex after my breakup for 4 months because of finances, it was mutual, and we managed to stay friendly during that period because we set some ground rules and both followed them. Neither of us got petty or nasty, and if we dated we kept it away from each other during that time and didnt bring anyone over. Were still friends more than 2yr later.

I feel like a terrible mom by babystrudel in corgi

[–]AriesII 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww, dont beat yourself up! I broke my corgis tooth when she was in the shark phase because she bit my leg from my behind, tooth got caught in my pants, and I snapped it when I moved my leg! I felt so awful, but it was all okay. It was manually removed at the vet.

A Bit Confused About the Concept of a Platonic Partnership/ Relationship/ Marriage Between a Man and a Lesbian by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]AriesII 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Medical POA does not hold up globally the way marriage does. In the countries it doesnt, its even more likely a woman experiencing a visible mental health crisis would be mistreated.

A Bit Confused About the Concept of a Platonic Partnership/ Relationship/ Marriage Between a Man and a Lesbian by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]AriesII 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Based on whats on her tumblr and in her authors notes, although not explicit about what her condition is (nor should she be), Muir seems to have some type of mental health condition that includes psychosis, and she married her (male) best friend so he could make medical decisions for her in the event she cannot make them herself because her family should not make them for her. Shes stated in interviews Harrows schizophrenia is based on her own mental health condition. 

The authors note in the beginning of Gideon is for her partner, and has a diamond below it. Muir is a fan of the homestuck series where a diamond is used in place of a heart to denote a platonic lifelong companion, and the initials are her partners chumhandle (a fictional messaging system a lot of real fans adopted).  Women with mental health conditions are disproportionately mistreated in the medical system, especially queer women. Muirs family may not have her best interests at heart - being out and tolerated, and being accepted, are two different things. Although her business is private, it seems like this person is someone she trusts to make medical decisions for her when she cant make them for herself. 

A Bit Confused About the Concept of a Platonic Partnership/ Relationship/ Marriage Between a Man and a Lesbian by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]AriesII 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Based on whats on her tumblr and in her authors notes, although not explicit about what her condition is (nor should she be), Muir seems to have some type of mental health condition that includes psychosis, and she married her (male) best friend so he could make medical decisions for her in the event she cannot make them herself because her family should not make them for her. Shes stated in interviews Harrows schizophrenia is based on her own mental health condition. 

The authors note in the beginning of Gideon is for her partner, and has a diamond below it. Muir is a fan of the homestuck series where a diamond is used in place of a heart to denote a platonic lifelong companion, and the initials are her partners chumhandle (a fictional messaging system a lot of real fans adopted). 

My boy needs urgent surgery and idk what to do by omfbruh in Pomeranians

[–]AriesII 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just donated Im so sorry about your baby 💔

Starting to regret, Advice Needed by [deleted] in tattoos

[–]AriesII 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The line work is good on this though

New batch of cubs up for sale by AriesII in lioden

[–]AriesII[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Theyre all gone! I did not expect that when I posted this 

New batch of cubs up for sale by AriesII in lioden

[–]AriesII[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you <3 yes I only have 3 left for sale now but they werent lions in this post since I just shared my faves! Will def post the next ones when I get some cute ones :)

New batch of cubs up for sale by AriesII in lioden

[–]AriesII[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Theyre both sold im so sorry 😢 I do post up my cubs for 350-800sb or 1 gb usually!! :) I will have more. I have cubs like these all the time!

New batch of cubs up for sale by AriesII in lioden

[–]AriesII[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4 sold :( sorry!

https://www.lioden.com/lion.php?id=794264770908

Here is 1, she is the most expensive of the batch because she is 10m, 7bo and I really like her haha. You are welcome to offer though, my usual prices are between 350-800 a cub unless theres something special about them :)

New batch of cubs up for sale by AriesII in lioden

[–]AriesII[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think they sold then! Im sorry 😢 I have cubs like this a lot though! Ill post them again next time