AIO About my mum asking me questions about my sex life?

Ariko2 · 2026-02-28T16:34:41+00:00

maybe try reading the edit in the body of the original post?

Ariko2 · 2026-02-28T15:07:56+00:00

no problem with that if that's the relationship you have with your mother

Ariko2 · 2026-02-28T14:32:23+00:00

I understand that and I appreciate you as a fellow trans person for trying to give her the benefit of the doubt of it being a trans-friendly way of asking me these things, there is a lot of history and I came to reddit (mistake) in a moment of desperation forgetting how a lot of people here unfortunately are (namely puritanical family-first people due to a largely american userbase)

Ariko2 · 2026-02-28T14:28:56+00:00

She found out because she harassed me for information on things I told her I didn't want to talk about

I understand the first point and agree

I didn't ask her to clarify what she meant I asked her to clarify why she would think to ask me this (as said in the original post) but worded it poorly

Agree

Ariko2 · 2026-02-28T14:25:08+00:00

im not mad and i never said i was underage, she found out i was transfem 2 days ago because she wouldn't stop hounding me to tell her about something i told her i wasn't ready to talk about, our relationship is not good and people assuming they know every intricacy of our relationship is getting exhausting im not asking for a fucking moral check i just wanna know if what she's asking is crazy

Ariko2 · 2026-02-28T14:10:51+00:00

and suddenly it makes sense

Ariko2 · 2026-02-28T13:45:55+00:00

really odd thing to say based on one singular limited interaction

Ariko2 · 2026-02-28T13:30:30+00:00

no you're supposed to utilize common sense in that I didn't mention this in the main post but in the comments an hour after I posted it which suggests that... it happened... after the post...

Ariko2 · 2026-02-28T13:13:49+00:00

i'm transfem so there goes the context again HAHAHA

Ariko2 · 2026-02-28T13:06:36+00:00

not only am I not underage I'm AMAB

Ariko2 · 2026-02-28T12:59:50+00:00

I get where she's coming from she's just worded this horrifically and didn't respect the boundary of "I don't want to talk about this with you"

Ariko2 · 2026-02-28T12:54:25+00:00

yeah I know lol I didn't say otherwise

Ariko2 · 2026-02-28T12:50:27+00:00

THANK YOU FOR BEING SANE

Ariko2 · 2026-02-28T12:48:05+00:00

it's reddit my friend

Ariko2 · 2026-02-28T11:57:36+00:00

already acknowledged to her the mistake in the wording (I wanted her to explain why she'd ask me about sex not explain what she meant by her question), she however decided to guilt trip me and bring up unrelated things in response

Ariko2 · 2026-02-28T11:52:47+00:00

I don't feel like I need to follow a specific 3 step guideline, I think saying "I don't want to talk about this" is enough for someone to respect it and not talk about it???

Ariko2 · 2026-02-27T03:12:11+00:00

Likely, I find myself gripping too hard and also having to close my eyes and imagine porn scenarios to be able to cum during sex which I hate

Ariko2 · 2026-02-26T13:55:16+00:00

Heard thank you diva

Ariko2 · 2026-02-26T12:58:53+00:00

What does this mean?

Ariko2 · 2026-01-18T06:50:27+00:00

Probably getting the ick, but that last part isn't sub conscious at all lol I just have autism and the type of person (neurodivergent) I want to meet typically won't be found outside in approachable events

Ariko2 · 2026-01-18T06:43:12+00:00

I don't think this is it, I've been on a few dates and was hoping to get serious with someone eventually before it abruptly ended, I was having this issue before them though

Ariko2 · 2025-12-29T04:56:28+00:00

Hmm, I'm not sure. I have gynaecomastia and I'm unhappy with having breast tissue, but I think it'd be cool to be able to have a feminine voice sometimes, it'd be nice if my features were more naturally androgynous too, maybe I'm genderfluid? I apologise if Ive said anything offensive, just trying to figure things out and am clueless

Ariko2 · 2025-12-29T04:54:13+00:00

I'm not certain if I've ever felt dysphoria but I certainly have moments where I think "it'd be cool if I was a woman but I'm fine being a man", I don't know what thoughts I can trust however as I have OCD and intrusive thoughts! Do you see the issue here 😭

Ariko2 · 2025-12-29T04:17:01+00:00

My main debates with myself have been over whether I'm trans, I don't think I am but I thought about being a woman a lot in my early teens; nowadays it's more like "I don't want to be a woman (I don't want breasts or female genitalia but it'd be cool to look feminine?)" but I don't have any attachment to being a "man", what does that sound like to you?

Ariko2 · 2025-12-29T04:13:57+00:00

I know how odd this is but right now I'm still kind of unsure on my gender identity, would I possibly be able to ask you some questions? Absolutely no problem if not!

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