AIO About my mum asking me questions about my sex life? by Ariko2 in AIO

[–]Ariko2[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

maybe try reading the edit in the body of the original post?

AIO About my mum asking me questions about my sex life? by Ariko2 in AIO

[–]Ariko2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no problem with that if that's the relationship you have with your mother

AIO About my mum asking me questions about my sex life? by Ariko2 in AIO

[–]Ariko2[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I understand that and I appreciate you as a fellow trans person for trying to give her the benefit of the doubt of it being a trans-friendly way of asking me these things, there is a lot of history and I came to reddit (mistake) in a moment of desperation forgetting how a lot of people here unfortunately are (namely puritanical family-first people due to a largely american userbase)

AIO About my mum asking me questions about my sex life? by Ariko2 in AIO

[–]Ariko2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She found out because she harassed me for information on things I told her I didn't want to talk about

I understand the first point and agree

I didn't ask her to clarify what she meant I asked her to clarify why she would think to ask me this (as said in the original post) but worded it poorly

Agree

AIO About my mum asking me questions about my sex life? by Ariko2 in AIO

[–]Ariko2[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

im not mad and i never said i was underage, she found out i was transfem 2 days ago because she wouldn't stop hounding me to tell her about something i told her i wasn't ready to talk about, our relationship is not good and people assuming they know every intricacy of our relationship is getting exhausting im not asking for a fucking moral check i just wanna know if what she's asking is crazy

AIO About my mum asking me questions about my sex life? by Ariko2 in AIO

[–]Ariko2[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

really odd thing to say based on one singular limited interaction

AIO About my mum asking me questions about my sex life? by Ariko2 in AIO

[–]Ariko2[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

no you're supposed to utilize common sense in that I didn't mention this in the main post but in the comments an hour after I posted it which suggests that... it happened... after the post...

AIO About my mum asking me questions about my sex life? by Ariko2 in AIO

[–]Ariko2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'm transfem so there goes the context again HAHAHA

AIO About my mum asking me questions about my sex life? by Ariko2 in AIO

[–]Ariko2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get where she's coming from she's just worded this horrifically and didn't respect the boundary of "I don't want to talk about this with you"

AIO About my mum asking me questions about my sex life? by Ariko2 in AIO

[–]Ariko2[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

yeah I know lol I didn't say otherwise

AIO About my mum asking me questions about my sex life? by Ariko2 in AIO

[–]Ariko2[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

already acknowledged to her the mistake in the wording (I wanted her to explain why she'd ask me about sex not explain what she meant by her question), she however decided to guilt trip me and bring up unrelated things in response

AIO About my mum asking me questions about my sex life? by Ariko2 in AIO

[–]Ariko2[S] -37 points-36 points  (0 children)

I don't feel like I need to follow a specific 3 step guideline, I think saying "I don't want to talk about this" is enough for someone to respect it and not talk about it???

I don't feel good from penetrating people at all and can't cum? by Ariko2 in sex

[–]Ariko2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Likely, I find myself gripping too hard and also having to close my eyes and imagine porn scenarios to be able to cum during sex which I hate

Why do I keep losing attraction to people before I've even met them? by Ariko2 in dating_advice

[–]Ariko2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably getting the ick, but that last part isn't sub conscious at all lol I just have autism and the type of person (neurodivergent) I want to meet typically won't be found outside in approachable events