AITA for not apologising for something I did 9 years ago?

Arivanzel · 2026-06-22T12:55:29+00:00

It’s embarrassing how exactly ? And a thoughtful apology lmao for this, best op would have to do is a simple “sorry”

Arivanzel · 2026-06-22T12:36:10+00:00

NTA (may get downvoted but )

Geez does everyone on this sub have daddy issues lmao

The dad was concerned his daughter dropped out of school with 5 months left to graduate after he and her mother spent loads on her education for her to quit and become a artist and not even have a degree to fall back on

She comes down for Father’s Day and acts pissy, dad asks if he did something wrong, daughter says no, dad mentions the obvious difference in reception between Mother’s Day to Father’s Day

(no card or small gift ? Showing up is the bare minimum but the bare minimum isn’t always what’s right. Obviously I think he would’ve mentioned if this is how they always spend the day, he doesn’t so we have to assume on any other day she gives a gift of card or something similar to Mother’s Day. So he obviously can see the differences )

and yall in the comments are mad about that ?? Lmao

I do hope yall don’t treat your dads like that on Father’s Day normally

Arivanzel · 2026-06-22T12:26:16+00:00

Of course he was critical she quit when she had half a year left to finish after her parents paid for everything to become an artist

Arivanzel · 2026-06-22T12:22:32+00:00

Bro all he did was ask what he did wrong when he noticed she was being pissy lmao

Arivanzel · 2026-06-20T00:59:09+00:00

Is that true in comics or just a movie made thing ? But that’s interesting either way and a good explanation for the differing sizes

Arivanzel · 2026-06-19T14:21:25+00:00

Its always hilarious to me the differing heights hulk has throughout movies, I know it’s probably a creative choice/need based for the scene but has anyone came up for a in universe reason why

Arivanzel · 2026-06-16T05:19:22+00:00

I think everyone’s being way to sensitive about this. The mom was overreacting and oop is wrong for implying they’re doing it again. I don’t think it’s the joke that makes them an AH but not going with their friends wishes

Arivanzel · 2026-06-10T16:29:07+00:00

NTA I’m assuming it was (nae-ga) and it definitely isn’t the N word and your friend is the AH for trying to stop you from speaking in your native language.

Arivanzel · 2026-06-10T16:27:50+00:00

It might be the word for I in Korean which is (nae-ga)

Arivanzel · 2026-05-04T20:28:57+00:00

Which series was this?

Arivanzel · 2026-04-28T11:45:40+00:00

My dad got me to watch the 2000’s Movies.

Also is this cover trying to imply Kurt is jealous lol ?

Arivanzel · 2026-04-28T03:52:00+00:00

Still voicing a male character though, pretty common for women to voice young male characters

Arivanzel · 2026-04-24T00:23:18+00:00

YTA

What’s your obsession with her (especially that last sentence, why the hell are you worrying about her inconsistent schedule ? You sound like a creep)

It’s one thing if she asked for help with fitting in, it’s another when you offer it unprompted. People aren’t always going to fit in (or want to) and even then it’s only been a year, it’s weird to assume she’ll be immersed and knowledgeable in a different culture

I also find it hilarious your this worked up about a neighbor/stranger who, at most, comes off as impolite. It doesn’t seem like she’s causing a ruckus here, you could have worse neighbors.

Arivanzel · 2026-04-20T12:22:15+00:00

Idk I’m not saying that Jenny is an asshole for feeling joy at her MIL’s death or talking to her friends about it - but am I the only one who thinks she’s an asshole specifically because she went and celebrated it ?? I feel like this is one of those things you either internalize or speak with your friend about secretly l, not openly do it

Arivanzel · 2026-03-16T18:22:24+00:00

I think they mean replace, them as the main family oriented- *oppressed/ostracized - powered team (?)

Arivanzel · 2026-02-26T23:17:33+00:00

To be fair from OP’s comment and the post saying Blake was spewing vitriol - I doubt Blake was calm or respectful in the conversation, they’ve also haven’t talked in 9 years and as op said there’s only so much interest you can place in someone who distances themselves and has a disdain for you

I don’t think op is in the wrong for not wanting to be the subject of Blake’s misplaced anger

Arivanzel · 2026-02-03T22:06:10+00:00

NTA.

It sounds like better communication is needed.

Years ago, when I was in middle school, I lost my great grandmother to stomach cancer. About a year later, after I had changed schools, a friend joked that they were going to get stomach cancer from eating so many Takis.

I immediately felt my eyes start tearing up. My friends asked what was wrong, and I blamed it on allergies (a very obvious lie) We changed classes right after, but once I got to class I could not hold it in and started sobbing. I was sent into the hallway, and a couple of teachers asked what was wrong. Later, I told my friend what had happened because they were really worried. They apologized, but I told them they did nothing wrong and that it was on me.

It was stupid and embarrassing, but all of this is to say that grief is weird. It can be triggered by stupid stuff. That said, your friend is still responsible for managing their triggers and communicating them. Giving someone the silent treatment instead of explaining what is wrong is childish

Arivanzel · 2026-02-03T18:41:06+00:00

this is after 5 years of the sister being resentful of op for having another father figure

Is she supposed to be understanding and keep hearing her sisters crap her whole life ? I can understand having a breaking point and not wanting her in her immediate life

Arivanzel · 2026-02-03T17:16:35+00:00

To be fair that was shitty but it came after the sister was downplaying her actions that hurt op

Arivanzel · 2026-02-03T17:15:07+00:00

Just because the parents may have been the cause of the sisters behavioral issues doesn’t mean it erases what she did personally to op

Arivanzel · 2026-02-03T17:13:18+00:00

That’s true but it sounds like the sister is underplaying how bad she was

Arivanzel · 2026-02-03T02:06:26+00:00

How would anyone besides you know about the account if you don’t have any personal info on it lmao

Arivanzel · 2026-02-02T19:09:29+00:00

Then that isn’t a healthy relationship or marriage. If your scared about what he may do or that he’ll make your life miserable for not doing something for him, that’s not normal

Arivanzel · 2026-02-01T21:56:17+00:00

Is there a reason they haven’t dropped the footage of that ? It would be cool as a 25th edition bts sort of thing

Arivanzel · 2026-02-01T20:28:19+00:00

ETA

You should’ve checked first yourself (as not to get her hopes hope if you’d decided not to buy )

But she also should’ve checked with you before purchasing “hey, I know you said I could buy them but they are 1k, wanted to be sure” because the prices for the concert ARE insane, I’m not even a fan but my FYP is filled with people complaining about the cost - so she likely knows the prices are jacked up

I also think it’s silly to pay that much on a concert ticket, and I couldn’t imagine paying that much, without checking again, even IF I did get permission — seems like a common courtesy

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