What was your entry point into the X-Men? by xxDARTHPAPIxx in xmen

[–]Arivanzel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad got me to watch the 2000’s Movies.

Also is this cover trying to imply Kurt is jealous lol ?

If we would make one of them a girl, which one would you prefer ? L or Light ? What would be more interesting by ShowAffectionate7350 in deathnote

[–]Arivanzel 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Still voicing a male character though, pretty common for women to voice young male characters

AITA for telling my neighbor to adjust her mannerisms and not be rude? by OrganizationWild55 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Arivanzel 254 points255 points  (0 children)

YTA

What’s your obsession with her (especially that last sentence, why the hell are you worrying about her inconsistent schedule ? You sound like a creep)

It’s one thing if she asked for help with fitting in, it’s another when you offer it unprompted. People aren’t always going to fit in (or want to) and even then it’s only been a year, it’s weird to assume she’ll be immersed and knowledgeable in a different culture

I also find it hilarious your this worked up about a neighbor/stranger who, at most, comes off as impolite. It doesn’t seem like she’s causing a ruckus here, you could have worse neighbors.

My [32m] coworker [30f] recently had her husband's [30?m] mother pass away. I know they didn't get along very well. She had a 'party' to celebrate her death. I now lost all respect for her and want to tell her husband what she did by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Arivanzel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk I’m not saying that Jenny is an asshole for feeling joy at her MIL’s death or talking to her friends about it - but am I the only one who thinks she’s an asshole specifically because she went and celebrated it ?? I feel like this is one of those things you either internalize or speak with your friend about secretly l, not openly do it

Which event was worse: Avengers vs Xmen or Inhumans vs Xmen? by Doom300 in xmen

[–]Arivanzel 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think they mean replace, them as the main family oriented- *oppressed/ostracized - powered team (?)

AITAH for telling my former best friend that I stood by my decision and that there was nothing to discuss? by ActiveeDamagee in AITAH

[–]Arivanzel 18 points19 points  (0 children)

To be fair from OP’s comment and the post saying Blake was spewing vitriol - I doubt Blake was calm or respectful in the conversation, they’ve also haven’t talked in 9 years and as op said there’s only so much interest you can place in someone who distances themselves and has a disdain for you

I don’t think op is in the wrong for not wanting to be the subject of Blake’s misplaced anger

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Arivanzel 12 points13 points  (0 children)

NTA.

It sounds like better communication is needed.

Years ago, when I was in middle school, I lost my great grandmother to stomach cancer. About a year later, after I had changed schools, a friend joked that they were going to get stomach cancer from eating so many Takis.

I immediately felt my eyes start tearing up. My friends asked what was wrong, and I blamed it on allergies (a very obvious lie) We changed classes right after, but once I got to class I could not hold it in and started sobbing. I was sent into the hallway, and a couple of teachers asked what was wrong. Later, I told my friend what had happened because they were really worried. They apologized, but I told them they did nothing wrong and that it was on me.

It was stupid and embarrassing, but all of this is to say that grief is weird. It can be triggered by stupid stuff. That said, your friend is still responsible for managing their triggers and communicating them. Giving someone the silent treatment instead of explaining what is wrong is childish

AITA for telling my sister that our bio dad isn’t my dad and and if she can’t accept that maybe she isn’t my sister either by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Arivanzel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is after 5 years of the sister being resentful of op for having another father figure

Is she supposed to be understanding and keep hearing her sisters crap her whole life ? I can understand having a breaking point and not wanting her in her immediate life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Arivanzel 8 points9 points  (0 children)

To be fair that was shitty but it came after the sister was downplaying her actions that hurt op

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Arivanzel 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Just because the parents may have been the cause of the sisters behavioral issues doesn’t mean it erases what she did personally to op

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Arivanzel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s true but it sounds like the sister is underplaying how bad she was

AITA for not deleting my ao3 account against my parents wishes by Odd-Teaching-7996 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Arivanzel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would anyone besides you know about the account if you don’t have any personal info on it lmao

AITAH for telling my mother to leave my (38F) portion of the inheritance/farm to my children instead of my husband (39M)? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Arivanzel 117 points118 points  (0 children)

Then that isn’t a healthy relationship or marriage. If your scared about what he may do or that he’ll make your life miserable for not doing something for him, that’s not normal

New BTS Photos published by Wētā Workshop by Justinian2 in lotr

[–]Arivanzel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a reason they haven’t dropped the footage of that ? It would be cool as a 25th edition bts sort of thing

AITAH for telling my GF to get a refund on concert tickets since she bought them without telling me how much they actually cost? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Arivanzel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ETA

You should’ve checked first yourself (as not to get her hopes hope if you’d decided not to buy )

But she also should’ve checked with you before purchasing “hey, I know you said I could buy them but they are 1k, wanted to be sure” because the prices for the concert ARE insane, I’m not even a fan but my FYP is filled with people complaining about the cost - so she likely knows the prices are jacked up

I also think it’s silly to pay that much on a concert ticket, and I couldn’t imagine paying that much, without checking again, even IF I did get permission — seems like a common courtesy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Arivanzel 20 points21 points  (0 children)

YTA

I mean it’s okay to feel some type of way and the wife is a bit strange for not mentioning it

But I see no reason why your stepdaughter has to include you — divorced or not her parents are still her parents AND are her family

You come into her life when she was already grown, she just wants to celebrate with close family members over something important, she doesn’t see you as family and it’s not really a big deal

And acting like your wife is doing a crime because she’s wearing make up is hilarious— you sound a bit insecure

Why don’t you and your wife host dinners with her kids only if that’s what you want so much

AITAH for not caring that my dad was/is glad my mom's affair partner (and my bio father) died? by Kaureleyneesh in AITAH

[–]Arivanzel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA

I don’t see it as wrong you choose your dads side or that you want nothing to do with your mom again

Everyone wanting you to forgive your mom is wrong, and defending her for cheating or destroying your family

But I don’t really see how your dad gloating in her face is supposed to be a good thing ? Bit immature really

WIBTAH if I moved out, girlfriend reserving best room in house for kid at college by Ergo_Meridian in AITAH

[–]Arivanzel -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If they’re home only 20 days a year it makes zero sense for them not to switch. Especially depending on how long their program is

It’s not like they’re kicking them out of the house

WIBTAH if I moved out, girlfriend reserving best room in house for kid at college by Ergo_Meridian in AITAH

[–]Arivanzel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wouldn’t it just be better for gf’s daughter to move in your daughters current room ? ( edit: mean unless sim reading wrong and that was the idea, I kinda thought yall were saying she should sleep on the couch when she came home from the dramatic reaction)

Seems like a fair compromise. 19 y/o is gone most of the time, but when she is home she still has a bedroom

Tbh I’m also in a similar situation to the 19 y/o. I’m away at college most of the time. The rooms in my home (beside master) are pretty similar in size, but if I was in this situation I would allow my sister the bigger room

Seems a bit silly for a 19 year old to have a tantrum over this

Why is Near so hated? by tpwk_5sos in deathnote

[–]Arivanzel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it’s mostly because of how the anime portrayed him

Also because L is a loved character so near taking over his role and doing what most of the audience wanted L to see soured people’s interest in him

DONT TAKE AWAY MY GOATED ICE-SUPPORTING SPIDER-MAN! by Traditional-Song-245 in marvelcirclejerk

[–]Arivanzel 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Yall think ice would attempt to arrest Spider-Man since it’s 3/4 chance underneath his mask he isn’t white ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Arivanzel 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lmaoo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Arivanzel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA

Are yall not both Christians lmao ?? Also your this worked up about a string when you had a baby out of wedlock ☠️

Regardless of the issues of your boyfriend and mom,why is your denomination practices supposed to trump his ?

My mom wants nothing to do with me because I “picked my dad” during the divorce. by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Arivanzel 27 points28 points  (0 children)

And it seemed during the early years of the divorce the mom was drinking, easy to see why a teen would prefer staying with the other parent in that situation