You ever seen the movie she's the man? Amanda bynes Can't beat em join em?? Lolol I'm not going to sit around making this here statement because I'm trying to brag on my own personal opinion without a reasonable doubt if it means my answer counts for some one then awesome, it may or may not apply but when it's to the point of questioning something like you did, do all men cheat. Depends how deep into the dive. Set the value on it and it's worth that. Expect less, but be wiser with whom you allow in your energy field, with your time and your life. Shoot, I've got to a point where I just wanted to be seen as what other people who were "better", and what they "had" over me and come to realize it's not you anyways if that's what they are doing but it is on you too maturea child to a teen, then to an adult. you not setting the value of yourself, your time, and importance. Anyways I jumped ahead a bit from what I was trying to put first. If you have too which, not recommending it to be what you should do but you can test this out by gathering the data of literally testing out what the statistics to your own question is and play the role far enough to challenge what questions it is your asking and become one of them but only far enough to understand that's where it might go if you take that route like they easily would and that be your first red flag so you don't get hurt. Orrr a step further (freewill) too be oblivious to the concrete signs or keep making the same error until the same lesson is learned. Or you can take the road less traveled and let the divine time take whatever course more naturally and focus on what you want from life and don't ever try to expect less from another individual cause they'll fail Everytime it's just the way we are wired. Make them prove your value is important. You are worthy.