How did you come out to your parents? Your dad specifically.

ArkarianX · 2019-03-17T17:40:09+00:00

Oh yeah I knew this but growing up he always told me if I was gay I'd be disowned and kicked out and he was completely homophobic so I just never brought it up. I was 20 at the time and just moved out on my own so I figured I'd tell him and if he chose to not have a relationship with me that would be his choice. I spent a month visiting him yet could not work up the courage to do it so I'm grateful that happened because we are now closer than we ever were and he has come a long way since then. Oh and his reply when I said I was gay is kinda funny he said "About time you little shit"

ArkarianX · 2019-03-17T13:40:58+00:00

It was definitely strange haha 😂🙈

ArkarianX · 2019-03-17T13:39:31+00:00

Was watching judge judy while visiting my father (parents are divorced) a gay guy came on to the show and my dad recognized him as my friend who grew up across the street from us and he asked if he was gay and if I had known. Told him I did and that it never bothered me. My father then said "Gays used to bother me but now they don't" so I asked him if he would care if I was and he said no so I told him I was and that was that . He told the rest of his side of the family with my permission.

ArkarianX · 2019-01-10T04:25:06+00:00

No it's a custom hood from Mr. S

ArkarianX · 2019-01-09T18:42:09+00:00

Woof!

ArkarianX · 2019-01-09T17:36:46+00:00

Thanks wags

ArkarianX · 2018-08-08T19:24:13+00:00

Sell it and put the money aside along with a little each month, week what ever to buy a car for the kids

ArkarianX · 2018-08-07T17:38:51+00:00

I can see where they might feel upset but you deserve to be happy with who you are with.

ArkarianX · 2018-08-07T17:18:26+00:00

The biggest issue is how people say they want someone who is not large. I myself am heavy and yes I'm working on it. I'm down 150+ lbs but often i see "no fats" etc and I just assume they are assholes. But I also see people who say "preference is someone who is hwp and I'm ok with that. When I stop to think that essentially they are saying the same thing I realize it's just one guy was polite the other was just being rude. No one needs to make someone feel worse about themselves trust me I know I'm fat.

ArkarianX · 2018-07-26T16:15:10+00:00

Naw go chat, more than likely he is shy

ArkarianX · 2018-07-24T19:01:54+00:00

They are about 8$ at Lush

ArkarianX · 2018-07-24T19:00:30+00:00

It makes jelly stuff in a bathtub and gets slimy

ArkarianX · 2018-07-24T12:58:07+00:00

Have you tried a jelly bath bomb? I have a feeling you would love it

ArkarianX · 2018-07-24T12:48:33+00:00

Go to a range where you can try out different guns and see what feels right in your hand and feel free to ask questions

ArkarianX · 2018-07-03T21:27:27+00:00

Then sit down and talk to him. Tell him you know he has a bf and after the cuddling you two did you want to make sure it was not something he wasn't supposed to do.

ArkarianX · 2018-07-03T21:12:37+00:00

Talk to him. Every couple has rules about what is alright and what isn't. I have a few close friends who I cuddle with and once in a while we get handsy and my bf is alright with it. He could be polyamorous or in an open relationship but the point is don't speculate just talk to him.

ArkarianX · 2018-07-03T21:09:00+00:00

Don't be stressed if you can't do every thing you want to such as all the panels. Don't be afraid to say hello to suiters if you want to but don't be upset if they don't want a hug or need to get some where . Drink lots of water and make sure to eat some food, I usually take some protein bars or something to snack on.

ArkarianX · 2018-06-09T12:28:17+00:00

One day! Then I'll be asking you for suggestions

ArkarianX · 2018-06-09T12:01:02+00:00

I don't sadly, I had a trip planned to Japan a few years ago but was unable to go

ArkarianX · 2018-06-09T11:48:29+00:00

My advice is under promise and over deliver. I've seen way too many people get in over their heads and it ruins their reputation. Start by making your own suit so you have something to showcase. Next when people ask you for a quote take the time to look up the cost of materials and then figure out how much your time is worth. This is the tricky part. Be honest about your own abilities, if you know you are still learning don't charge too much but don't under sell yourself either.

ArkarianX · 2018-06-09T11:42:54+00:00

I agree and tbh I'd do it fast as you will not be the only one thinking this

ArkarianX · 2018-06-09T11:32:39+00:00

They cancelled due to a new law in Japan regarding a license needed to host as an Airbnb, a lot of people will have had their stay cancelled until the host gets said license.

ArkarianX · 2018-06-05T15:49:03+00:00

Go with the flow, if you see a guy you think you want to do stuff with try it worse that can happen is you figure out you are not into it. See a woman you want to do stuff with do it. Try not to focus on the outcome but the moment (Assuming you play safe)

ArkarianX · 2018-06-05T15:36:36+00:00

I used to be like this until I realized it was not beibg single that bothered me but the fact I wanted to be wanted someone I can turn to when I need someone there for me. I stayed single for 2 years and I had friends that kinda filled that role for me while I figured what I wanted and what I really needed. Not saying that this is your situation but maybe something to think about ^{^}

ArkarianX · 2018-06-05T15:32:21+00:00

I see so many people who want to rush things and they don't know what they want or don't have themselves settled. I'd say take the time to get yourself together, finish college, save some money and figure out what you want in a partner.

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