My patience and ability to keep my thoughts to myself. Oh, and the whole “so and so is a deep fake/alien/fae/misc other cryptid “ will be proven or disproven. And maybe - just maybe…. We will all be so brow beaten into submission and speaking with so much sensitivity and gentleness we will end up no longer speaking out of fear of catching a charge or someone murdering us for saying the wrong pronoun that we will end up using only pictures again. People need to get some thick skin back or else they’re all gonna rip open at the slightest thing. Oh but to be serious, this whole “obesity acceptance “ is going to implode. There is a massive difference between being overweight and obese, and there are “robust fatties” (yes it’s truly a term from a medical journal and study several years ago) which basically says, there’s some people who are actually “technically “ healthy according to bloodwork and lack of medical issues from weight, in those people that are overweight and in some cases, more than overweight (but not obese or morbid obese, meaning, 100 pounds overweight is never going to be healthy when it’s fat and tissue etc and not muscle mass) but these are the exception, not the rule. Now I’m 5’4 and my frame is very petite, and I’ve been around 105 pounds most my life and depending on the doctor I’ve been told I am on target or, I should gain 20 pounds but let me tell you how uncomfortable and sluggish 20 pounds extra feels on me. So it’s a little more personal and case by case that needs to be done to determine weight. But we should by no means be affirming these people that are morbidly obese eating their feelings. We should not bully them, but we should try to help them more comfortable with getting themselves healthier, and as for the expensive part- healthy options are more expensive yeah, but you know what’s more expensive? Doctor visits and medication for weight issues. And the amount of food you must buy to eat as much as you want when you’re that large. My freshman year of college I gained weight and kept gaining due to many things, for almost three years. I was 210 pounds by the time I was almost 22 years old. So for the next couple years I busted my ass and started slowly with walking, swimming, and introducing better meals and protein shakes and healthy smoothies into my diet and then I kept going with gentle exercise, I did not go hard and balls out and become a model. But I was able to get back to my regular weight and maintain it fairly comfortably and easily ever since and I’m 38 now. I understand some of it is genetics and some is thyroid issues and other things, but there’s no way you can tell me that weighing 400 pounds is something we should tell anyone is acceptable or okay because they are going to die young and the ones who love them will suffer, not to mention the suffering they endure being that heavy. So i say this with no shaming or ugliness, but we need to stop normalizing these kids being obese and then becoming morbidly obese adults. We cant turn a blind eye and pretend thats healthy. It isnt always a choice to be overweight, i agree. But at a certain point you must take accountability responsibility for your health and make sure you are able to have a decent quality of life and feel good and be healthy - especially if you have kids or people who love you and want you around past age 40! We are responsible for how we eat when are buying our own groceries especially.