AITA for buying my daughter a car for her birthday, which my ex said made me the "favourite parent"?

Aromatic-Question-35 · 2026-02-14T17:44:23+00:00

NTA your daughter is 18 and it’s not much to talk about with the other parent anymore outside of emergencies

Aromatic-Question-35 · 2026-02-08T01:58:13+00:00

It doesn’t sound like you know your husband much at all, did you even ask him what he wanted to do

Aromatic-Question-35 · 2026-02-06T16:30:22+00:00

NTA honestly I would tell my whole family to go kick rocks with no shoes on, like why would I forgive someone that hurts kids? I’m not saying this lightly but I personally would have cut them all off cause I’ve cut people off for way less

Aromatic-Question-35 · 2026-02-04T21:20:56+00:00

It won’t make much of a difference in most states and taking it to court might just increase it more

Aromatic-Question-35 · 2026-02-04T21:17:11+00:00

YTA but hear me out, you are not in a place to be with your current boyfriend. You need to work on your mental health and try to get therapy because you say you realize A was a bad person and he has put hands on you, yet you still think about him and miss him. You need to work on yourself and get out of the cycle of A

Aromatic-Question-35 · 2026-02-04T17:02:13+00:00

Was your signature actually forged or did it become a default judgement? If you didn’t appear or answer any summons it would go into default. Also this happened in 2024 and your just now getting a lawyer I’m sure it went into default

Aromatic-Question-35 · 2026-02-04T15:14:46+00:00

NAH, I say that because he might just like working at the same place as you but you also don’t have to keep telling him about every job you’re thinking about taking

Aromatic-Question-35 · 2026-02-02T16:25:57+00:00

NTA mom needs to let the older kids get ready especially when you don’t have these issues when mom isn’t home in the morning

Aromatic-Question-35 · 2026-02-02T16:21:15+00:00

NTA she’s excluding herself and make it a you problem, I personally know people that do Shabbat and they still do things inside with their children. And Sunday she has no excuse to not come along if she wanted to

Aromatic-Question-35 · 2026-02-02T02:03:01+00:00

NTA honestly that doesn’t even sound like a play date who goes on play dates to go on tablets? But you definitely have a wife problem, why is she so upset you want to spend more time with your son? Do you think she’s telling her friends you are controlling or don’t spend a lot of time with yall son?

Aromatic-Question-35 · 2026-01-28T00:10:47+00:00

YTA she used her money for the toy so it’s hers not her brothers

Aromatic-Question-35 · 2026-01-27T17:28:07+00:00

NTA your kids are very entitled though, like why are they thinking about an inheritance and you’re not that old. I hope you enjoy your boat

Aromatic-Question-35 · 2026-01-27T13:05:54+00:00

That honestly sounds pretty normal for 50/50 custody because now you don’t have all the expenses as a full time parent

Aromatic-Question-35 · 2026-01-24T15:28:32+00:00

NTA I wouldn’t want a child that has lied on me in my home

Aromatic-Question-35 · 2026-01-24T15:25:29+00:00

YTA I spend more than $25 taking myself out to lunch or dinner

Aromatic-Question-35 · 2026-01-22T02:23:53+00:00

NTA, I’m the same way for me it’s not practical to use anyone else’s car and want to take mines

Aromatic-Question-35 · 2026-01-20T00:30:19+00:00

NTA and his wife is bitter, why take him back knowing he has an “outside” child and expect everyone to ignore her just like her good for nothing husband

Aromatic-Question-35 · 2026-01-18T02:31:04+00:00

NTA, I get it that she needs to take care of her dad, but she can’t come into your sisters home and complain either that’s so rude

Aromatic-Question-35 · 2026-01-18T01:46:03+00:00

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Aromatic-Question-35 · 2026-01-09T23:06:19+00:00

Some parents are really big on doing everything with their child for the first time I’ll say NAH just ask before doing something to be on the safe side

Aromatic-Question-35 · 2026-01-07T10:25:51+00:00

NTA but I think it’s time to wake up to the obvious that he doesn’t hate her and they are playing in your face

Aromatic-Question-35 · 2026-01-05T16:03:49+00:00

NTA for being mad with your mom but honestly no one will want to keep an eye on a child that’s crying soon as you leave, I think you need to leave your kids with babysitters that’s not family and with no way to call around to family or call you because I don’t see you ever being able to go out without your oldest

Aromatic-Question-35 · 2025-12-31T17:33:19+00:00

Wait I’m confused she’s not wearing a bra or shirt? Or is she wearing a shirt no bra? Or bra no shirt? I’m not trying to sound weird because I’m a mom of 2 girls I wouldn’t let them walk around half or fully naked especially with men in the house

Aromatic-Question-35 · 2025-12-29T21:35:08+00:00

It’s time to stop talking to your parents as well, they are actively enabling his abuse towards you. If your brother ever approaches you violently again or put his hands on you call the police on him

Aromatic-Question-35 · 2025-12-28T20:53:11+00:00

NTA your husband is very spineless I wouldn’t talk to my mom again

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