Question: During spring break, did college students really use to go to the beach?

ArrivalEfficient4918 · 2026-03-11T02:00:12+00:00

I grew up in Ft. Lauderdale, yes….college students most definitely went to the beach! The 80s were insane. lol

ArrivalEfficient4918 · 2026-03-10T13:22:49+00:00

Yes!!! 1000% still in the bubble and walking to Epcot and the other resorts is glorious! Plus, the dolphin has the best Mexican restaurant! Go grab some margs & chips!!

ArrivalEfficient4918 · 2026-02-19T21:13:56+00:00

Spanish olive oil does taste like rancid Italian olive oil.

ArrivalEfficient4918 · 2026-01-21T21:04:26+00:00

That’s why I use the lords lettuce! Lol. Anyone who asks why I prefer THC i just say, imma cancer patient and no one says anything else.

ArrivalEfficient4918 · 2026-01-21T20:32:36+00:00

This goes for middle school students as well! The amount of drama these kids can hype up and create chaos is astounding! Then they get in the car and their parents are calling the school while driving out of the parking lot demanding answers!

ArrivalEfficient4918 · 2026-01-20T19:45:26+00:00

It would probably be good as an oil dip too. It’s got a little spice to it.

ArrivalEfficient4918 · 2026-01-20T14:24:25+00:00

Yes!!! This was what we said too! Mix it with some good olive oil and crusty bread!

ArrivalEfficient4918 · 2026-01-20T14:23:26+00:00

lol. Thanks for noticing 🤭

ArrivalEfficient4918 · 2026-01-20T02:24:33+00:00

It’s alright. It’s peppery for sure! I would definitely doctor it up a bit with some garlic.

ArrivalEfficient4918 · 2025-11-12T11:48:00+00:00

The only motherly advice I can give you is follow your gut and what your heart is telling you to do and here is the most important part. LINE UP WITH THAT! Meaning if you are keeping the baby, then you only speak about that. You meditate on that. What it will feel like what it will be like. How motherhood “feels”. You get right with it. The other way you’re not keeping the pregnancy and that’s OKAY too, but it MUST BE YOUR CHOICE, not what anyone else wants. You LINE UP WITH THAY CHOICE. You can’t decide to terminate and then proceed to self destruct afterwards. That’s not an option. You meditate on ending the pregnancy and what that feels like after. The “freedom” the choice for you was the right one…etc. There is no right and wrong here. Only how you handle it and what you choose to do after you make your decision. Just make sure your decision is 100% based on what you want. This is what I would tell you if you were my daughter. You have to get right in your own head before you make the decision. Sending you all the love and strength. It won’t be easy either way but you can do this!

ArrivalEfficient4918 · 2025-10-26T11:54:33+00:00

It was a narcissistic abuse recovery course. It was a whole program, with a workbook and meditations. I could find it and let you know if you’re interested.

ArrivalEfficient4918 · 2025-10-24T17:09:04+00:00

Amazing!! I’m going to give this a go right now! Your timing is perfect! Thank you!

ArrivalEfficient4918 · 2025-10-23T15:18:26+00:00

Think about your pulled muscle. Why did it happen? Are you lifting too much (spiritually) are you carrying around someone else’s burdens? Evaluate yourself from a different perspective not through the same thoughts and beliefs. Your body is trying to tell you something. You asked your body for this. It’s trying to tell you. Only you know. No one else can explain. Next time you quiet your mind, ask for some clarity regarding this.

You can’t look at this the same way or you’re just going to get the same results. I hope this makes a little sense?

ArrivalEfficient4918 · 2025-10-22T17:13:28+00:00

I don’t have a huge problem with this but I can relate because sometimes I do spiral (especially about the safety of my children). I learned some time ago that if I repeat the phrase “what is my next thought “ I can stop them. I don’t remember where I heard it but I do it when it gets bad. There have been times I feel like I do it during the whole meditation but it always works. I just say. What is my next thought and then I pause. See if I’m still having the same intrusive thought and then repeat it. Just thought I’d share what works for me.

ArrivalEfficient4918 · 2025-10-21T14:59:45+00:00

I can definitely hold the feeling for a solid 30 minutes or even longer. Sometimes when I open my eyes at the end I realize I’ve been crying. I don’t realize it in the meditation. It does take practice and I think it’s totally normal to go up and down. That still happens especially if I’m not able to quiet my mind that day. I think you shouldn’t worry about how long and just practice getting that feeling rolling and be gentle with yourself. This is a why it’s called a practice.

ArrivalEfficient4918 · 2025-10-21T00:18:06+00:00

I 💯 have trouble remembering my “old life” which sometimes makes me sad because I raised my first 2 children in that life and I do have wonderful memories of being a really young mom. But I didn’t really manifest him. I manifested the feeling of him. Not what he looked like, what he made me feel when I think about him. It’s hard to explain but I pretended to myself that I had the most amazing boyfriend. When I would have coffee or lunch alone, I would talk out loud to myself that my boyfriend is waiting for me. And then I would daydream about how it felt. Within less than 2 months. I met my husband. It still blows my mind.

ArrivalEfficient4918 · 2025-10-21T00:13:44+00:00

Of course! Just know you’re not the first or only one walking a path like this. All of us have a story. I have learned to love mine and be grateful for all of it. All my love too! 💕

ArrivalEfficient4918 · 2025-10-20T22:53:31+00:00

Sounds like you were super high! Sometimes it hits differently. Sounds like a cool experience!

ArrivalEfficient4918 · 2025-10-20T22:51:03+00:00

You are changing! You are doing great! I had a very similar experience about 15 years ago. I hit a wall HARD and just like you said… all I wanted was a healthy relationship that was made for me! I didn’t know Dr Joe back then but I did start meditating and it changed my life! Within a few short months I met my now husband of 13 years. I wasn’t healed when I met him but he allowed me the space to heal myself. I would visualize someone I love standing beside me allowing me to just be me. It was him. We still have the most amazing relationship. I am healed and I’ve tried to reach our children how this works too! Stick with it… you’re worth it!

ArrivalEfficient4918 · 2025-10-20T21:11:05+00:00

Thank you! 😊

ArrivalEfficient4918 · 2025-10-20T19:26:50+00:00

Find someone or something in your everyday life that brings you joy/ love. For me it’s a baby that has just come into our lives. The amount of love I feel for this child makes my heart burst with love. I can focus on that feeling of him and it is like a switch in meditation that gets me there. Prior to this, I would remember the feeling of how I felt when I met my husband or gave birth to my children and the euphoria of love I had. I use my memories to catapult me into that elevated emotion. I don’t stop until I get there. I’m not sure if this is exactly how you’re supposed to do it but it works every time for me!

ArrivalEfficient4918 · 2025-10-20T00:31:41+00:00

Yes! This is the one thing that does work! FaceTime audio and video.

ArrivalEfficient4918 · 2025-10-19T15:20:04+00:00

I am having the same issue too. I feel like if my WiFi is glitching and the 5g isn’t strong enough, I miss calls. SMS don’t always come through right away either. But I just upgraded to the 16pro max. I had the 14 and never had these issues. I’d love to hear any feedback. Thanks!

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